posted September 18, 2013 08:09 AM            

It seemed quite negative, the cards that she drew for me were the Hierophant, the Emperor and the Moon, all RESERVED !

The thing is he seems so different from what the reading says. He treats me like a queen, very honest and considerate. I feel so torn right now. I'm confused.

posted September 18, 2013 08:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Twirl:
Hi SF,

Not to break this thread, but I'm not sure it's all negative. Firstly emotions fluctuate & secondly it seems like you blew him of his feet & he lost control. Ergo: his feelings for you seem to have hit him off balance. Which I would translate as a definite impact. Lol.

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posted September 18, 2013 09:25 AM            

Not to interupt this thread but I remember reading in a book ( tips of tarot) that when all cards are reversed that you read them right side up it it just making the point strongly. Showing it is of great importance.

Anyway hope that helps you out.

posted September 18, 2013 09:31 AM            

If I may give you a small bit of advice.

posted September 18, 2013 09:43 AM            

QoP-KoW-2oW

posted September 18, 2013 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I did the if love mini spread for you.

QoP-KoW-2oW

Silver should you guys choose to be together I believe it would be a very good relationship. He really cares about you. Is he a Sag?

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posted September 18, 2013 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Silver,

If I may give you a small bit of advice.

You seem to really like this guy and from what you've shared with us he seems to really like you. That's great news! Love is a fabulous feeling to have in one's life. Nobody can accurately predict your future except God. Just place your faith and trust in Him and things will always turn out for the best! I assure you!

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posted September 19, 2013 06:32 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
Sure, i'll look into this once I have time. Congrats btw! Don't let readings send you on an emotional rollercoaster. Listen to what resonates with you. If readings upset you that much then you have to get yourself into a calm and grounded state before you ask. Also the less readings the better sometimes. If my readings don't make sense then ignore them, same as anyone else. We are all still learning on here.

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posted September 19, 2013 06:37 AM            

Him:the chariot

How he feels about you:five of swords

How he thinks about you:ten of swords

What he keeps from you:queen of cups

What he reveals to you:death

What he wants from this relationship age of wands

posted September 19, 2013 07:25 AM            

He talked to me about her and how she used him for her own reasons. He hasn't healed completely yet but he is getting over the pain nicely now.

I was with him yesterday, we had dinner together. There's a great deal of emotional intensity between us and that scares me. We have a great emotional impact on each other, it's almost like our emotions are wired together, entwined.

posted September 19, 2013 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
Maybe he feels like he doesn't deserve you and he is afraid to lose you. Like you are too good to be true. The swords cards made me think that.

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posted September 19, 2013 04:02 PM            

I think he's still affected by his previous relationship. I know that he is emotionally fragile at heart and he can't stand the pain of being hurt again. He's scared of losing what we have the same way it happened to him before. I FEEL THAT THIS CARD AND THE TEN OF SWORDS HAVE TO DO WITH HIS FEELINGS TOWARD HIS EX HEALING. BUT ARE YOU SURE SHE IS HIS EX? SHE MIGHT STILL BE IN THE PICTURE SOMEHOW. OR MAYBE HE IS STILL NOT COMPLETELY OVER HER?
How he thinks about you:ten of swords
I don't know is he torn ?
i THINK THAT HE HAS GONE THROUGH A DIFFICULT TIME WITH HIS EX AND SOME OF THOSE FEELINGS ARE POURING OVER INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP STILL. HE IS JUST TIRED OF WHAT HAPPENED. ITS NOT NECESSARILY NEGATIVE BECAUSE THE TEN OF SWORDS REPRESENTS ENDINGS. ITS LIKE THE DARK BEFORE THE DAWN. HE MAY FEEL THAT YOU ARE A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL. HE STILL HAS HEALING TO DO THOUGH.
What he keeps from you:queen of cups
a woman ? or an emotion/feeling ?
I THINK THIS IS SOMETHING TO DO WITH HIS EX. IS HE IN CONTACT WITH HER?
What he reveals to you:death
I can't find the right explanation for this..
DEATH CARD IS REPRESENTED BY SCORPIO. IT RULES TRANSFORMATION, DARK NIGHT OF THE SOUL, THE DEATH OF THE EGO. NOT NECESSARILY A BAD CARD. I LOVE THIS CARD. I FEEL ITS VERY POSITIVE. I THINK THAT THIS IS HOW HE FEELS AFTER HIS PAST RELATIONSHIP AND HE MAKES YOU AWARE OF IT. IT TOOK A LOT OUT OF HIM.
What he wants from this relationship age of wands
Do you mean ace or page of wands ??
HE WANTS TO TAKE A CHANCE ON THE RELATIONSHIP. THE PAGE IS INEXPERIENCED HOWEVER, AND IS NOT AS COMMITTED AS THE KING OF WANDS. MAY REPRESENT SOME DOUBT. HE HAS TO CLEAR THINGS UP WITH HIS EX FIRST.
How your relationship will evolve:ace of cups
seems pretty positive..hmm..
tHIS IS A GREAT CARD FOR THE OUTCOME! CAN REPRESENT THE BEGINNINGS OF LOVE, THE SEED OF A NEW RELATIONSHIP.

posted September 20, 2013 04:20 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
@silver could you do me a favor and pull a card for me? I have saturn, north node and venus all on my pluto. I want to know if i will finally meet him?

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posted September 20, 2013 04:35 AM            

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HIS EX IS ALL OVER THIS SPREAD! HE REALLY HAS TO WORK OUT HIS ISSUES WITH HER. I THINK THE PAST READINGS YOU GOT MIGHT HAVE BEEN ACCURATE. THE OUTCOME STILL SEEMS POSITIVE BUT HE JUST HAS TO RESOLVE THINGS WITH HER. sORRY FOR THE BIG LETTERS, I JUST WANTED TO MAKE THIS EASIER TO READ. HOPE THIS HELPS!

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He had another ex who had cancer and lied about it. She didn't tell him anything even though they were together for 2 years. He felt deceived and left out when he realized everyone else knew it but him.

She broke up with him when he tried to confront her about it. He stayed single for a year and then met another girl. His second ex was the possessive and jealous type and he didn't like that about her. He remained in contact with his sick fist ex because he told me he couldn't leave all alone at such a critical time.
Things get ugly between the three of them and his second ex couldn't stand it. They broke up and his first ex left for Germany because she needed special therapy.

When he talks about his first ex, there is no resentment or anger in his eyes more like a soft sadness to them. He told me she was special to him and the fact that they broke up due to her not wanting him to see her die makes him somehow yearning for what they had.

I have nothing against her and I'm nothing like his second ex but if he is still in love with his first ex then what's the use of wanting to date me ??

posted September 20, 2013 04:55 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
Thats some crazy stuff..queen of cups is a cancer. How ironic.

No i didnt predict it correctly thanks for drawing the card. I drew it earlier today as well.

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That's good, so you only have to remain patient for now

posted September 20, 2013 05:13 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
No, he has feelings for you. Its just he has to get past his issues. Not sure if it will last though but stay in the moment. Don't overworry yourself.

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posted September 20, 2013 05:15 AM            

You're someone who has a certain unwavering quality about you. You're trustworthy and though things may get tough a times you do always try to stay positive as you do believe that things do get better despite the times when sht hits the fan.

Him:Strength (R)

At his best ihe is a man of great character and emotional and mental strength, however at the moment due to some of his past experiences he's feeling like he's on uneven ground. He constantly second guesses himself.

How he feels about you:

Tower (R)

He's going through a lot of chaotic emotions right now, and appears to be primarily focused on that.

How he thinks about you: five of pentacles

He's really struggling emotionally right now. He is feeling isolated and lost and that energy seems to be surrounding him.

What he keeps from you: page of pentacles (R)

He's quite emotionally unavaliable right now. Seems like he wants to distract himself from it when he should really be working on that first.

What he reveals to you: Lovers

Usually Lovers is about choices, but I think in this case it's more like he shows affection and be aware it's a front, he's still stuck on his baggage.

What he wants from this relationship: 9 of wands

He wants to take things slow I think. Seems to be holding you at arms length (inside). It's just because he's emotionally worn.

How your relationship will evolve: Empress

The good news is, if you give him space to deal with his issues, he will come about and your future relationship will turn out to be nurturing, emotionally fulfilling and loving.

Good luck hun .