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Topic: Attracting gays in love life
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DaniPepper87 Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 01, 2013 07:52 PM
Thanks Randall for let me know where to post Hello! I'm not an homophobic, but I was remembering my last relationships. Almost all the guys I liked are gays. They're wonderful as friends, but I usually fall in love with them. Is there something in the natal chart that shows it? I just want a straight man for my life! Here's my chart: http://imageshack.com/a/img31/5396/dwci.gif Thanks for all! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5975 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 01, 2013 08:04 PM
I don't think this is singular to gays, but I have Mars in the 12th house, Venus square Neptune (among other things), and Neptune in the 7th house (fantasy), plus Uranus ("alternative") , and Saturn (obstacles). I get along with gays especially well too, but have grown out of falling in love with them.IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87 Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 01, 2013 08:07 PM
Hi! Yes, maybe my Mars IN Libra and IN the 12th house can explain this. But I'm tired of it IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21 Knowflake Posts: 155 From: St. Paul, MN, USA Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 01, 2013 08:20 PM
Girl, you're a Scorpio with a Scorpio ASC/Rising and Leo Moon. You're smokin' hot! xDIP: Logged |
DaniPepper87 Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 01, 2013 08:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by REVOLUTION21: Girl, you're a Scorpio with a Scorpio ASC/Rising and Leo Moon. You're smokin' hot! xD
Thanks, REVOLUTION21! Was a long time since someone call me hot! xD IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 33810 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 01, 2013 09:24 PM
You will get more responses here. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5975 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 02, 2013 12:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by DaniPepper87: Hi! Yes, maybe my Mars IN Libra and IN the 12th house can explain this. But I'm tired of it
I understand! But part of why you're attracted to them is because they're unavailable. And that inaccessibility is also within you somehow. I'm wondering if many Mars in 12th house people are unavailable in a way. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 2216 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 02, 2013 12:32 AM
I dated a Mars in 12 guy that was a bit psychotic. Anger issues up the wazoo. Still walks around with a chip on his shoulder like the world owes him something. He was mentally abusive, would give me the 3rd degree about everything, I could never relax or enjoy my time with him. So in a way he was unavailable for a healthy relationship. IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine Knowflake Posts: 1250 From: New York, NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 02, 2013 01:58 AM
Hello DaniPepper87,I'm 20 years older than you and I had the same problem in Junior High School and High School. I call it the "Will & Grace" syndrome. I was definitely "Grace". I never thought about Mars in Libra being the problem, I have that, too. But now I understand it to be that Neptune rules my 11th House of love received, friendships. I see that your 5th House is ruled by Neptune. The 5th house is also a romantic sexuality relationship house. I suspect that is the issue. This is how I've dealt with it as I've gotten older. My friends laugh at me when I say this and I'm joking a little bit, but you'll understand why I do. "All men are gay until proven otherwise!" That's had to become my motto. LOOOL!! But to be more realistic and less joking, I've learned to change some of what I'm attracted to. This is my opinion, it doesn't mean that this is for everyone. I've learned to not go for such "pretty boy" energy. That doesn't mean that men who "seem" more macho aren't gay, but it's a step in a direction where the men I gravitate toward have more yang energy. I used to make the 1st move a lot, I no longer do that. If a man is attracted to me, he'll approach me. Why Neptune, you may ask. Neptune rules confusion and "things are not as they appear to be." types of things. With Neptune ruling the 5th or the 11th, it's possible for both of us that we have a "blurry" gay-dar, so to speak. Neptune makes things blurry. In my case, I was easily deceived. I had 2 boyfriends in high school who turned out to be gay, they both used me as a "beard". I still argue with myself over whether Neptune is a definite signal for spotting homosexuality because sexuality is so much more complicated, but when you consider some of the big bells that Neptune represents, that could be the reason. I haven't had the problem of attracting gay men into my life for "romantic relations" since high school, but I have lots of gay male friends now and I'm very grateful for it. I just sort of taught myself to attract a more masculine type or someone who, if he happens to be bisexual, is clear about being committed to one person. That's my astrological 2 cents and how I personally handle the situation. I hope that's one perspective that helps a bit. IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87 Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 07:36 AM
Hello Geocosmic* Valentine!Thanks for sharing your experiences. I agree with you. My last boyfriend is gay, but he did the chase. I was there, calm, with my own thoughts and then he came flirting me!! I did chase a lot when I was younger, but I don't do it anymore too. I'm tired of receive NO in my face! I really hate my 5th house being ruled by Neptune. I know that I need to reach the higher of Neptune, that is being spiritual. And the part that I need to look at more manly man, I agree. I usually go for the very handsome ones (but my ex isn't handsome, btw). Thanks for the advice. I'm thiking about change some of my points of view! IP: Logged |