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Topic: @Jessica..I want to tell you something.
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SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 1242 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2013 01:47 PM
Hi Jess After the break we took from each other, we met and talked. We both tried to see things objectively while remaining true to our selves. In the end, I decided to break it off, I told why and how I wasn't really "at ease" with him. He said that we are too different to make this work out and that each one of us crave a totally different type of relationships. We decided to remain friends. I feel so relieved but at the same time empty ?? u know that weird mixed feeling. It's bizarre..but I'm happy ! I remained true to myself IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4366 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 12:25 AM
Was that his first reaction when you told him?IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4366 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 12:33 AM
I believe that weird mixed feeling is because you expected him to fight to keep you guys together. When a guy fights to keep his relationship with his woman, that's for me is a beautiful proof of love. Don't worry too much about things that could have been you know, if it were to happen it'll happen. However, I would like to ask you, was it the astrology readings that made you break off with him? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 1242 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 09:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: I believe that weird mixed feeling is because you expected him to fight to keep you guys together. When a guy fights to keep his relationship with his woman, that's for me is a beautiful proof of love. Don't worry too much about things that could have been you know, if it were to happen it'll happen. However, I would like to ask you, was it the astrology readings that made you break off with him?
No, it was not because of the reading. We already had our own share of problems before I even considered astrology. We are incompatible emotionally. He took me for granted and raised his voice at me more than once. He always made me feel " unequal" treating me like a " little girl". He wanted to control everything in the relationship thus the possessiveness. I felt restricted and in some ways emotionally " manipulated". He simply wasn't what I was looking for. I want a man who respects me and is truly able to " see" me and not the image he painted of me for himself. I'm nothing like the woman he believe I am. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4366 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 10:53 AM
You are being a brave girl Silver.I sincerely hope things get better for you and that soon enough you will meet your guy IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 1242 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 11:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: You are being a brave girl Silver.I sincerely hope things get better for you and that soon enough you will meet your guy
Thank you Jess but no..I think I had enough of men problems that will last me this entire year. I'm going back to my peaceful, comfortable and stress-free singlehood !! IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4366 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 12:31 PM
You will meet him when you least expect it!IP: Logged |