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FireMoon
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posted September 21, 2013 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I met someone recently and I'm not sure what to make of the situation.. There's definitely a strong attraction but I'm trying to be cautious and not jump into anything too quickly

I'm not a huge fan of the synastry, but it does explain the push-pull energy we have going on. The composite is interesting though, it almost looks promising except with all the planets in the 5th including Uranus I'm thinking if anything happens it's meant to be an intense but temporary fling??

I can exchange with a tarot reading if anyone has thoughts or comments

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littlecloud
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posted September 23, 2013 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you posted this synastry before? For some reason it looks familiar. Also did you reduce the orbs?

I have to say I also don't like the synastry too much. There's a lot of conjunctions and both moon aren't well aspected so it's like you don't get the emotional support you need. Most people like conjunctions but they forget that the intensity is not just good stuff, it's the not so great things about a sign or planet that is also emphasized. Sun/Saturn is very binding, especially so close to your DSC but it's also limiting, so what the Sun person once found supportive and dependable may become almost parental and overbearing. In a romantic relationship it would require a lot of understanding and compromise. There aren't too many outer-inner aspects and it looks like a lot of the conjunctions are between the outer planets as well.

Also his (outer person) Neptune on your (inner) DSC may give you the impression that he is your dream man and smooth a lot of things over with that Neptune quality but you need to make sure you are seeing clearly and also that he is telling the truth. One couple I know had this aspect and she thought he was the perfect man, that he could do no wrong and that love would hold them together and help them figure things out, only to find out after they were married that he had lied to her about things that were important. Eventually they divorced, not because of the lies but they certainly added up to the mistrust that led her to her decision.

The composite definitely looks very promising and way better than the synastry. Venus and Uranus are conjunct but also trine Uranus (widely) which helps. Yes the 5th house is not really 'forever' love but it is romantic love, the stuff you do that makes you feel in love which may be the central theme between the two of you. It very well may end up being short lived but likely with good feelings intact, remaining friends.

I'm not sure if this answered your question, let me know if there is anything else I can help with.

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FireMoon
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posted September 23, 2013 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey thanks for your response, I haven't posted this synastry before, but the last guy I dated was a Gemini sun Sag moon so that could be it lol. Originally I thought he was a Cancer moon but had entered in the wrong birth time so idk what it is about Gemini placements but it's definitely been a pattern

As for the synastry, I didn't reduce the orbs but yeah it seems like there's just not a lot going on. A lot of unaspected planets but since we were born only about a month apart there's still conjunctions (mars widely conjunct mars, etc.) I don't like that his venus is unaspected except for being exactly conjunct my lilith though... If lilith in synastry can become dark, obsessive, etc. I'm wondering how it would play out/who would feel it more in this case

Also very true about Saturn and Neptune. I'm used to dealing with these aspects to an extent since I have them natally too, but yeah I agree it's probably better to avoid relationships that activate them even more

Overall I like the composite too though. And 5th house can be very fun/romantic as you said... So I guess I'm mainly just wondering if a good composite can really outweigh bad synastry??

Anyway, thanks again, let me know if I you want a tarot reading

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littlecloud
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posted September 24, 2013 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I personally prefer a good synastry because it's an actual concrete thing. A composite is more or less imaginary, taking the midpoint of both charts. Also the synastry is how you would relate to each other in an everyday type of way. A good composite will make a relationship possible where the synastry is iffy. Ideally having a good chart for each is the best, but having a better composite often helps the relationship progress into a relationship to begin with, even it's short lived or rocky.

As for a reading for me...well why not. I'm curious about my love life coming up into the next few months. I'm sorta involved with someone right now...but something general is ok.

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FireMoon
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posted September 28, 2013 02:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
I personally prefer a good synastry because it's an actual concrete thing. A composite is more or less imaginary, taking the midpoint of both charts. Also the synastry is how you would relate to each other in an everyday type of way. A good composite will make a relationship possible where the synastry is iffy. Ideally having a good chart for each is the best, but having a better composite often helps the relationship progress into a relationship to begin with, even it's short lived or rocky.

As for a reading for me...well why not. I'm curious about my love life coming up into the next few months. I'm sorta involved with someone right now...but something general is ok.


Hey sorry for the very delayed response... For your love life coming up I pulled a few cards and got The Tower rx- Page of Pentacles- Ace of Cups

So it seems like there might be some unsettling changes or transition you might want to resist at first but the other cards show it'll be for the best... page of pents could represent something in your career or possibly a new love interest/relationship (with an emphasis on physical attraction maybe lol) but either way pages show new beginnings.. And then ace of cups shows emotional fulfillment so I would say overall it's pretty optimistic!

Anyway thanks again and let me know if you want me to ask for something more specific....

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