posted October 07, 2013 07:20 PM            

She's Mercury, I'm Jupiter.

Mercury is trining Jupiter which is supposed to be good, but we haven't been talking or making plans, so I'm confused.

Moon and Venus are both square Mars, so those must be me? I'm mad at her. She never goes out of her way for me or appreciates the things I do.

Moon is conjunct Venus, another applying aspect.

posted October 07, 2013 08:43 PM            

I think the trine here is just showing that the relationship exists. Perhaps that you might meet her in a few weeks (you're both in suceedant houses).

Uranus in 1st house indicates surprising events. Since Uranus is very afflicted, they might be very unpleasant surprises to you.

You're in loving but resentful Cancer. I'd say you feel hurt by her, but would rather not broach the subject, if only things can go back to the way they were. You want to go out and have fun together, but you're holding a grudge for some reason.

She's in secretive Scorpio. She might be hiding something from herself, from you or both. You're in her 11th house, so I'd say she still sees you as a friend. Mercury is tightly conjunct to Saturn, who can be seen as a third party. Is she dating? She might be keeping a fledgeling relationship under the wraps or boyfriend-problems under the lid.

posted October 07, 2013 08:47 PM            

She actually came by today after I haven't heard from her all week and picked up her spare car key. She needed it and I didn't ask why, but it kind of popped in my head that that was a sideways move of her getting her extra key back.

So, I heard from her today, and saw her and it wasn't as awkward as I thought but I'm still highly annoyed. She's hanging out with her boyfriend and her other best friend, and she knows I've been having a difficult time adjusting to moving out. I don't want all her time, but some concern would be nice.

posted October 07, 2013 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Hanna, I don't think it works that way... In all person-related questions we have to use 7th house, or we couldn't ask a question about a person that dislikes us and is an "enemy".

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It depends the person's role in the question I think. Your site says: "If the question surrounds a friend, an 11th house subject, the 2nd house shows the end of matters in regard to such a question."

posted October 07, 2013 09:28 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I thought we don't use Uranus, Neptune or Pluto in Horary?

She actually came by today after I haven't heard from her all week and picked up her spare car key. She needed it and I didn't ask why, but it kind of popped in my head that that was a sideways move of her getting her extra key back.

So, I heard from her today, and saw her and it wasn't as awkward as I thought but I'm still highly annoyed. She's hanging out with her boyfriend and her other best friend, and she knows I've been having a difficult time adjusting to moving out. I don't want all her time, but some concern would be nice.

Your astrology site IS super helpful! She says the 4th house from the subject house (so for example I'm asking about my friendship, that's an 11H matter so the 2nd house) shows the end or conclusion of the question. So we have Taurus in the 2nd house, that opposes it's ruler Venus in the 8th. Thoughts?

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We don't use Uranus, Neptune and Pluto as significators, but they can be interpreted as influences on the situation to unfold.

Like I said, I'm still learning how to interpret things and outcomes are tricky, but if we apply this logic of 4th house, it's good news for your friendship. Venus is just out of detriment in Scorpio and coming to term in friendly, fun Sagittarius but still in 8th House, which is not good for some reason I can't recall right now... It's a couple of degrees away from entering 9th house, so maybe this talk we'll be done in a weekend getaway?

I think I'm rambling and not making much of a sense... sorry.

Anyhow, why don't you approach her and talk this out? Be open about your feelings... she's hiding something and you openning up might help her talk about this "secret".

posted October 07, 2013 09:32 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
So one site says it's this... and another says it's wishes and hopes and stuff. Can we get a third objective opinion? I mean I don't know or anything but Ceridwen, or Hera are bound to! ( )

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It's very hard to get good info in the internet, so I tend to apply only the things that I've read in more than one place... If I read something different, I keep it for referencing but don't apply on the interpretation.

posted October 07, 2013 09:33 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
It's very hard to get good info in the internet, so I tend to apply only the things that I've read in more than one place... If I read something different, I keep it for referencing but don't apply on the interpretation.

Hopefully they'll tell us what's really supposed to be done in this case

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posted October 07, 2013 09:41 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm terrible at being open about my feelings. And I sense if I were to bring my unhappiness to the table then she would immediately feel attacked no matter what, and point out something I did equally offensive. So...I'd just rather not. Besides, her actions right now and the past year or so speak louder than an apology ever would.

Do you feel like attacking another chart with me?

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Omg, you're a woman on a mission, aren't you? I can try, but I'll make more sense tomorrow, with fresher eyes.