posted September 29, 2013 03:28 AM            

i do not know his birth time

me:

(NOTE: 12PM because no birth time available for him (taurus)

posted September 29, 2013 04:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
You guys do seem to have some pretty rough oppositions and squares, which could cause some problems relating to one another. However, I really just wanted to say that if you love him then make sure he knows that. My ex used to always say he hated me when he was angry. That is game playing, because you are only saying that to "win" the fight, or cut the other person down to size. It may help you feel like you have the upper hand in an argument, but in the long run you are damaging the relationship. If you really love him, then act lke it. It's easy to say things you don't mean in the heat of an argument, but sometimes it's better to step away and cool off a bit so you can discuss the problem when both of you are in a calmer state of mind. I know that's easier said than done, but you should apologize for anything hurtful that you said when you were angry. Even if he was being unreasonable in the way he was acting towards you, lashing out at him with hurtful words only adds fuel to the fire. I think a genuine apology goes a long way. I hope this helps.

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posted September 29, 2013 05:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
You do have many positive aspects...sun trine moon, sun conjunct Saturn and Jupiter, Pluto trine moon, Saturn sextile moon, Saturn sextile Saturn. Your Scorpio ascendant, Pluto and Venus conjuncts his Lilith(should=really great sex). I'm very Scorpio with Lilith influences, so I'm jealous;-) Also 4 of his planets are in your 7th house. You also both have moons in air signs. The Taurus and Scorpio oppositions could go either way. They challenge one another, but also the water and earth elements can work together...opposites attract type of situation. One thing is that both of your Neptunes are aspected, which can be very dreamy and romantic, or can cause you to not really understand one another. Also, the lack of positive Mercury aspects can make communication difficult.

Like most relationships, you have good and bad. It just made me sad, because lack of understanding, communication, and saying things out of anger can ruin an otherwise promising relationship. My first reaction was to tell you that if you really love him, don't tell him that you hate him out of anger. I know first hand how these things said in the heat of an argument can cause damage to a loving relationship. I think especially when people are scared to lose the other person, they sometimes react really harshly when in arguments, and that only makes the situation worse. Good luck.

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