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Topic: My chart: Why do I feel so lost & hopeless?
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Enlightened Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 05:04 PM
I'm in my thirties, I feel miserable and like I am not my own person...not sure where I should be or WHO I should be..anyone care to look here and tell me anything that would be helpful? Good or bad...thanks IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 284 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted September 22, 2013 05:12 PM
Post your chart with current transits.IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 1704 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 22, 2013 05:30 PM
Just my two cents. I'm no expert. I just wanted to help. I would say sun in the 12th house would make you feel invisible or as if you are not yourself in public.
Then to top it off it is with Chiron so this would make it painful to bear. The neptune in your 7th house might make you or people looking at you believe in the illusion and things just fall apart after. For example, you walk into a job and people assume great things about you and your experience,when in reality you might have been completely straight with them about what you can or can not do. They build upon this illusion and expect you to perform according to this. It's not your fault but...then their assumptions about you to them seem real and they are very disappointed that you cannot meet their expectations. Both sides I see resentment and frustration. With sun in the 12th, you will most definitely have a hidden talent. Poetry, singing, music, writing, sports, acting etc... Something you are too shy to express. For you, time alone is good for you. You might think about doing something like that requires you to work alone. Writing a novel. Making music and uploading it onto youtube. Even working in a lab or hospital is good for you. Ketu in your 9th might also lead to this feeling of being blocked or directionless in terms of your destiny.
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Enlightened Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 07:36 PM
Anne- how do i do that?Dreamin- thank you for the insight. None of That makes me feel very optimistic IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 1704 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 22, 2013 09:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Enlightened: Anne- how do i do that?Dreamin- thank you for the insight. None of That makes me feel very optimistic
Wait, you asked why you felt the way you do. I was only giving you relevant info as to why you feel this way. Everyone has a weak point in their chart. Everyone. And everyone has a strength. You have good things in your chart as well. But I kept my post relevant to the topic.
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Enlightened Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 09:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: Wait, you asked why you felt the way you do. I was only giving you relevant info as to why you feel this way. Everyone has a weak point in their chart. Everyone. And everyone has a strength. You have good things in your chart as well. But I kept my post relevant to the topic.
Gotcha. Can you tell me something good? Lol. I'm so sick of feeling this way.. IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 1704 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 22, 2013 10:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Enlightened: Gotcha. Can you tell me something good? Lol. I'm so sick of feeling this way..
Are you a guy or girl and what is your partner preference if you have not already gotten with someone. IP: Logged |
Enlightened Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 10:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: Are you a guy or girl and what is your partner preference if you have not already gotten with someone.
I'm a woman and I prefer men. I am currently in the process of getting out of a relationship that is not working for me and nervous of being alone forever IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 1704 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 22, 2013 10:26 PM
You could be someone famous and earn money without working at a 9-5. You are very appealing and attractive to others. You would speak focusing on spirituality, high consciousness. You are probably not much of a speaker now or maybe not as refined ... but you will be. You might be feeling alone but that will be healed once you get into the right career path. When you do this your emotional needs will be met and you will feel secure once again. Again you are someone people are drawn to whether you like it or agree it hardly matters. People really take a liking for you. Once you work on how to speak, when to speak and when not to, you will earn more money and friends. Look I have junk in my horoscope and it's all about perspective. Can't cry over all the problems....actually I do at times. lol but you have to look for a silver lining. I was reading the Gita last night and I'm not a fan or any religious text. To me religion is more about brainwashing than anything and I have always chosen to figure out things for myself. I mean if they did it years ago surely I can figure some things out or validate it with my own experience. Right? Otherwise it's a waste of time to me and I don't want to be brainwashed by the wrong ideas. Anyway, so I was reading the intro of it. And they were just talking about how in life...you have to treat it as an adventure. Go out and have a ball. The mansion of mirth = life. There is no room for weakness or resting on your laurels. Yesterday also a friend of mine was telling me the same thing but his analogy was video games. haha. His idea is get into a sticky situation and try to get out of it in the video game. If you can you have that added onto your strength if you can't it's a weakness that you need to work on and OVERcome. You need to make that into your strength. Push yourself to do what you normally wouldn't do. Get out of the comfort zone. Anyway, I think they are related in that you have to continue to work on yourself as I do and as everyone on this planet and probably universe does. In that context our problems are not really that grand. Everything is doable. IP: Logged |
Enlightened Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 22, 2013 10:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: You could be someone famous and earn money without working at a 9-5. You are very appealing and attractive to others. You would speak focusing on spirituality, high consciousness. You are probably not much of a speaker now or maybe not as refined ... but you will be. You might be feeling alone but that will be healed once you get into the right career path. When you do this your emotional needs will be met and you will feel secure once again. Again you are someone people are drawn to whether you like it or agree it hardly matters. People really take a liking for you. Once you work on how to speak, when to speak and when not to, you will earn more money and friends. Look I have junk in my horoscope and it's all about perspective. Can't cry over all the problems....actually I do at times. lol but you have to look for a silver lining. I was reading the Gita last night and I'm not a fan or any religious text. To me religion is more about brainwashing than anything and I have always chosen to figure out things for myself. I mean if they did it years ago surely I can figure some things out or validate it with my own experience. Right? Otherwise it's a waste of time to me and I don't want to be brainwashed by the wrong ideas. Anyway, so I was reading the intro of it. And they were just talking about how in life...you have to treat it as an adventure. Go out and have a ball. The mansion of mirth = life. There is no room for weakness or resting on your laurels. Yesterday also a friend of mine was telling me the same thing but his analogy was video games. haha. His idea is get into a sticky situation and try to get out of it in the video game. If you can you have that added onto your strength if you can't it's a weakness that you need to work on and OVERcome. You need to make that into your strength. Push yourself to do what you normally wouldn't do. Get out of the comfort zone. Anyway, I think they are related in that you have to continue to work on yourself as I do and as everyone on this planet and probably universe does. In that context our problems are not really that grand. Everything is doable.
Interesting synopsis...I too have always felt I was destined to be in the limelight, as much as I try to shy away from it.. As far as people taking a liking to me, yes that;s true. also, the part about speaking and learning how & when.,..can you elaborate on that? I need some help with that!! And as far as love, do you get anything off the chart? IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Newflake Posts: 22 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 23, 2013 12:40 AM
With your Sun Venus ruled and your Moon Neptune ruled, and that Venus-Neptune opposition, you might have trouble in that area. If my calculations are correct, you have a retrograde return of Venus to your Natal position, which could account for the lost, disoriented feeling you say you have. It can be helped by the Trine-Sextile to the North Node and Mars-Jupiter. I would gladly give you a Transit Report if I had the correct information and an e-mail address. IP: Logged |
Enlightened Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 23, 2013 09:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx: With your Sun Venus ruled and your Moon Neptune ruled, and that Venus-Neptune opposition, you might have trouble in that area. If my calculations are correct, you have a retrograde return of Venus to your Natal position, which could account for the lost, disoriented feeling you say you have. It can be helped by the Trine-Sextile to the North Node and Mars-Jupiter. I would gladly give you a Transit Report if I had the correct information and an e-mail address.
Thanks so much Ellyn. My email is enlightened8228@yahoo.com Is there anything else you need from me?
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Milkyshutter Knowflake Posts: 214 From: Bellingham, WA Registered: May 2012
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posted September 23, 2013 10:40 AM
Hi Englightened. I think you are a very beautiful person. And, you have helped me immensely. I just want to let you know that even if you are going thru a difficult time, your work is being appreciated by many people. Don't let one man bring you down. It just means that you will meet a much better person in the future. IP: Logged |
Enlightened Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 23, 2013 10:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Milkyshutter: Hi Englightened. I think you are a very beautiful person. And, you have helped me immensely. I just want to let you know that even if you are going thru a difficult time, your work is being appreciated by many people. Don't let one man bring you down. It just means that you will meet a much better person in the future.
Aw thanks Milky...the thing is, this isn't really about a man, it's about me and feeling unfulfilled in life! I just want to feel like I'm on the right path, and I don't feel that way AT ALL.
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Enlightened Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 24, 2013 10:32 AM
Just bumping for some more help IP: Logged |