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enchantress
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posted October 30, 2013 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone,

I just wanted to ask for a quick reading, if anyone is willing to help? Our class is about to end this week and I met this guy at my university at the beginning of the year and I finally admitted to myself that I am indeed attracted to him and like him as more than a friend (he doesn't know). I possibly won't see him again after this because he's graduating as well. We get along pretty well and I was wondering if maybe there is some sort of "chemistry" between us. I feel like he likes me somehow but I also don't wanna assume/expect because I dont want get hurt in the end so I am here right now looking for an advice. My question is, what should I know about my friendly relationship with G? Before our uni ends, what step should take because I dont know if he likes me or not.

Thank you and I really appreciate any form of help

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PlutoSurvivor
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posted October 30, 2013 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSurvivor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
there's no gain in not trying

what do you have to lose

what is your idea about making a move

if it's to talk and establish some sort of communications that will continue past school then how could that possible hurt you to ask - there is no such thing as rejection - only you can allow rejection to affect your life - there is only experience

find out what it is like to experience asking and receiving an answer and if there is no response or a negative response you can focus your energy elsewhere

let's ask the cards

I'll just pull one Oracle Card for you

Correct Your Mistakes comes up, number 37 (reduces to 1, new beginnings)

If you have acted poorly to him in the past, maybe even unconsciously, perhaps because of your ambivalence about him, then it is time to make up for that

Think about this, and then decide how to handle the situation. Be accountable for your behavior. Find out first if you really and truly like him and want him in your life, and find out why you want him so that you are not the one who hurts him.

Good luck in making your choices

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enchantress
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posted November 01, 2013 01:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
After what happened today I have decided to distance my self from him... I just feel like I always have to do the effort, in everything.... We were supposed to meet up today and we will have a group study with other people but he didn't turned up nor even texted me that he wasn't coming (he said yes before before the meeting). I guess I am overreacting here but i would rather get a straight out NO as an answer than have nothing in response or get an excuse. I waited for him but i realized that he wasnt coming so i didnt see the point of texting him. Today is our last day and I didnt even get the chance to see him for one last time..

I just hate myself for wishing something more between us, he's not really into me #crushingrealhard

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