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Topic: Fated Relationship? Help w/ Synastry!
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ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 13, 2013 05:45 PM
  
I'm wondering if my relationship with a new guy I'm dating is "fated" (using term loosely). We've only been dating for 4 months, but It sure seems that way:His Venus conjunct my Sun
His Sun conjunct my Saturn
His Pluto trine my Moon and sextile my Venus
His Sun trine my Moon and my Sun sextile his Moon
My Moon sextile his Neptune My Moon conjunct his South Node
My Mars square his North Node (not much info online about this)
My Saturn sextile his NN and trine his ASC
My ASC square his North Node
His Mercury trine my NN and conjunct my ASC
My Vertex square his Saturn In addition to the above aspects, we have the following house placements: My Sun in his 4th
His Sun in my 11th My Moon in his 9th
His Moon in my 12th My Venus in his 3rd (conjunct the 4th)
His Venus in my 10th My Mercury, Pluto,Jupiter and Saturn in his 5th His Mercury in my 12th, Pluto and Saturn in my 11th, his Jupiter in my 10th His Mars and Uranus in my 1st
My Mars and Uranus in his 6th This relationship has been very confusing for me, to say the least. I can't tell if I have any effect on him at all! There are times when I can tell that he definitely feels for me, but then there are times when his actions reveal the opposite. Please help, hahaha. Does anyone have any experience with ANY of these placements or can provide some insights into how these play out...especially the nodes? IP: Logged |
ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
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posted November 13, 2013 05:55 PM
Sorry, I would post the chart but I don't know how...IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted November 13, 2013 06:20 PM
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birdy
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posted November 13, 2013 06:39 PM
HOW TO GET YOUR CHART
1. Go to www.astro.com . You can create a free account or enter your birth data as a guest; however, creating an account will allow you to save your information – great for trying the different charts both for yourself and for others in your life. If you don’t know the exact time of your birth, do your best to find out – it *is* important.
2. Go to “Free Horoscopes” and then to “Extended Chart Selection.”
3. “Natal Chart Wheel” is the default, but you will need to go to “House System” (under “Options” use the drop-down to change to “equal”).
4. Click on “Click here to show the Chart,” then click on the chart which will appear.
5. Right-click and save the chart to your desktop.
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2. Select “Upload Now” which will bring up “Select Photos and Videos.”
3. Navigate to your desktop and select.
4. On right, click “Save and continue to my album.”
5. When you hover the mouse pointer over the chart, you will see that a box appears with a few options. If you need to edit out your name or anything else you don’t feel comfortable sharing on the boards, “edit” is in the top band of options. Select “edit” which opens your chart and provides editing options. Go to the tab “Decorate,” and you will see a number of icons, one of which is an eraser. Erase what you need to, and click “Replace original.”
6. Saving should take you to a new screen where you can see your chart and to the right, a bank of options to “Share this photo.” Click on the IMG code, which will flash and let you know that you’ve copied the link.
7. Go to your thread, open a new post and paste your link.
8. Don’t move or delete your chart from Photobucket, because the link only goes to where the chart was saved! IP: Logged |
ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 13, 2013 09:18 PM
Thanks Liliya and birdy! Here is the synastry chart.  IP: Logged |
ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 13, 2013 09:20 PM
And the composite...  IP: Logged |
theunknown
Knowflake Posts: 3180
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posted November 14, 2013 06:38 AM
Was it love at first sight?IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted November 14, 2013 07:07 AM
The communication must be very strong, deep, and probably the very thing that brought you together. You both seem to have charts to indicate mental stimulation is important so you probably both value this connection because it's not so common to find. It shows you guys are different but in a way that is fascinating. I will add more later. IP: Logged |
ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 14, 2013 10:25 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
Was it love at first sight?
I think it was for me. He'd never admit to that though, hahaha.
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ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
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Registered: May 2011
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posted November 14, 2013 10:40 AM
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Originally posted by birdy:
The communication must be very strong, deep, and probably the very thing that brought you together. You both seem to have charts to indicate mental stimulation is important so you probably both value this connection because it's not so common to find. It shows you guys are different but in a way that is fascinating. I will add more later.
Yes, the communication between us is very deep. Although, I feel that he tells lots of "white lies" to me. Could this be his Mercury in my 12th? I definitely look forward to you analysis birdie  IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted November 14, 2013 10:50 AM
Yes it is fated. You are soulmates. It can lead to marriage.IP: Logged |
ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 14, 2013 01:23 PM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Yes it is fated. You are soulmates. It can lead to marriage.
Thanks Rosalind! What leads you to that conclusion. IP: Logged |
ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
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posted November 15, 2013 09:16 PM
Anyone?IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted November 15, 2013 10:31 PM
the synastry and the composite are both very strong, which is a good sign all around. in the composite you have the vertex within 2 degrees of the DSC, which is a strong indicator of karmic relationships and often marriage. the venus is well positioned in the 6th and love the sun in 7th, and moon in 11th for friendship. the synastry itself is pretty good too - would like to see better house placements, but you've got a lot of conjunctions to major personal planets and the moon in the 12th is actually nice - it keeps you guys attuned to one another emotionally, and the vertex is well placed in synastry too. thumbs up for this one :-)I think the 'white lies' are more to do with just the sign of scorpio itself than the placement in your 12th. scorpios will often just 'test' a partner with little games like that, and the fact you can pick up on it would be 12th house. so don't assume they are lies, but little tests, and the fact you can read that is actually positive. since you have the scorpio ASC you'll be able to read him really well and the lies won't get past you. enjoy your relationship, it looks lovely on paper. IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted November 17, 2013 06:51 PM
I also see the potential for marriage(doesn't mean it will happen but the potential is there).The moon/mercury in 12th could explain his behavior. This also has the potential for a intuitive connection more stronger than verbal. If one or both people aren't mature enough, this could be a difficult aspect for clear communications.
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ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 18, 2013 11:38 AM
quote:
Originally posted by starmoon:
the synastry and the composite are both very strong, which is a good sign all around. in the composite you have the vertex within 2 degrees of the DSC, which is a strong indicator of karmic relationships and often marriage. the venus is well positioned in the 6th and love the sun in 7th, and moon in 11th for friendship. the synastry itself is pretty good too - would like to see better house placements, but you've got a lot of conjunctions to major personal planets and the moon in the 12th is actually nice - it keeps you guys attuned to one another emotionally, and the vertex is well placed in synastry too. thumbs up for this one :-)I think the 'white lies' are more to do with just the sign of scorpio itself than the placement in your 12th. scorpios will often just 'test' a partner with little games like that, and the fact you can pick up on it would be 12th house. so don't assume they are lies, but little tests, and the fact you can read that is actually positive. since you have the scorpio ASC you'll be able to read him really well and the lies won't get past you. enjoy your relationship, it looks lovely on paper.
Thanks StarMoon! Very, very reassuring. It's funny because just last night he told me that he feels we were meant to meet each other! He said that he loves me deeply and in a "different" kind of way. One concern I have, however, is that he also said he doesn't like having sex with me (YIKES). He explained that it's not because he's not attracted to me, but rather because he feels that our relationship is much deeper than that and that he feels it somehow "tarnishes" what we have. I don't know how to feel about that, hahaha. Is that his Capricorn on the 8th hse cusp, or the Moon / Neptune contact in synastry? Whatever it is, we've got some work to do! As for the white lies, you are right. I see through him like he's made of glass. But I've learned which lies to call him out on...so far, it's not too bad. He's actually planning on moving in Dec. 1st, which is scary, but having my Sun in his 4th may help. I just worry about that Venus / Uranus square... IP: Logged |
ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 18, 2013 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by birdy:
I also see the potential for marriage(doesn't mean it will happen but the potential is there).The moon/mercury in 12th could explain his behavior. This also has the potential for a intuitive connection more stronger than verbal. If one or both people aren't mature enough, this could be a difficult aspect for clear communications.
Thanks Birdie! We definitely have an intuitive connection. I can't tell you how many times he dials my number at the exact moment I'm dialing his. Weird. And he always seem to know exactly what I'm thinking
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ShadesOfMe
Newflake Posts: 13
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 18, 2013 11:48 AM
Also, would you consider our composite Sun in the 7th or the 8th? If in the 8th, what does a packed 8th house such as ours indicate? I've heard everything from fated relationship to secret affair...IP: Logged |
Ltownboogie
Knowflake Posts: 104
From: USA
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 20, 2013 01:02 AM
I wonder if Saturn in the 8th could have to do with the not wanting to have sex... Interesting composite. My ex husband's and I have our composite sun in 7th house. 9 year relationship (unfortunately ended with divorce) Take a look at my composite if you don't mind, too. I just posted it in personal readings "Composite help-personal planet stellium/conj"  Looks promising (yours)!IP: Logged |
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