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SilverFeather
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posted November 24, 2013 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It seems like he is indeed changing because he used to be so prideful that I thought he will never admit to his mistakes and ask me out again, but surprisingly he did and he apologized for all the wrong things he did.

He said he is willing to remain as a friend for now until we could start all over again.


Do you think I should give him another chance guys ? Can I get some insight from the tarot ? I'd truly appreciate it

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posted November 25, 2013 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for elixir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just drew one card -9 of swords rx. So if you keep communicating with him or if you do take him back things will be different. You would approach things differently this time, and more realistically. There would be more honesty and communication, and you would also not let him fool you. You would have more of the upper hand.

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posted November 25, 2013 02:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for elixir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So maybe just for now its better to talk and see where it goes. You have to make sure you are both clear on where things stand.

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posted November 25, 2013 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Elixi

Things will be different for sure. I was naive the first time, seeing him through pink-colored glasses but now, I don't anymore. He must learn to understand me and accept as I am, if he is not willing then I will let him go like I did before.

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posted November 25, 2013 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can u Elixi do a full love spread for me, regarding this ?
I will gladly do one in exchange for you. Just leave your question

Btw, I've been getting the Emperor a lot in my recent readings and I know that the Majors do not mess around. What do u think it means ?

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posted November 25, 2013 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Silver!

I think we are on the same boat! My ex wants me back too

Good luck for you girl!

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posted November 25, 2013 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Hi Silver!

I think we are on the same boat! My ex wants me back too

Good luck for you girl!


Hi dani !
lol it's funny how they want to come back when we least expect them to !
I'm not really sure if I should take him back again. What about you ?

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posted November 25, 2013 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
Hi dani !
lol it's funny how they want to come back when we least expect them to !
I'm not really sure if I should take him back again. What about you ?

I don't know... I really didn't talk to him yet, but my friend told me that in his eyes, much passion coming from him while they were talking about me... even when he said he wasn't missing me.... the dawn thing is I love him too much...

And yes, that's funny! I was talking my life at easy, going to pursue things I wanted then... Boom! He went to temple looking for me....

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posted November 25, 2013 12:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
I don't know... I really didn't talk to him yet, but my friend told me that in his eyes, much passion coming from him while they were talking about me... even when he said he wasn't missing me.... the dawn thing is I love him too much...

And yes, that's funny! I was talking my life at easy, going to pursue things I wanted then... Boom! He went to temple looking for me....

Do you love yours?


I'm very attracted to him but love, we weren't together for long for it to develop ( 4 months).
He seems to be quite serious about me, even after I broke it off. He kept calling, checking how I was and asking my friends about me.
Last week, I had a terrible fight with my best friend. He was the one to comfort me.

I asked the tarot last night about his intentions, I got the King of Pentacles twice. It is so true when I started to forget about him and focus on myself, he shows up !! lol it's weird.

How about u Dani ? Did u get a reading regarding this ?

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posted November 25, 2013 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
I'm very attracted to him but love, we weren't together for long for it to develop ( 4 months).
He seems to be quite serious about me, even after I broke it off. He kept calling, checking how I was and asking my friends about me.
Last week, I had a terrible fight with my best friend. He was the one to comfort me.

I asked the tarot last night about his intentions, I got the King of Pentacles twice.

How about u Dani ? Did u get a reading regarding this ?


Wow dear! Really he cares about you
King of Pentacles is a person who is stable, knows here to go.... I think he is a good guy for you....

I pulled some cards too, and one of them were Force + King of Pentacles... I think my ex is trying to be a better person. I asked for a reading, but seems he take me granted or something like this. He is a very confusing one, but I feel he thinks and somethimes call my name in this heart... I'm s Scorpio and he's a Pisces...

Silver, Is asking that much if you pull some cards for me? About his true feelings and intentions? I can do another to you, if you want, leave your quesition..

Thanks for the chat

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posted November 25, 2013 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Wow dear! Really he cares about you
King of Pentacles is a person who is stable, knows here to go.... I think he is a good guy for you....

I pulled some cards too, and one of them were Force + King of Pentacles... I think my ex is trying to be a better person. I asked for a reading, but seems he take me granted or something like this. He is a very confusing one, but I feel he thinks and somethimes call my name in this heart... I'm s Scorpio and he's a Pisces...

Silver, Is asking that much if you pull some cards for me? About his true feelings and intentions? I can do another to you, if you want, leave your quesition..

Thanks for the chat


No problem hon I will gladly pull some for you

I will do the " Me and my Ex" spread for you.
It's a 10 cards spread, very accurate in my case.
I pulled the cards for myself but what I'm looking for is interpretation. Can you do it for me ?

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posted November 25, 2013 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
No problem hon I will gladly pull some for you

I will do the " Me and my Ex" spread for you.
It's a 10 cards spread, very accurate in my case.
I pulled the cards for myself but what I'm looking for is interpretation. Can you do it for me ?


\o/ Thanks!

Sure I can! Let me know what cards you got!

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posted November 25, 2013 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok here is mine. I will do the same spread for you.

1- How The relationship used to be : ACE OF CUPS.

2- What led to the end of the relationship : THE MOON.

3- What was the significance of the relationship : THE THREE OF WANDS

4- Where the relationship currently stands : FIVE OF PENTACLES.

5- What I want from the relationship : THE SUN.

6- What does he want from the relationship : KING OF PENTACLES.

7- What obstacles need to be overcome to renew the relationship : JUSTICE.

8- Is this relationship 'meant to be' : SIX OF PENTACLES.

9- Where the relationship is headed in the near future : DEATH.

10 - What is my best course of action at the moment : TEMPERANCE.

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posted November 25, 2013 12:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
Ok here is mine. I will do the same spread for you.

Here we go with the interpretations:

1- How The relationship used to be : ACE OF CUPS.
The relationship was at the beggining, sure. The seed of love was growing up in a very beautiful one. I don't know why but I saw a rose while thinking about this card. You both had feelings growing slowly, as it usually has to be...

2- What led to the end of the relationship : THE MOON.
Confusions, not clear sayings or even emotions not said were the cause of the breaking. Moon feels like mystery. Maybe one of you didn't feel well with this situation.

3- What was the significance of the relationship : THE THREE OF WANDS
This relationship was meant to be a gather of forces between two complete individuals to stand the tests ahead. The more power, the stronger the relationship was. I sense that outside forces didn't get in the way when you're together...

4- Where the relationship currently stands : FIVE OF PENTACLES.
The relationship has a feeling of losing for both of you. You have lost each other, are broken apart, just with the memories of good times.... but as 5 of pentacles, a reunion can be ahead, just work for this.

5- What I want from the relationship : THE SUN.
You want joy, happiness, light, warm, love and friendship from this relationship. Everything turning good for you and you want this for him too. .. and you are the sun in this relationship, the one who shines...

6- What does he want from the relationship : KING OF PENTACLES.
He looks for stability. With this relationship, he wants to build his life in a grounded area, not that emotional chaos that some relationships are. I sense he is represented by this card too.

7- What obstacles need to be overcome to renew the relationship : JUSTICE.
Justice call for bring the problems to be overlooked and solved for once. And that's fair you both reach an agreement. Just try not to be toooo rational, let some emotions come in too during this process.


8- Is this relationship 'meant to be' : SIX OF PENTACLES.
Yes, this card remind me the sentence: gain what is fair, for what you worked for. So if you both worked hard to find yourselves, to balance and know thyselves, this relationship is going to reach another level.

9- Where the relationship is headed in the near future : DEATH.
Transformations. That the key word of thie relationship. Both you will pass through changes, but they are needed. Don't worry if you don't know yourself after this. But the change just will be done if both want this change...

10 - What is my best course of action at the moment : TEMPERANCE.
For now, try to find you balanced center, know yourself and if everything is going slowly, better this way: you and him are making the healing process. When talking to him, try to be balanced, don't show too much emotion, but not too rational...

I hope my interpretation goes nice... I just need to write more... sometimes I'm just too straight with the words..

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posted November 25, 2013 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is your spread Dani

1- How the relationship used to be : JUDGEMENT.

Your relationship wasn't balanced. There was a lack of honest and open communication between the two of you. In my experience, I see this cards a lot in the reading of couples who have "emotional" barriers/blockage between them which can lead them to not truly "see" each other.

There could've been a foggy quality to the relationship. You tended to test each other out a lot in the process. This card indicates in some cases, relationships that break in order to be re-build again on better basis.

I think there is a Karmic quality to this relationship, it was a lesson for both of you.

2- What lead to the end of the relationship : QUEEN OF PENTACLES.

A woman, very possibly an ex of his. I feel some emotional confusion from his part in relation to this woman. There could be some attachment, not necessarily love but an emotional bound of some sort.

3- What was the significance of the relationship : THE STAR.

This relationship signified a hope and a dream for both of you but maybe you mostly. You worked hard for it to last but your efforts were not met from his part.

He could've took you for granted and wasn't aware of much hope you invested in this relationship.

4- Where the relationship currently stands : TWO OF WANDS.

You are at a fork-way at the moment. Two options are presented to you and you have to choose. To take him back or to let him go. It's your decision.

5- What you want from the relationship : THE HANGED MAN.

You want change, a new prescriptive and you won't settle for less. This relationship must be re-evaluated for it work for you. Things must go upside-down and changes must occur in how your partner perceives you.

6- What your ex wants from the relationship : Strength ( Force).

He wants to be a better person through this relationship. He is looking for a chance to fix past mistakes and prove his worthiness. He is rather determined.

7- What obstacles need to be overcome to renew the relationship : EIGHT OF CUPS.

8 of cups indicates old unbroken and negative patterns in relationships. For this to work, these patterns bust be broken and change is vital.

You must not give up yet but do not in any way or form let yourself be led around by him. Don't ever give him the chance to emotionally manipulate you and take you for a fool. Be strong and stand for yourself if you ever feel emotionally cheated or deceived by him.

8- Is this relationship 'meant to be' : SEVEN OF WANDS.

Whether this relationship is meant to be or not, you will definitely learn a lot from it.

Courage, standing up for yourself, pushing through obstacles, standing your ground, inner strength. Those are all key words for the seven of Wands.

9- Where the relationship is headed in the near future : NINE OF CUPS.

You got yourself the wish card whatever you are hoping for at the moment could very likely come true. I think it's very possible that you will get back together and give it another shot. Just remain realistic, don't let yourself be swept by fantasies.

10- What is your best course of action : THE WORLD.

Like the wheel of fortune, the world tells you to have faith in the universe and to let natural change take its course. Don't rush things but at the same time, be open to new possibilities regarding your relationship.

I hope I helped hon tell me does it resonate ?

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posted November 25, 2013 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi SilverFeather!

Thanks soooo much for the reading. I pulled yesterday the same following you pulled: World,Hanged Man, Seven of wands, Force and 9 of Cups. Well, not the same positions, but one thing caught my eye in these 2 readings (mine and yours): Force signifining him. I pulled Force and King of Pentacles in the present, and I felt that he truly wants to be a better one... And this King for me is meant to be my future husband! I know, I won't rush things, but it was interesting... 9 of Cups I pulled as the meaning of question, and Seven of Wands for the future... Maybe we will be together in the future... in a more balanced way... who knows?

Let me know about the reading I did for you! \o/

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posted November 25, 2013 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And yes, he told me that he still likes his ex, but I know that she doesn't want him back. But I know that he likes me too, in some way. I'll let you know if anything changes here..

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posted November 25, 2013 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Hi SilverFeather!

Thanks soooo much for the reading. I pulled yesterday the same following you pulled: World,Hanged Man, Seven of wands, Force and 9 of Cups. Well, not the same positions, but one thing caught my eye in these 2 readings (mine and yours): Force signifining him. I pulled Force and King of Pentacles in the present, and I felt that he truly wants to be a better one... And this King for me is meant to be my future husband! I know, I won't rush things, but it was interesting... 9 of Cups I pulled as the meaning of question, and Seven of Wands for the future... Maybe we will be together in the future... in a more balanced way... who knows?

Let me know about the reading I did for you! \o/


That's good Dani ! When cards get pulled more than one time than they're definitely trying to tell you something. That's how I test the accuracy of the readings I do

I was told that The King of Pentacles is supposed to symbolize my true soulmate. I keep getting in my love readings all the time. My ex happens to have a Stellium in Virgo but I'm not sure it's him.

Do you think it could be him ?

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posted November 25, 2013 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sorry to butt in like this, but I thought this spread was intriguing; I tried it out myself. Not a real relationship, but some sort of connection.


1- How The relationship used to be : EIGHT of SWORDS

2- What led to the end of the relationship : TWO of WANDS

3- What was the significance of the relationship : FOOL

4- Where the relationship currently stands : SIX of WANDS

5- What I want from the relationship : TWO of SWORDS

6- What does he want from the relationship : THREE of PENTACLES

7- What obstacles need to be overcome to renew the relationship :SIX of PENTACLES

8- Is this relationship 'meant to be' : SUN

9- Where the relationship is headed in the near future : MAGICIAN

10 - What is my best course of action at the moment : PAGE of WANDS

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posted November 25, 2013 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yup it's a nice spread pretty accurate too.

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posted November 25, 2013 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
That's good Dani ! When cards get pulled more than one time than they're definitely trying to tell you something. That's how I test the accuracy of the readings I do

I was told that The King of Pentacles is supposed to symbolize my true soulmate. I keep getting in my love readings all the time. My ex happens to have a Stellium in Virgo but I'm not sure it's him.

Do you think it could be him ?


Yes, In tarot and astrology, King of Pentacles is between Leo and Virgo... does he have something in Leo?

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posted November 25, 2013 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Yes, In tarot and astrology, King of Pentacles is between Leo and Virgo... does he have something in Leo?

He is a Leo Ascendant and Moon. His Jupiter is also in Leo conjuncting his Moon and ASC but when I posted our synastry, everyone told me not to get involved with him.
I'm conflicted

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posted November 25, 2013 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
He is a Leo Ascendant and Moon. His Jupiter is also in Leo conjuncting his Moon and ASC but when I posted our synastry, everyone told me not to get involved with him.
I'm conflicted

Dear, one thing I learned: people can use the chart or not! I know a couple, she's Scorpio and he's Aquarius... no good match, hum? They are married almost 20 years. Synastry is how things can work. Tarot for me shows more, because the situations what come to us is very different. And if he doesn't uses his Moon in the right manner? Or in the wrong? I had a wonderful synastry with F, but now we are apart...

Keep the faith dear! Listen to your heart, as I did with mine now. It has all the answers..

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posted November 25, 2013 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Dear, one thing I learned: people can use the chart or not! I know a couple, she's Scorpio and he's Aquarius... no good match, hum? They are married almost 20 years. Synastry is how things can work. Tarot for me shows more, because the situations what come to us is very different. And if he doesn't uses his Moon in the right manner? Or in the wrong? I had a wonderful synastry with F, but now we are apart...

Keep the faith dear! Listen to your heart, as I did with mine now. It has all the answers..


Thank u sweetie

Can I post our synastry for u to see it Dani ? I would like to hear what you have to say,honestly.

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posted November 25, 2013 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
Thank u sweetie

Can I post our synastry for u to see it Dani ? I would like to hear what you have to say,honestly.


Sure dear! Let me see it...

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