posted November 04, 2013 07:45 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
first of all his time was unknown and it largely depends on the hosues to..

thats why I just do tarot

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posted November 04, 2013 11:57 AM            

I feel that the reality of what is going is important, primarily. Then, and only then, secondarily, astrology or synastry. Just b/c you have good synastry does not mean you go out there and marry the guy. People can have the exact same charts and manifest completely differently. Likewise, there are so many other factors that affect things. You are looking at extremely short time scales here - it takes years to get to really know someone not a week or a month.

Finally, Instead of blaming astrology for being @#@&!3 wrong etc and complaining on this forum, I would suggest that you really look at what is going on with you and your life. Go deeper internally, instead of looking externally outside of you. In the end, you make the bed you sleep in - so I ask, why is your mind manifesting this way? And what did you do about it today?

Astrology is only a tool as is tarot and the like. It is not the source. Likewise, some of us are better at utilizing it then others.

posted November 04, 2013 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by imeanj:
I think that its like with anything in life. It's important to test it for yourself, but also what is occurring in reality should be acknowledged.

I feel that the reality of what is going is important, primarily. Then, and only then, secondarily, astrology or synastry. Just b/c you have good synastry does not mean you go out there and marry the guy. People can have the exact same charts and manifest completely differently. Likewise, there are so many other factors that affect things. You are looking at extremely short time scales here - it takes years to get to really know someone not a week or a month.

Finally, Instead of blaming astrology for being @#@&!3 wrong etc and complaining on this forum, I would suggest that you really look at what is going on with you and your life. Go deeper internally, instead of looking externally outside of you. In the end, you make the bed you sleep in - so I ask, why is your mind manifesting this way? And what did you do about it today?

Astrology is only a tool as is tarot and the like. It is not the source. Likewise, some of us are better at utilizing it then others.

AWAKE!

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I think you got it wrong. I did not check his chart and then decide to try to marry him. I lived my life, he appeared, things turned out the way they did wether I knew about the chart or not. My point of this here was that synastry seem to be perfect, but still it seems its not compared to what happened. And synastry has been the best with the guys that never got to know me. I can't see how it can go so wrong.

And last, do not give people you do not know the blame for things. You can go say that you make your own bed if your daughter dies in a car accident. You are free to take the blame for loosing her. Or that you have yourself to blame for ending up in prison, when actually someone else planted the evidence for you and you had nothing to do with it. But I am one of those that think that only some things in life is to blame on oneself (not to say anyones daughter died or was imprisoned related to this topic).

posted November 04, 2013 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
IMJ is actually very nice. Just because you didn't like what she had to say does not mean she's evil.

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Maybe not in general, and that's also what I asked - If it is only towards me!

Unless you think the person was nice in the posting, where blaming me for what happened? And for telling me to not live after astrology - when nothing I said was that I ever did?

posted November 04, 2013 02:10 PM            

No wonder the online dating guys ran off to better pastures...

Imeanj was trying to help...if you can't take people's opinions then don't sit on the counselling couch...

posted November 04, 2013 02:14 PM            

@Astrid, I think now you are turning around and using me as a target. Yes, life is hard and bad things happen, but how you chose to respond is your choice. Not the choice of a chart, or the choice of outside circumstances, or even the choice of God, or an outside entity. It is your choice. YOUR CHOICE. You can chose to be angry, which it seems that you are, or you can chose to do something about it? So I am merely pointing that out, that you need to look deeper within yourself to figure out what is going on.

I find it a bit strange that you are so critical of this community as well as myself and the tools we use. Why are you here? Likewise, you are the one who is writing pages upon pages on this forum - most of us here just enjoy each other's company and are searching for something deeper, but most of us know its for fun the majority of the time. Even those of us who do not get along at minimum respect each other and our grateful for the company. So again I would reiterate:

posted November 04, 2013 02:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Astrid:
Maybe not in general, and that's also what I asked - If it is only towards me!

Unless you think the person was nice in the posting, where blaming me for what happened? And for telling me to not live after astrology - when nothing I said was that I ever did?

Maybe you should consider other peoples feelings before you turn to defend someone "that is normally nice" infront of the person they just hurt.

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posted November 04, 2013 02:27 PM            

Penultime post: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/008855-2.html

posted November 04, 2013 04:50 PM            

In first message imeanj had read my posting as if I had only looked at astrology and tried to make something happen. I never did. Also she turned it into a teching lesson for me and told me to wake up - for something that I never had done. I never used astrology to find the guy and I never used it to keep him. My posting was about why synastry doesn't say the same as what happens in real life. Why do you read something else? Where do you read something else?

zarea: Judgemental person? I never said anything about him running away. What I said was the first one blocked me for a misunderstanding. The second guy 'I' told to go away. Why do you read something else into it? What you change my writing into is also something so that you can tell me hurtful stuff. I most of my life had the guys not wanting to leave me. They mostly love me to deeply. I have been stalked! i did not say that I was interested in more of the guys on there - I said the opposite - this guy was the only one interesting to me - the only one that I communicated with. Where do you read in more of them? As I said - you are the once who is missreading what I write. And what you misread is often so that you can blame me.

Second message from imeanj:
Again you are telling me things I never asked for. Also you are reading in something in my posting that wasn't there. You are terrible annoying. Could you keep to the subject? All I asked was if the synastry was good or bad. And during the way I let you have the full story. I gave you the story - for free! I didn't do it because I had to tell you. I never feel the need "to tell". but it was the background. I thought you liked reading it all. And some ofcorse might had been interesting for the answers.

filleaspirant: Bringing in anoterh tread. Sure. Why not. But that one wasn't the same as this. This tread was about reading in something I never wrote and go from there to puch me around. The oterhs I find not nice on the other tread is because they blamed me for my life, and yes she did here too. That is similar. But still you don't get it? If someone does things to you because they simply doesn't like you - not because you are evil, but because THEY DO NOT LIKE YOU - whatever reson, then what they do to you can't be blamed on you!

Now all of you who read so much bad into my posting - tell me the exact word you interpreted to one or the other!

posted November 04, 2013 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Just wanted to point out she's already done/reacted this way, when people told her the changes she wants in her life must be done BY HERSELF, not by anyone else.

Penultime post: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/008855-2.html

I know I'm gonna get cursed and hated on, but - Astrid, the reason why "everyone" seems to hate you is your passive-agressiveness. Work on that first and foremost, and people might begin to give you a second look after you turn rabid on them.

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Since you are so informed about my situation, then I would like for you to tell me exactly how I am supposed to erase my permanent handicap so that other stop ******* up my life? If you find that solution, the I will agree that everything in my life is my own doing.

posted November 04, 2013 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm going to be patient with you Astrid, you are clearly a new soul. I agree with imeanj and her view on astrology. It is a secondary tool. If the relationships didn't work out, that's unfortunate, but I wouldn't let it discourage you from astrology.

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posted November 04, 2013 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Wow.

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posted November 05, 2013 04:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Sandra018:
Astrid, are you sure about the first guy's date of birth?
Sometimes guys lie online especially ( I have had this happen to me) and then the synastry will be completely off.
So you might be thinking you guys are going to be getting along great, but you might be looking at who knows what thinking its your synastry...
just my thought

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Thanx. Yes I am sure. That time is guaranteed to be exact, it comes directly from the source rather than from him. And I only found out about it quite some time after he had been out of my life.