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beccathelion
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posted November 13, 2013 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beccathelion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Guys--

Just feeling all share-happy and joyous. Mostly the chocolate matte I'm drinking, but c'est la vie. I'll do a tarot reading for the first person who responds to this.

Or a Lenormand pull, but I'm still rough around the edges when it comes to that

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posted November 13, 2013 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can I ask what will happen with me and A.R? Ill do angel card in exchange.. please?

Using lenormand would be great!

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posted November 13, 2013 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi becca. Glad to hear your joyous

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posted November 13, 2013 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beccathelion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sc0rpioRising:
Can I ask what will happen with me and A.R? Ill do angel card in exchange.. please?

Using lenormand would be great!


Alright sc0rpio!! What's going to happen between you and AR, and again, I'm still learning Lenormand... so if anything's wrong, please, please just let me know! (It helps me learn )

Lily + Dog + Stork + Birds + Fish

Have you an AR been close for a long time? Or are they someone from your past you used to be close to? The Lilies can mean joy and sexuality or family, things like that. But for me, it comes up a lot as something from the past, particularly something that was emotional. Paired with dog, it makes me think there was some kind of loyalty and love between you, that's currently changing (the Stork.) I think this is because you haven't had a discussion yet (the Birds) -- you haven't talked about something that you need to clear out of the way, something that's related to the Fish. The Fish is usually a money card, or at least it's dealing with something we have stockpiled. I think what this is saying here that if you have feelings for AR, you need to talk about it. Things will morph, and it may not go the way you want... but things are changing anyway, so why not throw your hat into the ring and see how it goes? I think it would clear out a lot of stress (the Birds can mean this too) that might be lingering? Also, for what it's worth, the Lilies also have a way of representing stagnation, being stuck in the past. (I've always thought they were vaguely funereal as well.)

There's a possibility AR might be going through something as well (Lily + Stork + Fish) that is sort of altering their make-up spiritually as well as holistically, and what they need is a friend (Dog + Birds) to listen. However, in the vein of the question, "What's going to happen," I think the answer is something about your relationship is going to change based on a discussion you have. I personally think that maybe one of you has strong feelings for the other... but I could also be 100% wrong lol. I feel like you guys are already in some kind of relationship though, either a time-tested friendship or maybe even something that feels like a marriage (sexless though -- I feel like the love here is platonic, mostly because of the dog.)

Does any of this make sense at all? Sorry if not!! I can always do tarot to make up for my bumbling.

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posted November 13, 2013 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beccathelion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Hi becca. Glad to hear your joyous

Rosalind, it's amazing what some chocolate tea and a clean house can do to one's mood lol

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posted November 13, 2013 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it makes a lot of sense, he made a move on me about 10months ago, completely unexpected, and then we got close and intimate twice, and sorry forgot toention we work together too!

But i was dealing with stuff with someone else, which he also knew about very clearly cos everyone at work knows about my life.
AR got really close to me, i let myself be vunerable with him, and we got intimate, and then, bam, he starts showing me pictures if another girl he wants to date out of the blue, and completely broke my heart, i didnt realise how much i liked him.till he did that. for the life of me i dont know why he led me on so much, showed he cared so much. Only to do that. i said.to him i.need closure and i told.him i feel a lot of pain because of.him. his answer is im sorry i hurt u and he didnt mean to lead me astray. but i just dont get it. i never gave him.any reason to like me, he made me fall for him by being the perfect guy and now he tells me and everyone at work how many girls he has been with, and i have to be plantonic cos i work with him

He has completrly ruined my life, i try to move on but i have to see him everyday, and now everyone at work is distant with me because i dont really want to spend time with him. And plus I don't know what he has said about me too to others

Its.not fair cos i never asked for any of this from him and yet he hurt me so bad. i just want him out of my life so i never see him ever again. the pain is too much. Thank you , the cards explain exactly how I feel.

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posted November 13, 2013 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know what to do any advice would be great, all I ever showed him was how much I like him, and he knew I was going thru difficulty too, even he was but I was always there for him, help please.....

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posted November 13, 2013 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beccathelion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay. That makes a lot of sense. The Stork was the change, and now you have workplace stress and sadness (Birds + Fish). I am sorry. I think the best thing to do here would consider moving to a new job (if you can) or if not... totally just start owning it. Don't let them be distant. Talk to them everyday; reclaim them as your coworkers. "Fake it 'til you make it" was some of the best advice I got a long time ago.

I pulled a card to act as the base, and it was the Cross. I think that even though this a very difficult time for you, it's something you need to go through for your own karmic growth. This is important to your development. I do still think the two of you need to sit down and talk about things again. Put it out on the table. If he is hurting you by saying those things, tell him not to say them. You have to work there too; it isn't fair for him to be like that. Or, if you still feel for him, tell him that too. See what happens. At least you'll know you made yourself 100% heard. I think that's really what these cards are saying.

I'm so sorry you're having to go through that, but I think you're going to come out of it a much stronger, wiser, and more beautiful person both inside and out. The Stork is all about change -- this will be for the best, I think. <3

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posted November 13, 2013 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 13, 2013 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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It's definitely karmic, my karma conjunct his venus, moon conjunct destin, saturn square nodes, his sun mercury pluto in my 12th Scorpio. It all spells karmic, he knows exactly how i feel about him, and he knows right now I can't do anything, but he still wants to rub things in my face, which I just don't think is fair, co workers want to be his friend cos he comes across so nice and is so stunning to look at, which makes me think why he even liked me in the first place! Everything was a shock! So all the girls and guys want to be his mate and I look like the bad guy cos he is the quite calm one and I am the loud erratic one (well used to be) he is looking for a new job so I wish he finds one ASAP and gets out of my life, that way ill have closure and move on. I'm just soo sad and tired, he has turned me inside out.

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posted November 13, 2013 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since you're so joyous and did a Lenormand reading, don't you wanna do a tarot now?

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posted November 13, 2013 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Becca,

You did a good job, but I wanted to add something if you don't mind

As far as what will happen I see positive changes in regards to a friendship/relationship. I believe you two will talk/converse more now.

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posted November 13, 2013 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beccathelion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hey Becca,

You did a good job, but I wanted to add something if you don't mind

As far as what will happen I see positive changes in regards to a friendship/relationship. I believe you two will talk/converse more now.


Ooooh! I like it. Thank you, sensei And Filleaspirant, I can, but it will have to be when I get back from work in a few hours. Is that okay?

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posted November 13, 2013 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sc0rpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Hey Becca,

You did a good job, but I wanted to add something if you don't mind

As far as what will happen I see positive changes in regards to a friendship/relationship. I believe you two will talk/converse more now.


I can't see it empress, you have done two reading on this before where he has seen me as high preiestess/empress. He just used me completely, and now is happy to move on with other girls and know that everyone is talking about me but is fine with it, at work he acts like nothing has happened and everyday he shocks me with stuff which breaks my heart a little bit more, I want him out out out, he gave me pain I never thought existed,,.. I'm gonna go cry,

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posted November 13, 2013 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by beccathelion:
And Filleaspirant, I can, but it will have to be when I get back from work in a few hours. Is that okay?

What, that is more than fine, considering I weaseled my way into it!

So, little backstory: I like a guy that likes me. I was sure of his feelings in the past, but now only the cards are saying so, as he's not being forthright with it. I've heard that he's got good intentions towards me but, he's gonna be a little possessive if we get together (which is not ideal, but I can work with it).

Problem is, I can't quite see how to get us into a relationship. We communicate solely by e-mail now, although we did work together in the past (he was my supervisor/boss). Anyway, he's so weird... he shares with me tidbits about himself he doesn't share with others, or will only share MONTHS AFTER with everyone else (on Facebook), but then he put up such a stonewall the moment I tried to get further than small talk with him. Like I said, SO WEIRD.

So, I need to know how I should proceed to get a romantic relationship with him started... That is, if he really wants one.

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posted November 13, 2013 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sc0rpioRising:
I can't see it empress, you have done two reading on this before where he has seen me as high preiestess/empress. He just used me completely, and now is happy to move on with other girls and know that everyone is talking about me but is fine with it, at work he acts like nothing has happened and everyday he shocks me with stuff which breaks my heart a little bit more, I want him out out out, he gave me pain I never thought existed,,.. I'm gonna go cry,

Hey ScorpioRising, don't cry... boys can be so stupid and heartless sometimes. I'm so sorry you're in pain. *HUGS*

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posted November 15, 2013 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beccathelion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
So, I need to know how I should proceed to get a romantic relationship with him started... That is, if he really wants one.

Sorry for the delay. Work overtakes my life more often than not Alright, I did a cross with the question: "What does Filleaspirant need to do to start a romantic relationship with this guy?"

Current situation: Page of Cups
Conflicting/complimenting factor: the Star
Root cause of situation: 3 of Pentacles

Relevant past: 2 of Cups (r)
How querent feels about situation: 3 of Wands
Immediate present: Queen of Cups

How querent feels/wants to feel about self: 7 of Pentacles
Environment: Queen of Wands
Advice: Knight of Wands
Probable outcome: Page of Wands (r) (clarifier: King of Pentacles)

So the Page of Cups with the Star tells me that there's a bit of fantasy that's been infused into the this thing, which isn't necessarily bad, but it isn't entirely helpful. Page of Cups is about dreams and crafting them, putting them into practice on the physical plane. There's an emphasis with creativity and intuition (the Star), which makes sense. You're trying to figure out how to get this thing hammered out, relying on your intuition and self for guidance. Add the 3 of Pentacles, and there's an emphasis on past teamwork. You mentioned you worked together; I feel like, if anything, there's a push to be in a relationship with this guy to validate you've been right all along. That there was something there beyond the pentacles. This I get from the past. There wasn't a relationship (the reversed 2), which is a bug stuck in your craw to be sure.

Even more so, because I'm getting the sense you're in a transition phase in your life. You're getting stronger, more determined. I don't want to say "growing up," because that's not right... but that's the feeling I get. Like, the first time I finally felt like an adult in public and that realization that you don't have to deal with BS anymore. The 3 of Wands says to me you're done dreaming and scheming; you want to move forward with your life. You've set down some tangibles, and now you want to grow them. You have a lot of love to give; the Queen of Cups makes that abundantly clear. There's almost an urgency in giving into to someone -- or at least that's how this spread makes me feel.

The 7 suggests you're taking a wait and see approach with him, or at least you're trying to get yourself to not be the driving force here. You want him to step up to the plate and do something (again, I keep getting validation.) The environment is the Queen of Wands, and I want to say that I think this is the most important part of the spread... you're the Queen of the Cups at the moment, and if you look at the Rider-Waite version of the card, this Queen is staring intently at her chalice. That's it. She is focusing her everything there, but the Queen of Wands... she's looking out into the world. This coupled with the advice of Knight of Wands tells me rather starkly: stop wasting time on this man. If he wants you, he knows where you are. He knows how to get in touch with you. You need to be out in the world chasing down passions, being fiery.

The outcome is that you won't be waiting on a Page of Wands (r) -- someone who is all talk no action, someone who is afraid to move forward -- but instead, you'll end up with of King of Pentacles. He won't be the most dashing or outgoing, but when that man sees something he wants... he gets it. No questions asked. I was watching TV a few nights ago, and a woman said, "Men are the only ones who need to be loved. Women need to be wanted." I don't agree with it 100%, but I did feel like I was supposed to bring it up here.

So to me, there's a whole lot of tip-toeing to make this guy like you/feel strongly about you, and I would say stop. Don't go for it. You've got waaaaaaaaaaaay too much to give, and it's time you found somebody who recognizes it (and appreciates it and loves you for it.) The Knight of Wands is a bit of playboy; go have some fun I think. Date. Enjoy life. Things will turn out way better in that arena than I think you think is possible

Hope this helps at all. If not, please just let me know!! Sorry if that's the case.

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posted November 15, 2013 05:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OMG, you've hit the nail on the head here... And I don't mind waiting AT ALL if this is the result... O. M. G. Seriously, let me wrap my mind over this reading so I can give proper feedback to you...

So the Page of Cups with the Star tells me that there's a bit of fantasy that's been infused into the this thing, which isn't necessarily bad, but it isn't entirely helpful. Page of Cups is about dreams and crafting them, putting them into practice on the physical plane. There's an emphasis with creativity and intuition (the Star), which makes sense. You're trying to figure out how to get this thing hammered out, relying on your intuition and self for guidance. Add the 3 of Pentacles, and there's an emphasis on past teamwork. You mentioned you worked together; I feel like, if anything, there's a push to be in a relationship with this guy to validate you've been right all along. That there was something there beyond the pentacles. This I get from the past. There wasn't a relationship (the reversed 2), which is a bug stuck in your craw to be sure.

Yes, we worked together in the past, and he asked me out while we were at it, so I had to turn him down, even though I wanted to go out with him, because of that. And it's like, I thought I'd have a chance to see what would come out of us after I wasn't his subordinate any longer, but he went and got himself a girlfriend, so nothing really came out of it. And yes, it's like a thorn in my side that I didn't get to see what the potential would turn out to be in reality, that I "let myself lose such a good opportunity".

Even more so, because I'm getting the sense you're in a transition phase in your life. You're getting stronger, more determined. I don't want to say "growing up," because that's not right... but that's the feeling I get. Like, the first time I finally felt like an adult in public and that realization that you don't have to deal with BS anymore. The 3 of Wands says to me you're done dreaming and scheming; you want to move forward with your life. You've set down some tangibles, and now you want to grow them. You have a lot of love to give; the Queen of Cups makes that abundantly clear. There's almost an urgency in giving into to someone -- or at least that's how this spread makes me feel.

And you're very right on this ^. I'm about to get my first paycheck as a full-fledged profissional and am studying to get the career I want. On top of that, I've been working on past issues that prevented a lot of growth on my self, spiritually and emotionally. The transition from late teen to young woman is happening right as we speak. And you're right, I have so much love bottled up in me, it's like I'm almost fed up with waiting for Mr Right and getting the mindset to settle for Mr Right Now. Perhaps this is the reason I'm clinging to this guy: he is so much what I expect from Mr Right, I'm putting him under that lable without fully realizing there are other factors that I'm unaware of.

The 7 suggests you're taking a wait and see approach with him, or at least you're trying to get yourself to not be the driving force here. You want him to step up to the plate and do something (again, I keep getting validation.) The environment is the Queen of Wands, and I want to say that I think this is the most important part of the spread... you're the Queen of the Cups at the moment, and if you look at the Rider-Waite version of the card, this Queen is staring intently at her chalice. That's it. She is focusing her everything there, but the Queen of Wands... she's looking out into the world. This coupled with the advice of Knight of Wands tells me rather starkly: stop wasting time on this man. If he wants you, he knows where you are. He knows how to get in touch with you. You need to be out in the world chasing down passions, being fiery.

Yes, I'm giving him space and time, and all that nonsense about being a lady and waiting for the guy to act on things. If it were up to me, things would've moved either up or on, I wouldn't be in this stalemate. The advice is so... fitting, because in the past, especially in our relationship, I was out and about, doing my own thing. I did not wait for him, I did not bend to him, I did not ask for his opinion/permission (even though he was my boss), and did what I thought was best for me and for our work. Now, it's like I'm sitting on my porch, waiting for this guy to take me to prom and there's no sign of him or his car, not even smoke. And you're right, he knows my number if he wants to find me.

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posted November 15, 2013 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Had to cut the reply into two parts

The outcome is that you won't be waiting on a Page of Wands (r) -- someone who is all talk no action, someone who is afraid to move forward -- but instead, you'll end up with of King of Pentacles. He won't be the most dashing or outgoing, but when that man sees something he wants... he gets it. No questions asked. I was watching TV a few nights ago, and a woman said, "Men are the only ones who need to be loved. Women need to be wanted." I don't agree with it 100%, but I did feel like I was supposed to bring it up here.

Am I ending up with a King of Pentacles?! I'm normally Queen of Pentacles (when I'm clear-headed and not hanging on to some guy). I'm even a Virgo, for God's sake I can be impulsive, dashing and outgoing, but I'm much more practical, thoughtful and prone to stay at home reading a book. I can't believe I can get the KING of Pentacles... he's the ultimate partner for me!!

So to me, there's a whole lot of tip-toeing to make this guy like you/feel strongly about you, and I would say stop. Don't go for it. You've got waaaaaaaaaaaay too much to give, and it's time you found somebody who recognizes it (and appreciates it and loves you for it.) The Knight of Wands is a bit of playboy; go have some fun I think. Date. Enjoy life. Things will turn out way better in that arena than I think you think is possible

Oh, I definitely don't have high expectations, believe me! It's funny that Knight of Wands came up as advice, because just yesterday I arranged a meeting with a few friends, one of them being a guy I had a crush on in the past and another who actually tried to ask me out but I escaped before he got his words out So. Dating, huh? Doesn't sound much like fun to me (a fretting Virgo), but it could turn out to be fun, right? I'll have to keep telling myself that, though

Hope this helps at all. If not, please just let me know!! Sorry if that's the case.

It helped A LOT. You have no idea. I think I gave you proper feedback, especially because I went and looked the cards up myself, but if you feel like I forgot something, let me know. This was a very much an eye-opening like you have no idea!!

Thank you so so much! I really didn't expect such a through, accurate reading If you ever need horary readings or feel like being a guinea pig to a newbie playing cards reader, just hit me up here, ok? Very instructive and spot on!

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posted November 15, 2013 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beccathelion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ooooh good! I am glad that turned out. The KoP was a clarifier, so it'a possible you will find some LIKE him... Or at least you will be making moves closer to him. But yes, go out and date, my fretting Virgo Lol says the Leo who hasn't been on a date in over a year (and single for three and a half lol.) Also, congrats on moving into the arena of professional awesome adult!! It is so much fun; I am mega excited for you, and thank you so much for feedback. I get really nervous when I don't read for awhile. Rusted pipes and criss-crossed feelings haha.

I think, actually, I would really like a horary reading whenever you have time... but I have no idea what to ask (or how to frame it.) I am curious about my career, for sure, but also... Lol. I am kinda in the same situation. Waiting for someone. Wondering about that too

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posted November 15, 2013 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Horary is very sensitive to timing, so you need to be SURE you want that answer in that exact moment, otherwise you won't get a lot out of it. If you wanna see how it works, you can take a look at the horaries some members posted this week and how I worked them out. You'll get a picture and a feel for how it goes

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posted November 15, 2013 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sc0rpioRising:
I can't see it empress, you have done two reading on this before where he has seen me as high preiestess/empress. He just used me completely, and now is happy to move on with other girls and know that everyone is talking about me but is fine with it, at work he acts like nothing has happened and everyday he shocks me with stuff which breaks my heart a little bit more, I want him out out out, he gave me pain I never thought existed,,.. I'm gonna go cry,

Yes, but remember -- he is in a relationship, which is what I told you in the beginning. He was attracted, but he was also with other women/in a relationship. So yes, he is physically/sexually interested + attracted, but that's why I do not like The Empress card in love readings -- she comes off as the "mistress/other woman" more often than not. I'm sorry that he broke your heart though.

But I do see you two talking again, and it doesn't seem bad at all. It looks like you will 'forgive' him, or something along those lines (with those cards Becca drew). Remember that I got Empress+High Priestess+3 of Cups the first time - yes he was attracted, found you beautiful (you asked how he felt about you), but I warned you that he was 'dating/not committed/in another relationship' as well. Sorry you had to go through this though :[

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posted November 15, 2013 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beccathelion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Got it! You can delete it

So when I ask... It's based on everything working right then? I guess that's where I get turned around. Do you ask questions dealing with right now right then or stuff that is more open ended like a relationship thing?

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posted November 15, 2013 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Usually it's a specific question. We can get a lot more than the yes/no answer, though.

You have to decide on your question and word it in a positive way, like "will i date frank?" instead of "is frank not interested in me?"

I'm super bad at explaining how horary (and everything else) works, so please take a look here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/009083.html and here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/009063.html to see how it can work.

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posted November 15, 2013 10:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beccathelion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay! I got it. Would asking "Will we ever be romantic" be specific enough? Or appropriate? I only have ever done this one other time, last year, and it was with work.

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