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Topic: Engaged..synastry reading please
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LionFish
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posted October 02, 2013 06:15 AM
  
I've asked for a few synastry/composite readings, but never one for my fiance and I since I've learned his accurate birth time. And I was wondering if I could get some insight into these charts..I feel like I'm not where I belong. I know I love him, but gosh I don't think he feels the same... syn:
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LionFish
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posted October 02, 2013 07:18 AM
I could do well enough without the Moon/Mars opposition. Even with Moon sq Jupiter and Moon sq Saturn. At least Moon/Saturn contacts are a fated situation.I don't want to give too much of what I feel before people have their chance to read, though. So if you have any thoughts, please chime in. IP: Logged |
Selene
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posted October 02, 2013 07:23 AM
Interesting. What i saw first is that you don't have any planets in his relationship houses (except for Pluto in 5th), whereas he does have 4 planets in your 7th house.. I wonder if his 5th, 7th and 8th house rulers make any significant aspects to your personal planets. IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted October 02, 2013 07:47 AM
Well, first and foremost, his 7H ruler (Saturn) is trine my Venus. And I've actually never noticed this. But it feels like Saturn is a stifling, controlling, domineering force on Venus. I feel like this aspect is why I'm always the one who is in the wrong. Like Saturn (all adult and mature) dislikes and blames Venus for acting like a love-sick puppy dog, but secretly desires the attention.I've never really looked at his house rulers in comparison to my chart.. Thanks Selene, I'll continue looking at this  IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted October 02, 2013 07:50 AM
Honestly, just from the Moons in the synastry chart, it looks like a sad case to me..IP: Logged |
slowpoke
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posted October 02, 2013 03:55 PM
There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart, a color coded chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have. Here is an example: see slowpoke http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/008126.html
General instructions:
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting
A Synastry Aspecting Chart for you:
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting#!in-the-closet-astro-tools/c1s43
Slowpoke
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starmoon
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posted October 02, 2013 06:40 PM
the moons are in compatible elements, but aren't doing anything that would indicate a long-lasting connection. the first thing i saw was his 3-planet stellium in your 7th. now - all the debate about who feels what house v. planet person - my own conclusion is that the house person feels much more than the planet person, so ... you would see him as your ideal mate/partner but he might not return that sentiment to the same degree. your ASC/DSC signs are just not natural partners either - cancer/leo? odd match... and the mars opp. moon and the two plutos conjunct could mean some disagreements/combativeness instead of harmony. your own major planets are hitting his 10th, so you're probably someone he really sees as influencial somehow to his career/friendships more than anything. were you the aggressor/pursued him more in the relationship? but all just opinion :-)IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted October 02, 2013 06:58 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
the moons are in compatible elements, but aren't doing anything that would indicate a long-lasting connection. the first thing i saw was his 3-planet stellium in your 7th. now - all the debate about who feels what house v. planet person - my own conclusion is that the house person feels much more than the planet person, so ... you would see him as your ideal mate/partner but he might not return that sentiment to the same degree. your ASC/DSC signs are just not natural partners either - cancer/leo? odd match... and the mars opp. moon and the two plutos conjunct could mean some disagreements/combativeness instead of harmony. your own major planets are hitting his 10th, so you're probably someone he really sees as influencial somehow to his career/friendships more than anything. were you the aggressor/pursued him more in the relationship? but all just opinion :-)
I'm not sure who was the aggressor,really. We just really enjoyed each other's company so we always hung out/talked/texted until one night he, and I honestly think he was talking to himself because it was soooooooo very quiet, gave me this super long drawn out hug and whispered quiet as a mouse that he was in love with me. I didn't respond then because it honestly felt like I wasn't supposed to hear it or know about it, weird as that may seem... A few weeks later he said it to me again, only that time he meant for it to be heard. We've pretty much been together since we met so I don't think there was a chance for an aggressor/pursuer in our case. And I fully agree with the house person feeling the planets fall in their chart. So yes, him hitting my 7th definitely piqued my interest. Gosh dang sexy Aquarian that he is  And the bit about our Ascendants.. geez I know right. Cancer/Leo... what the f is that business? I want to go play and frolic and he wants to sit at home and have the fun come to him.. RAWR it's frustrating. I don't know if he feels that I'm influential/beneficial for his career/friendships, but he has greatly enlarged his circle of friends/possible business partners since we started dating/living together. Thanks for your thoughts star! IP: Logged |
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