posted November 10, 2013 04:16 PM            

I want to know what can I do to build on my confidence and self-esteem.

posted November 10, 2013 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Aww, thank you for thinking of and remembering me!

I want to know what can I do to build on my confidence and self-esteem.

Is that a good question? If you need me to change it, let me know and I will

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Two of Pentacles - Son of Swords - The Magician

It seems to me that you are a very considerate person, always trying to balance others' needs with your own. This is a constant effort, but you have been mostly happy to do it. As time goes on, this can be tiring, especially when your internal voice becomes quieter and sometimes drowned out completely. In order to get yourself moving in a positive direction, you need to learn how to speak your mind, almost impetuously at times. People may not like this new you, at first, because they are used to getting what they want from you. As you become more comfortable with yourself, you will begin to recognize your own value and power, and be more comfortable deciding when you need to assert it. The forceful, impetuous phase will pass. Overall, speak your mind more often, and be ok with saying no to others and yes to yourself!

posted November 10, 2013 05:04 PM            

I will indeed pull my self out of the equation to make things work for everyone. I do get to speak my mind sometimes, but it's usually when I'm frustrated with people and/or the situation. It's very much like a plutonic blowout.

I love this advice and will certainly "force" myself to heed it