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From: Denver, PA, USA
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posted October 08, 2013 12:42 PM            

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Hello,
This is my 1st time so please be patient with me. I can't talk to any friends or family about this. I'll be as brief as possible.
I've met a man recently that I feel a powerful magnetic draw to, I feel like I've been best friends for a long time when I first met him, a very warm comfortable feeling not the nervous type energy I experience with sexual attraction only. There are other feelings as well. From what he tells me he feels the same. We've been intimate 2 times since meeting 3 months ago. I've been trying to cut things off but I just can't. We talk almost every day.
The problems are, we are both married but even worse is that I met him at my husbands new job, he is my husbands new boss. Please don't be too harsh but any insight what I'm dealing with would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you for taking the time to read my post

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posted October 08, 2013 12:49 PM            

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Ouch, that's quite a horrible place where your at, and i can see you are angry at yourself, and hurt that you are hurting people you love, but the heart really has a mind of it's own.

First is everything okay between you and your husband?

why don't you post your synastry charts with both your husband and with this guy and maybe then we can see what planets are behind this attraction you feel to the man, and what is going on between you and your husband that the spark that keeps people together, seems to have flown elsewhere?

anyway {{HUGS}} most people here aren't judgmental, so no worries.

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posted October 08, 2013 01:11 PM            

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I wouldn't describe my marriage as bad, it's had its ups and downs but I always felt getting through those gave strength.
You're right, I am beating myself up over this, I'm not the type of person to cause pain, I know how it feels so I do my best not to inflict it on others. I honestly didn't choose this.
I don't have any synastry charts but will do my best to get & post them.
{{ hugging back tightly}} thank you so much!!

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posted October 08, 2013 01:18 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted October 08, 2013 03:06 PM            

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Thanks for the welcome Randall

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posted October 08, 2013 03:46 PM            

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I'm having 1 heck of a time getting a synastry chart, I know bdays, locations but not time

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posted October 08, 2013 04:34 PM            

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You can use 12:00 as theirs... You'll just have to ignore any aspect made to their ASC and house overlays, and possibly the moon, if the day they were born had its moon changing signs.

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