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Topic: ALWAYS getting rejected by opposite sex
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blue house
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posted October 25, 2013 06:44 PM
  
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Im always getting rejected by women.Im almost 30 years old and still have never been out on a date with one.Im actually a tall decent looking guy with an athletic body but for some reason women run the other way.Is there something in my natal chart which points as to why? also i never have any opportunities to bump into any good ones,I have never had chance encounters.Am i going to be lonely forever,Please be honest im the type of person that prefers the truth i can handle it
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Haplesschild*
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posted October 25, 2013 07:19 PM
Probably the vibe you might give off? It's usually not too much to do with looks. Post a pic (if you're comfortable) IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted October 25, 2013 09:50 PM
you have almost no fire in your chart, so motivation/outwardly pursuing a goal is likely your main issue. and i'm thinking maybe you're throwing out an effeminate vibe, which an Aqua ASC and all that water you have(cancer venus, picses moon, scorpio mars) can produce. your placements are rather sensitive and may not be coming across as 'manly' enough? i'd suggest approaching/going for a similarly shy/sensitive person to get you started... although you might like someone more outgoing and social it might be that you can't approach them because your energy just doesn't meld with those types and yeah, they would reject you because you might not be forward enough for them. make sense? just thoughts ...IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
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posted October 26, 2013 12:20 AM
I am in the same boat...I don't really do the appraoching none the less I never had a real boyfriend or anything special....ppl tell me I'm attractive, good personality etc...I think I am met to be alone forever I assumeIP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted October 26, 2013 12:48 AM
^ It's all self fulfilling prophecy isn't it? If you think a certain way, that energy surrounds you constantly and becomes your reality. If you constantly feel not good enough and fear that someone won't want you, you should probably read some self help books etc to help change your mentality around.I mean if you can't love yourself, how do you expect others to right? IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
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posted October 26, 2013 12:55 AM
true, Hapless,But...its difficult to not think your the issue when nothing ever pans out....I do want to read some books it just really takes a toll going through a depression about it ... IP: Logged |
Enigma9
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posted October 26, 2013 12:56 AM
awwww don't feel bad you will me someone. try going to places where you meet women that share your hobby.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted October 26, 2013 12:59 AM
^ remember how I suggested to think about to your past experiences and find what they have in common? Like the similarities btwn the people (their traits or behaviour etc) then make a list of the actions you took and another of what you could have done differently. After, make a vision board, write a list of your goals for the next 6 months and a list of what you want in a guy (be specific but not shallow) and then make effort to improve your life.It does help, good luck. IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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posted October 26, 2013 01:08 AM
ya, I remember I do need to do that...The thing is, they are all different way we met differs i dunnoIP: Logged |
blue house
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posted October 26, 2013 07:20 AM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
you have almost no fire in your chart, so motivation/outwardly pursuing a goal is likely your main issue. and i'm thinking maybe you're throwing out an effeminate vibe, which an Aqua ASC and all that water you have(cancer venus, picses moon, scorpio mars) can produce. your placements are rather sensitive and may not be coming across as 'manly' enough? i'd suggest approaching/going for a similarly shy/sensitive person to get you started... although you might like someone more outgoing and social it might be that you can't approach them because your energy just doesn't meld with those types and yeah, they would reject you because you might not be forward enough for them. make sense? just thoughts ...
I look very manly and i would like a shy person but shy girls dont usually go out to bars and i cant meet anyone through work because i work with men.ALso the problem is actually meeting peple i have never had any luck in that.After a while you get use to it but you still hope for things to change IP: Logged |
Hera
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From: Aries fantasy land ^_^
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posted October 26, 2013 08:53 AM
Try online. Lots of introverts and shy people around. I don't mean specifically dating sites, you might get disappointed.. but forums or social networks/groups where they discuss the topics you're into. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 26, 2013 08:54 AM
You have Venus opposition Jupiter and trine Saturn in your chart - the opposition makes me think of being "unlucky" and it having to do with your timing, and could also indicate why you never seem to meet a lot of people. Venus trine Saturn you might be too serious about love, or will be a late bloomer. The good news is this aspect sometimes means the person looks for quality vs. quantity. So when you DO find love, it won't be for a shallow reason like not wanting to be alone. Oh, and Moon is also trine Saturn. So you have both your feminine planets trine a restrictive and controlled planet like Saturn. It would be the same as having Moon in Capricorn and Venus in Capricorn. You would probably get along with cardinal and fixed signs best (Capricorn, Cancer, Aries, Libra.)IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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From: Uranus
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posted October 26, 2013 09:05 AM
Moon in Pisces men tend to be whiny and very insecure imo, maybe you give off that vibe/IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 26, 2013 09:08 AM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Moon in Pisces men tend to be whiny and very insecure imo, maybe you give off that vibe/
You could get that impression from him going off his post and without even knowing his Moon sign though, that's too broad. IP: Logged |
blue house
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posted October 27, 2013 06:32 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
You could get that impression from him going off his post and without even knowing his Moon sign though, that's too broad.
Im not whinny at all i would never tell anyone these things in real life but here on the internet its anonymous so i can express my feelings more.Btw thanks for the reading its true i can never meet new people
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Love&Light
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From: India
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 27, 2013 01:13 PM
Well, here is a very practical advice though it may sound the most weird. You DEMAND. Tell the universe what you want and let it come from your heart. Let the feeling be strong and after sometime, say days or months, forget about it i.e. put it on the back burner. It will come back to you in no time. Havn't you guys read SEVEN SPIRITUAL LAWS OF SUCCESS by Deepak Chopra.  Try it. It works. ACTUALLY.www.gobookee.org IP: Logged |
Sandra018
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From: Brooklyn,NY
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 27, 2013 02:51 PM
you have a mars in scorpio which is a great placement, not weak at all, on the contrary, very potent, in addition you have Pluto trine your Sun, that's PURE strength and power.
you also have ASC trine Sun- that's another aspect that speaks of you being noticed( in a positive way).
Saturn in a positive aspects with Venus ( might be a late bloomer as it was mentioned above) and with Moon, so your emotions might be little constricted by Saturn, but with the rest of these powerful combinations I don't see why you would have problems
maybe try to channel your Pluto energy more..and also take a look at your transits- see whats going on at the moment with your planets..Hope this helps.
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blue house
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posted October 27, 2013 08:20 PM
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Originally posted by Love&Light:
Well, here is a very practical advice though it may sound the most weird. You DEMAND. Tell the universe what you want and let it come from your heart. Let the feeling be strong and after sometime, say days or months, forget about it i.e. put it on the back burner. It will come back to you in no time. Havn't you guys read SEVEN SPIRITUAL LAWS OF SUCCESS by Deepak Chopra. Try it. It works. ACTUALLY.www.gobookee.org
Look no offense but that stuff doesnt work you cant just get something just by wishing for it the secret was a lie IP: Logged |
blue house
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posted October 27, 2013 08:23 PM
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Originally posted by Sandra018:
you have a mars in scorpio which is a great placement, not weak at all, on the contrary, very potent, in addition you have Pluto trine your Sun, that's PURE strength and power.
you also have ASC trine Sun- that's another aspect that speaks of you being noticed( in a positive way).
Saturn in a positive aspects with Venus ( might be a late bloomer as it was mentioned above) and with Moon, so your emotions might be little constricted by Saturn, but with the rest of these powerful combinations I don't see why you would have problems
maybe try to channel your Pluto energy more..and also take a look at your transits- see whats going on at the moment with your planets..Hope this helps.
Sandra
thanks sandra yeah i dont know what the problem could be but the other poster said venus trine saturn is late bloomer and venus oppisite juipiter makes it harder to meet people(always wrong place wrong time) IP: Logged |
Sandra018
Knowflake Posts: 186
From: Brooklyn,NY
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 27, 2013 08:46 PM
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Originally posted by blue house:
thanks sandra yeah i dont know what the problem could be but the other poster said venus trine saturn is late bloomer and venus oppisite juipiter makes it harder to meet people(always wrong place wrong time)
I don't think that's it- imho, both Jupiter and Venus are benefics, and opposition is just a challenge, not a complete blockage...that aspect shouldn't be strong enough to make it impossible to have contact with the opposite sex...
I hope somebody else chimes in from the more experienced readers..
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Astra
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posted October 28, 2013 04:06 AM
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Originally posted by blue house:
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Im always getting rejected by women.Im almost 30 years old and still have never been out on a date with one.Im actually a tall decent looking guy with an athletic body but for some reason women run the other way.Is there something in my natal chart which points as to why? also i never have any opportunities to bump into any good ones,I have never had chance encounters.Am i going to be lonely forever,Please be honest im the type of person that prefers the truth i can handle it
My ex had the exact same problem as you: constant rejection. Then he asked me out and since he was the only single guy in my area that was age appropriate, I said "yes." It quickly became apparent to me why he was rejected repeatedly: social awkwardness. How are you approaching women? When you first see a woman you like, what do you do? I strongly suggest having a friend hang around nearby within earshot when you ask out a girl. If she rejects you, ask your friend what he/she observed that you did wrong. Are you making sure you are smiling? I don't mean giving off a smile like the Joker, but appearing happy. People respond to positive energy. If you already look defeated when you walk up to a girl, then it's a huge turn-off. Ask out a girl confidently. If she says "no" then brush it off and move on. Your life won't be any worse off because a girl said "no." It's her loss.
I'm sorry you are having such a rough time. I hope you meet a wonderful woman soon! By the way, I strongly suggest you try speed dating. It takes away the awkwardness of approaching someone and finding out they are unavailable. IP: Logged |
PlutoSurvivor
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From: USA
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 30, 2013 04:00 PM
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Originally posted by Love&Light:
Well, here is a very practical advice though it may sound the most weird. You DEMAND.
www.gobookee.org
Actually it's important to use the correct word. DEmands don't work with the universe but COmmands do work. May have been a misprint, but it's important. IP: Logged |
blue house
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posted October 31, 2013 03:57 AM
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Originally posted by PlutoSurvivor:
Actually it's important to use the correct word. DEmands don't work with the universe but COmmands do work. May have been a misprint, but it's important.
The LOA doewsnt work you cant get things simply by imagining or wishing
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Love&Light
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posted October 31, 2013 01:31 PM
Its a fact. It works even in day to day 'triffle' interactions. Sometimes even if a thought crosses the mind strongly it materiallisrs. It can be little scarry.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 31, 2013 01:45 PM
I agree. I notice whenever I'm mad over trivial things I accidentally stub my toe, or bang my head. It's weird.IP: Logged |
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