posted September 24, 2013 10:02 PM            

Heres my dilemma, hopefully I can sum it up fairly short.

I finally kicked to the curb the guy, lets call him"A", I "dated" on/off for almost 7 years because he couldn't commit. Real smart on my part right? I wasted my good years on that fool!

Well in June I met a guy, lets call him "J", out when I was celebrating my friends birthday. I didn't anticipate meeting anyone, I wasn't in the mood as I kicked the other fool out of my life a few weeks prior to me meeting "J". Things were going good, dating, going out, getting to know each other and then one random Monday, September 9th actually, he drops a bomb on me: that he's going to go back to his ex to try to work it out for the millionth time. I was hurt because I had seen him the day prior and he he didn't have the guts to tell me then so instead he calls. Well the following day the begging me back/sorry texts began and continue.

I'm confused because even though there is no other guy in my life, and this fool is constant in his apologies, I feel like there may be someone else out there for me but I'm not 21 anymore, I'm 33. What if he's it for me? I also don't want to settle either.

So my confusion lies in whether I stay or go. Do I stay with this guy and give him another chance or do I leave him for good and hope that Prince Charming comes strolling by soon?

Stupid, I know and my story is long so my apologies but if someone can clear up this confusion in my mind and heart with a few cards, I'd greatly appreciate it!

Side note: out of nowhere I started thinking about a guy I had a huge crush on and casually dated in college. Very random.

Thank you for reading/listening!

posted September 25, 2013 01:58 AM            

What I feel is the cards are telling you to be logical as Queen of swords as opposed to the emotional state u r currently in. So, it is asking you to turn ur back towards this guy as he himself has not come out of his past clear. By 3 of wands I would also read it as anticipate for another love to arrive in your way. However I try to interpret I dont see something favorable between you and J.

posted September 26, 2013 01:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreamy Fish:
Thanks Cathy1980! I feel a sense of clarity now. Another love to arrive in my way, that sounds promising!

Thank you for putting my mind at ease. I woke up this morning feeling liberated! Strange.

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