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Topic: What is a reason that people dont like me when they first meet me?
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AnastasiyaEnchanted
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 03, 2013 02:10 PM
  
For some reason i am usually not very good at making friends, i don't know why but when i first meet people they just seem to give off a vibe that they want nothing to do with me. I have a libra ascendant so i am very kind to other people and come off as being too sweet and considerate. Like you know those people that as soon as they sit in a group everyone immediately likes them and wants to be friends with them. I am the complete opposite of that. I only have a couple of really close friends. But if someone gets to know me a bit better, they get really attached to me and always say that I am the best friend they ever had, so i know that i have a good enough personality. Can anyone please tell me if there anything in my chart that puts people off when they first meet me? http://i43.tinypic.com/zogqva.gif
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Gracha
Newflake Posts: 18
From: NY USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 03, 2013 05:46 PM
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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
For some reason i am usually not very good at making friends, i don't know why but when i first meet people they just seem to give off a vibe that they want nothing to do with me. I have a libra ascendant so i am very kind to other people and come off as being too sweet and considerate. Like you know those people that as soon as they sit in a group everyone immediately likes them and wants to be friends with them. I am the complete opposite of that. I only have a couple of really close friends. But if someone gets to know me a bit better, they get really attached to me and always say that I am the best friend they ever had, so i know that i have a good enough personality. Can anyone please tell me if there anything in my chart that puts people off when they first meet me?
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Maybe you should post using tinypic because they dont link back to your photo album and plus your chart would be viewable for all to see. Im still learning astrology tbh. Maybe someone could see you as being too into the self,too serious having self doubt with mercury squaring saturn. Im not sure maybe you come across as being too detached emotionally to others with the libra ascendant trine aquarius moon. Sorry i couldnt be of more assistance. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 147
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 03, 2013 08:10 PM
I'm not able to view the chart, but I can tell you from experience that I have the same problem and I have Mercury square Saturn.IP: Logged |
blueskiez06
Knowflake Posts: 61
From:
Registered: Oct 2012
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posted October 04, 2013 06:29 AM
Anastasia there is nothing wrong with having few friends ... quality trumps quantity, but i understand that you might want a bigger network i guess, on account of being young and all ... you did not write why people find you offputting, do you come on to strong, or are too flamboyant, i personally think your chart is good, 11th house of friends ruled by leo, also you have libra ascendant which gives social grace ... the only ity bitty thing is maybe that the majority of your first house is Scorpio, ruled by Pluto which is conjunct your Sun and Mercury and squaring moon in Aqua at that - these aspects are pretty intense, your not everbodys cup of tea..are you emotioanlly intense, or are you vibing lower pluto like manipulative ..., Aqua moon can seem quite detached, also Saturn sits in your 5th house putting a damper on all things fun...idk just my guessIP: Logged |
filleaspirant
Knowflake Posts: 160
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 04, 2013 02:58 PM
Anastasiya, I also don't think you should fret about having few friends. I'm still pretty new to astrology, but I think this steams from the lack of planets in your 11th house, the house of friends, most of your inner planets being in Sagittarius (the friendly sign) and your Moon being in Aquarius. I think that everything in you tells you to make more friends, but people will have a hard time connecting with you because of that Moon. I also have Aqua Moon, so I should know. Also, do you really care to be friends with everyone? Aquarius energy usually comes through and make us be a tad bit less emotion-driven than those without its energy... Do you live in a small city? If you do, that might also be the reason you feel so afflicted about having so few friends. You're probably too different, too quirky to fit in with everyone else, and there's nothing wrong with that. Being liked by everyone is overrated, you know.  IP: Logged | |
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