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Topic: tarot reading request-embarassing question...
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whitewitch111 Knowflake Posts: 846 From: Hillsboro, OR, USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 03:32 AM
Ok, here it goes, so my boyfriend has problems maintaining erections, I mean in certain positions, in others he can no problem. I admit, he is thirteen years older then me, at 32, and I at 19. Well, I decided to have sex with him the other day, even though I really shouldn't be at this point. Anyway, I didn't want to be on top, and I wanted him to be, but it once again didn't work out this way. So I'm just wondering if the tarot can answer this, because I can't figure it out, and neither can he, and he doesn't have health insurance to go the doctor right now, so I am wondering if the tarot can answer this. Is this psychological, or physical? Is there anything he/we can do to fix this? I would love it if anyone could help.IP: Logged |
Love&Light Knowflake Posts: 952 From: India Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 11, 2013 10:51 AM
Both enthusiasm and desire are lacking for some reason. IP: Logged |
Twirl Knowflake Posts: 2255 From: Europe Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 11:13 AM
I think it might be in the mind/emotional level to be honest. If I look in my cards I think he is actually in awe of women on a divine level. So much that it feels like having sex might feel like 'violating that innocence/pureness' on a deeper level. This idea seems to block the excitement and/or possibly some other unknown fears that come up/making him fearful giving the power away. You may want to look into how his mum was treated by men as well/his connection to her. There might be something there and/or some othe emotional dissapointment related to the past. It's not like he likes to drink when it happens, right? IP: Logged |
redshoes Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 11, 2013 12:04 PM
WW it may help to look into his chart to confirm the things that Twirl is referring to....i had two r/ships with men that had mother issues and both of them had sexual probsIP: Logged |
whitewitch111 Knowflake Posts: 846 From: Hillsboro, OR, USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 01:26 PM
This is his birth chart, can anyone help out? [IMG]http://i1356.photobucket.com/albums/q730/frankieelizabeth/briansbirthchart_ zpsea1ff4fb.gif[/IMG]
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redshoes Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 11, 2013 02:07 PM
Looks like he has a moon-pluto aspect...here is some info on it...the guy i was with had the conjunction and had such major issues connected with the mother that it almost crucified me...5yrs on he wouldnt look at any of it, so i walked away. Moon-pluto is very secretive. Looks like brian has the sextile, but this stuff is on the conjunction.The guy i was with lived a double life and could never be honest with his mother http://www.leahwhitehorse.com/2013/09/27/natal-aspects-moon-conjunct-pluto/ IP: Logged |
redshoes Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 11, 2013 02:17 PM
He also has moon square uranus, these people find it very hard to settle down and again there is stuff that is problematic with the mother, usually rebellion http://darkstarastrology.com/moon-square-uranus/ IP: Logged |
Love&Light Knowflake Posts: 952 From: India Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 11, 2013 10:04 PM
Have you tried discussing it with him openly but subtly? Not that it always helps but in many cases it does.IP: Logged |
redshoes Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 12, 2013 07:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Love&Light: Both enthusiasm and desire are lacking for some reason.
Hi Love What cards did you draw for this? IP: Logged |
Love&Light Knowflake Posts: 952 From: India Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 12, 2013 12:54 PM
Hi redshoes, I drew exactly the ones I have stated. Enthusiasm and Desire from The Buddha Cards. I asked what was lacking. Why do you ask dear? Just curious.IP: Logged |