posted November 15, 2013 02:01 AM            

I feel isolated and a bit of a loser in the love department.

True, I'm not forcefully trying but I guess...even with the people I meet I feel like I'm not clicking with a potential. Or I'm just so out of it...I'm blah? I don't know if anyone gets that feeling. I want love, to give love more than want, and to be cared for but I'm so burnt out trying, so I'm focusing on myself.

I found out today that a guy, who I cared for a lot and spoke endlessly about, moved on....to a girl that is ....just like me. She's so much like me that we could be sisters. lol

He replaced me. I've tried to hold myself together for a while...I admit I was a bit...out of it today. I'm sad, then I'm relieved. I guess, I just know how that will turn out. If I know anything about him...then I know...it won't work. I just dislike thinking about it all together. Being replaced. It's not a nice thought. To be entirely replaced....by someone just like you. If she was different and something I'm not...I would feel hurt but not like this.

Will someone do a tarot reading for me regarding my love life?

posted November 17, 2013 12:27 AM            

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Originally posted by dadoo:
I think I'm a bit like you, and no, it's not so nice for me either.
I wouldn't relate it to luck though. It's clearly my doing.

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Oh...well...mine is not my doing but his.

I know he didn't treat me well...but he was the only one who tried to treat me anything. I have no one else.

So even a broken car was a car...

posted November 17, 2013 04:54 AM            

This represents a gift of power, movement, the start of creativity, a burst of enthusiasm or physical energy. It may be an inspired idea, perhaps involving a new enterprise, which has not been considered before. All positive beginnings.

So GO AHEAD. The Universe supports you. Carry on.

I asked will she succeed. And you got -

XI JUSTICE

This represents impartiality, rationality, balanced judgment, integrity and arbitration. It suggests that right is on your side in this instance and a just decision will be made in this matter.

So All the Best.

posted November 17, 2013 10:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I just don't feel lucky or anything in that romantic area.

I feel isolated and a bit of a loser in the love department.

True, I'm not forcefully trying but I guess...even with the people I meet I feel like I'm not clicking with a potential. Or I'm just so out of it...I'm blah? I don't know if anyone gets that feeling. I want love, to give love more than want, and to be cared for but I'm so burnt out trying, so I'm focusing on myself.

I found out today that a guy, who I cared for a lot and spoke endlessly about, moved on....to a girl that is ....just like me. She's so much like me that we could be sisters. lol

He replaced me. I've tried to hold myself together for a while...I admit I was a bit...out of it today. I'm sad, then I'm relieved. I guess, I just know how that will turn out. If I know anything about him...then I know...it won't work. I just dislike thinking about it all together. Being replaced. It's not a nice thought. To be entirely replaced....by someone just like you. If she was different and something I'm not...I would feel hurt but not like this.

Will someone do a tarot reading for me regarding my love life?

Thanks

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Hi Dreaming,
this is not a tarot reading, but just my opinion and words of encouragement.
The fact that he found another girl who looks just like you and is similar to you should be a compliment in a way, because he is trying to recreate YOU.
I should know, I did the same thing with my first love. After all fell apart, I was so sad and was begging the universe to be with him ( that ship has sailed ) so I met a guy who looked EXACTLY like him, and in a way that was what I needed.

posted November 19, 2013 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by lola:
Because my case is similar, I am either alone ir dealing with users

I have decided to Ditch the current person then I can focus elsewhere

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posted November 19, 2013 10:08 PM            

Today was an excellent day....
I haven't been this happy since I met him...lol

I'm back! I'm back to my old self. I simply asked him one question that plagued me and though his answer didn't matter.....it was the process..of getting it out there. I felt soo up and down after...I won't lie.

But today in the shower, I had an epiphany. It just clicked.....

Omg ...this feeling is spectacular.

Also...I have to note....I meditated and did yoga today for the first time in a long time....I think I stopped after meeting him. lol...Maybe that's it.

Whatever it is....I'm back. My spark is finally back...I'm not a zombie!!

I tried to be strong all this time...but I was hurt and trying to pretend to be courageous.

Now it's released...I feel youthful and like dancing. And me again.

Love&Light: Thank you girl. You are so awesome.

Oh and I read that in twirl's thread hehe...

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Originally posted by Love&Light:
Dreaming, You got the Ace of Wands. That is just great. I will post exactly what I picked here -
ACE OF WANDS

This represents a gift of power, movement, the start of creativity, a burst of enthusiasm or physical energy. It may be an inspired idea, perhaps involving a new enterprise, which has not been considered before. All positive beginnings.

So GO AHEAD. The Universe supports you. Carry on.

I asked will she succeed. And you got -

XI JUSTICE

This represents impartiality, rationality, balanced judgment, integrity and arbitration. It suggests that right is on your side in this instance and a just decision will be made in this matter.

So All the Best.

Btw I posted your reading in Twirl's thread.

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posted November 19, 2013 10:09 PM            

Thank you. I'd love that.

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Dreaming, did I ever read your Natal Chart? (can't remember now). If not, make a new topic, post the natal chart to see what's wrong. Would you like that?

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posted November 19, 2013 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Sandra018:
Hi Dreaming,
this is not a tarot reading, but just my opinion and words of encouragement.
The fact that he found another girl who looks just like you and is similar to you should be a compliment in a way, because he is trying to recreate YOU.
I should know, I did the same thing with my first love. After all fell apart, I was so sad and was begging the universe to be with him ( that ship has sailed ) so I met a guy who looked EXACTLY like him, and in a way that was what I needed.

You obviously left a mark..
sending happy thoughts

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Aww that was really sweet of you to say.

I suppose so...

Though he told me I was a lot like his ex...so maybe that's how he is. He tries to find the girl before in his present girl.

Anyway, I'm really ok and actually quite happy today.

I hope this happiness lasts me a long time. hehe...It's been so long in coming...

Btw, what happened with the guy who looked like your ex? Are you still together?

posted November 21, 2013 01:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I just don't feel lucky or anything in that romantic area.

I feel isolated and a bit of a loser in the love department.

True, I'm not forcefully trying but I guess...even with the people I meet I feel like I'm not clicking with a potential. Or I'm just so out of it...I'm blah? I don't know if anyone gets that feeling. I want love, to give love more than want, and to be cared for but I'm so burnt out trying, so I'm focusing on myself.

I found out today that a guy, who I cared for a lot and spoke endlessly about, moved on....to a girl that is ....just like me. She's so much like me that we could be sisters. lol

He replaced me. I've tried to hold myself together for a while...I admit I was a bit...out of it today. I'm sad, then I'm relieved. I guess, I just know how that will turn out. If I know anything about him...then I know...it won't work. I just dislike thinking about it all together. Being replaced. It's not a nice thought. To be entirely replaced....by someone just like you. If she was different and something I'm not...I would feel hurt but not like this.

Will someone do a tarot reading for me regarding my love life?

Thanks

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Ditto for me.
I recall one time being replaced by someone just like me. It didn't bother me though. It was such a long, exhausting relationship that I just didn't care as long as they were gone.

posted November 22, 2013 12:14 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Ditto for me.
I recall one time being replaced by someone just like me. It didn't bother me though. It was such a long, exhausting relationship that I just didn't care as long as they were gone.

I feel much the same. I'm not putting in a whole lot of effort and not a lot of people even spark my interest. If they do then they tend to be unattainable anyway.
I never used to be but I'm a bit skittish now. If I sense a warning sign then I run for cover. I'm outta there! I don't even stick around to see if it can be worked out. So that's my bad I guess. It's just that I've done that countless times and usually whatever it is about them just gets even worse. So I've been tending to go into it thinking that whatever about them (personality/habits) that I don't care for will be 10x worse once things get much more serious.
Probably a mistake on my part but oh well. That's just how it is!

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But aren't you right? I mean....it does always become worse. Idk...I don't believe in the fairy tale love, the disney love at all, but now I don't even believe in one-to-one, lifetime love. Who does that anymore?

All around me I see broken marriages or ones aching to break. When I see content couples it's because one doesn't know or is oblivious to the fact the other is cheating or a sociopath. Many times it's with one person with their head stuck in a cloud assuming things are great and another person in it for something else ...the security.

Then I see people stuck...They don't hate one another but they barely talk or share any interest. They are stuck because of their kids...

Look at the divorce rates, it's an indication that I love you means nothing. It's empty.

No one really cares....The passion the interest dies out and then people just get stuck or runaway.

How many marry a person they would call a dear friend, are happy, are content with the marriage and never have an infidelity or trust issue....?

I have never ever heard or seen a couple like that. None. (And I don't consider couples that cheated to be with one another a valid example really.)

Love sucks. Relationships suck. It's all pointless. 2 minutes of fun a lifetime of drama drama drama...

posted November 23, 2013 02:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
But aren't you right? I mean....it does always become worse. Idk...I don't believe in the fairy tale love, the disney love at all, but now I don't even believe in one-to-one, lifetime love. Who does that anymore?

All around me I see broken marriages or ones aching to break. When I see content couples it's because one doesn't know or is oblivious to the fact the other is cheating or a sociopath. Many times it's with one person with their head stuck in a cloud assuming things are great and another person in it for something else ...the security.

Then I see people stuck...They don't hate one another but they barely talk or share any interest. They are stuck because of their kids...

Look at the divorce rates, it's an indication that I love you means nothing. It's empty.

No one really cares....The passion the interest dies out and then people just get stuck or runaway.

How many marry a person they would call a dear friend, are happy, are content with the marriage and never have an infidelity or trust issue....?

I have never ever heard or seen a couple like that. None. (And I don't consider couples that cheated to be with one another a valid example really.)

Love sucks. Relationships suck. It's all pointless. 2 minutes of fun a lifetime of drama drama drama...

(I know I'm being cranky...I feel cranky. )

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I agree! It sucks.

There's a lot of issues these days but one of the top issues that I see are the excitement chasers.
Everything is exciting, new, etc. Marriages happen because they think it changes things when it really doesn't other than legally. I'm not against marriage. I would love to be married but I know it doesn't actually change the relationship. I'm weird maybe. LOL

For me, that's not important any more. It used to be, but now I realize that the excitement probably won't last. It could, but I haven't seen it.
Security, trust, loyalty, faithfulness, and friendship. Those are the things most important to me.
Oh, a willingness to work on things if they are not right. Just don't give up.
I'm at a point that if it's gone downhill and one day I "wake up" and recognize it. I'll try to change things for the better - a nice surprise, etc. Do something special. I want to know that they would do the same.
Even if you're mad at each other. I think it's important to realize that you do love each other. People get focused on their anger, they get stubborn, refusing to admit their wrongs and when you have two like that. Things crumble pretty fast.

I've found out first hand at work at least, if you make a change and start a good thing. Respond with kindness to someone who's being bitter/rude. It very often changes things. What goes around comes around. It really works!

I want someone who recognizes those things and is willing to dedicate themselves to the relationship, to us. Who won't back out when things go dark and will instead try to light a candle to light up the relationship again.

You know I can remember older generations like my grandparents and such. Maybe my Grandpa would like something and my Grandma just says lovingly, "He likes *******. I don't understand it but I just laugh."
I've ended up with people who say, "Why do you like that?" with like a judgmental look on their face. BIG BIG difference there.

Anyway, now I'm going on and on. Hahaha

I feel your frustration though.