posted October 08, 2013 11:50 AM            

Hi Chiemi, sorry about your current troubles, but what are you doing exactly?

The cards i used gave me a resounding no, and that rarely happens. Basically it is understandable why you are angry, but try not to do anything till you get all the facts about everything, like the real truth not the 'spoken' one.

The advise cards just asked you try and be more prudent and 'rise above' what is going internally. A healthy break, not angry one of some sort is also advised.

posted October 08, 2013 05:17 PM            

The main issue is that 2/3 of my roommates don't like me for whatever reason but they won't admit it. They keep claiming I don't contribute to the room so I shouldn't use their stuff but I brought a TV, DVDS,DVR, tool box, tissue, bottled water, cleaning supplies, a bathroom rug, gave them my spare light bulb for their lamp, a stack of paper for one girls printer that I only used once and probably more. So yeah they cut me off from the wi-fi and they even vandalized my TV by messing with the metal prong purposely. I think I have the situation under control though because my mom ended up calling the cops on them (without my permission) but it worked out because now they're scared to try anything. And the other day after we revised our roommate agreement they were caught off guard that I actually screenshot a tweet one of the girls made that said she hated one of her roommates (me) and 3 other tweets and that I took pictures of what they did to my TV. I also have a tape recorder that I've been using when I talk to them that they aren't aware of either.

posted October 09, 2013 08:46 AM            

Ah that's a sticky situation. But why don't you want to move and get away from them...they're stupid and will think they have 'won one' but in truth you would, as you would protect yourself from further malice on their parts...and they like use all your stuff, and have your life under their eyes to damage and scrutinize if you don't.

or is it because you want them to to move out?

i don't know everything in me is telling me to tell you to just get away from that lot, and then let them do what they want.

posted October 09, 2013 03:35 PM            

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Originally posted by NoRainNoRainbows:

Ah that's a sticky situation. But why don't you want to move and get away from them...they're stupid and will think they have 'won one' but in truth you would, as you would protect yourself from further malice on their parts...and they like use all your stuff, and have your life under their eyes to damage and scrutinize if you don't.

or is it because you want them to to move out?

i don't know everything in me is telling me to tell you to just get away from that lot, and then let them do what they want.

Anyway sorry you are going through this, some people are just awful for no reason. one can only hope they grow up soon, but you take care of your own self for now.

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Aww, thank you !
And I'm hoping that they feel uncomfortable and move out because I feel like they need to learn that if you mess with someone, you need to deal with the consequences if they just so happen to fight back. I don't mind moving but for me it's more than letting them "win" but more about teaching them a lesson so that they don't think that they could do this to someone again.

And I think by now they should know better to damage my stuff, they didn't think that I would take pictures of what they did to my TV or that I would screenshot the tweets one girl made about me and show them to the Residential Assistant nor did they think my mom would call the cops. So it's good that they get to see just what happens when you mess with someone and you don't know what they're capable of.