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posted October 16, 2013 03:26 AM            

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Can anyone please look at my dads chart and help me understand him. He is just such a negative person finding fault in everything and just upsets the harmony in my house. I don't see anything majorly wrong in his chart that would point to this. But then again, I have just started learning astrology so I am hoping someone could help me out. He is just always depressed and sees negativity in everything. I feel like he is suffering himself because of this but wont admit it because he never shares his feelings. He criticizes everything and always yells at every little thing. Nothing makes him happy. He can even get to the point of being verbally abuse but does not realize it himself. He's completely oblivious to his behaviour. Please can anyone say anything about his chart and why he is like this? I would appreciate it so so much. He doesn't have any friends because people don't like him since he acts like this. He never sees anything good in life. I am really hoping astrology can somehow help me understand the way he thinks so I can understand him better and make our relationship better as well.

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posted October 16, 2013 08:13 PM            

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Looking at his chart I cant help but feel as if he has something from his past that he's been hiding from, possibly something related to his childhood or where he grew up. There are some points in his chart that point to melancholy such as the Moon opposite Saturn, this aspect just makes people fly off the handle and criticise and this is usually due to the emotional side of things. Also Mars in 12th being ruler of IC tells me that there may be something from his past he's hiding from or subconscious anger and rage, also Mars square Pluto does show in people with a lot of hurt inside them, this aspect can manifest as unexplained rage, usually because they are battling demons from their past. I've read that this shows up in the charts of people who've suffered abuse but don't take my word for that. I have this aspect and it resonates with me.

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posted October 16, 2013 08:26 PM            

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Almost all personal planets opposing/squaring Uranus and Moon-Saturn

Oh yeah and the Pluto stressful aspects as well

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posted October 18, 2013 08:09 AM            

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All of that ,imho, I think because the transit of the pluto is now in his 1stH , Do you know it's all abiut the transformation , the inner- conflict to change . It's the hardest pluto transit because it's in your dad' first house that effect directly to himself .
The t.pluto is also form a square with a t.uranus in his 3rd house . Because transit uranus bring a sudden change in every house it's in and every aspect to personal planets . When it's in 3rd , so ..the way he communicate,his thought/idea, sibling,neighbor would be change in uranian style. Moreover , t.uranus trine his natal sun in11th , then you could see he is different than before . Normally when the transit uranus touch any angles(AC/dc/ic/mc) or personal planets , you would see the erratic effect of it , because it makes you to change to the way it could be best for him.
I think you need to give him a time .

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posted October 18, 2013 08:26 AM            

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All of that ,imho, I think because the transit of the pluto is now in his 1stH , Do you know it's all abiut the transformation , the inner- conflict to change . It's the hardest pluto transit because it's in your dad' first house that effect directly to himself .
The t.pluto is also form a square with a t.uranus in his 3rd house . Because transit uranus bring a sudden change in every house it's in and every aspect to personal planets . When it's in 3rd , so ..the way he communicate,his thought/idea, sibling,neighbor would be change in uranian style. Moreover , t.uranus trine his natal sun in11th , then you could see he is different than before . Normally when the transit uranus touch any angles(AC/dc/ic/mc) or personal planets , you would see the erratic effect of it , because it makes you to change to the way it could be best for him.
I think you need to give him a time .

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