posted October 25, 2013 01:42 PM            

I was wondering if someone could read on my personal life? I've been having awkward dreams about someone (oddly enough, each time I've been in a towel in really public places -- any comments on that?) and I just don't understand them. Or what's going on with me in general. So really, anything would help.

I want to center and ground myself and move forward in life. I'm trying to be more balanced, and these dreams sort of upset that in some ways. Not mega, but enough that it's annoying.

posted October 25, 2013 02:49 PM            

Both dreams were romantic (he was a past affection.) The first was confusing, because it came out of nowhere. I was walking to his old office building, and I knew it was a dream because I was in a towel, and also, it was impossible I would be there (I also am hyper aware of my dream and all sorts of weird stuff.) Then, as I was almost there, a woman grabbed me. She was in all black--I can still see her face clearly after a few weeks--and she screamed at me, "You're the law," over and over. I woke up out of dead sleep. Chocked it up to stress, but was confused. I used to have prophetic dreams back in the day (when I was more relaxed and spiritually balanced.) It felt the way some of those did.

Anyway, forgot about it. Moved on. Last night, he and I were in my apartment and a mall I had recently visited. Both instances involved him professing some desire for romance. This one seemed like just a dream -- I realized a lot of the background was from stuff I'd done this week -- but it got weird when he started to talk to me about something (I wish I could remember), because I thought... what just changed in this dream? Something just happened. I looked down, and I was in the same towel, and out of nowhere, there was a woman and a small child. Black hair. Little boy. I was asking him how he was, and he said he just "needed courage." And then I told him, "You can do anything," and then I woke up again. Out of nowhere. Again, I would've chocked it up to a dream, but the same man was it, I was in the same towel, and there again was someone with black hair giving weird advice.

posted October 25, 2013 03:22 PM            

He is your inner lover in this dream. A bit different than the usual male counterpart. He is here to inspire & give you courage & creativity. The mall is where we go to buy our supplies (things we need in life).
The woman & kid is you with a project.
It's most likely work related (office).

The woman in black is your shadow part. They can be great helpers once recognised. And she is screaming about the law (inner restrictions?). Are you holding back somewhere work wise?
Did you recently start working on something that you left for a while?

posted October 26, 2013 09:22 AM            

Edit: lol. You said something completely different, which is what I meant sith hazy. I'll look at the dream in a bit.

posted October 26, 2013 12:10 PM            

Now the office building is old. Why are you going there? What does an office mean for you personally? What do you associate it with? Or what do you associate this specific building with? Think about the feeling & what it represents to you. What was going on in this office? Were you inside or outside? How did the building look from the outside?
Office makes me think of work, maybe even some restrictions (office work as slavery, but that’s personal, lol ;-) What’s also standing out is that it is old. So doesn’t really belong in your current life anymore and then ‘boom, out of nowhere’ you are out back there! Is there anything going on in your life that makes you think you are back at square one? Repeating something?

I have experienced only twice that I knew I was dreaming, so I take it you are a ‘lucid dreamer’ in this case.
I’m almost convinced that this man in your dream is not about him, but as your ‘inner lover’. His ‘job’ is to inspire you creatively, express what you want & work from passion among other things.

Okay, moving on... Right, so the fact the woman grabs you & also starts screaming ‘you are the law’, may very well point to all kind of restrictions in life. Are you working too hard? Is there too much discipline going on in your life or is there a lack of? The Law is restricting. Or maybe she is saying to you that you should make your own laws, not the ones you learned in that ‘old office building’. Are you conforming to something? What’s going on with your moral standards? What are you forcing yourself to do?

^ This, could actually relate to what you write here:

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
[B]No, not really in regards to work. I have been unbelievably busy though. Like can't catch my breath busy. B]

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A towel is there to protect you to be naked in public, like I wrote before... But can also ‘cover something up’ or perhaps even the desire to ‘let it all hang out’, lol. Did you feel good in that towel? Not longer wanting to be pretending something that you are not? That will give you a clue.

Both dreams were romantic (How romantic? In love romantic? Sexuality?)
Can you remember if it was dark or light in your dream? What was your overall feeling in the dream? Were you happy or scared, etc.

Do you have enough time for doing the things you love or is it one obligation after another?

posted October 27, 2013 12:13 PM            

I don't know what to think about it being him or not. My feelings ran deep, and still do, which makes it hard to parse out a point. I want to be objective though, lol. Not some crazy girl. It could be my inner creativity manifesting as him. He meant a lot to me and so does my work.

To answer other questions, I'm working way too much. Six days a week in a job I hate, but at least it's a job. I don't have time for much else (plus the burn-out dissolves any desire to do anything). I signed a contract for six months, though, and my work is my name. But to be honest, the only thing I'm "forcing" is moving on from him. Which is weird and lame, but within 3 seconds of meeting him, I knew he was it... and have since. Which is insane and stupid and frustrating because our experience was extremely wrong time, wrong place. Maybe that's what I'm covering up? Nakedness as a certain belief, and the towel hiding it?

In the towel it was just like, "Huh. Why the hell am in a towel, lol." Very neutral feelings about it. The first dream I was walking to his office under the impression he wanted to see me. The second dream (same towel), he kissed me, and I felt wonderful. My heart raced, etc. No sex, just a confession and kiss. That was when the woman and kid showed up. I was happy, but also keenly aware it was a dream when I realized I was in a towel, and then I it was more, "Okay, what is this about then?." I was frustrated with myself too, for dreaming about him again. (I'm a full color, full sound, total immersion dreamer.)

posted October 30, 2013 08:38 AM            

thanks for the feedback
Why don't you post your other dream on astral realms? Maybe ra then will also comment I really like his interps too.
If this explanation doesn;t ring 'truth' to you, that means we haven't quite got it.
It's all about what you associate with him to (what are HIS qualities in real life).
Sometimes dreams about a real life lover are about the relationship with that person. But more often they aren't.
If in this case it would be about your relationship then it would say something like :unable to let him go, because you keep going around in circles & bind yourself to him.
All people in your dream are actually you
And 'spooky' huh? Thats cool