posted November 24, 2013 07:18 PM            

I wanted to see if me moving to St Louis is going to be a good thing or bad thing or just stale thing? will I be able to obtain a job, will I be able to get an apart. Ok, and will I be able to make new friends and possibly a strong love interest..... or my chances for all that better here in Chicago?

posted November 24, 2013 07:48 PM            

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Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
hey cherful! i'd love to exchange.
my q is i got an akashik reading from someone years ago and the reader told me that someone(an older man) will enter my life in a different role than i have seen them in the past and they will help me enhance my gift. they mentioned that i have a gift that i need to work on , practice and use to help people further down the line. i want to know what kind of gift they were referring to in that reading(i feel it is something esoteric and related to sixth sense), and if W is the person who is supposed to help me in this regard? and if not, how will i meet this person who will help me recognize and work on this gift?
i'll be back with your reading in a bit!

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posted November 24, 2013 08:48 PM            

are you waiting to hear from someone? i see you receiving a good news from this person and it will bring you much happiness. if you move to st louis you will be welcomed very well and also make new friends there. this news will bring you change and progress.do you want to move there because of a man? because he keeps showing up every time i shuffle lol! you will receive love and kindness from this someone whom you seem to love. this could be a long lasting and rewarding relationship for you.

the whip/ the heart/ the mountain

now finding a job there in st louis could be a challenge for you. i see you are already conflicted about the same and there could be arguments over this topic with the guy of your interest. you are not able to convince them over your concerns for job. it will be challenging for you to find a job there and you should not take it lightly.

king of swords/ 7 of pentacles/ 4 of wands base: 3 of pentacles

i see you having second thoughts again but i feel that you just need to make a choice and stick with it. it might take time for things to shape up as per your desire but it is going to turn out pretty well. you need to leave things that have not been working for you. i have a feeling it has to do with a man again. you will be able to find good company as i wrote before as well as with the help of friends you will be able to find a better place for yourself and could also find someone who may be interested in a committed relationship

please do let me know if it resonates or not!!

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I have been applying for positions in St Louis and I'm from Chicago but I figured I need a new change. I just don't think that my life was meant to be in Chicago as nothing really comes to great fulfillment here in the city.

I wanted to see if me moving to St Louis is going to be a good thing or bad thing or just stale thing? will I be able to obtain a job, will I be able to get an apart. Ok, and will I be able to make new friends and possibly a strong love interest..... or my chances for all that better here in Chicago?

feel free to leave your question and I will leave for you thanks!

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posted November 24, 2013 08:57 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
very interesting this gift has something to do with helping people stop crying or whether the need to get a good cathartic release out. I don't necessarily think this is a new age type of gift. I think it's a gift of your inner compassion being used to heal those who have been hurt..... mostly by people who hurt themselves.... But not the typical counselor dealing with divorce, etc. your gift is healing people who have been hospitalized or should be due to pain, innerinner pain they struggled through and might have tried to hurt himself. no its not W. The person to come into your life has been in the hospital system. I think its a man and he is going to bring your compassion out and a desiring need to help others and he will also help you by direting you to an avenue on how you're going to get involved. by the way I have to ask you do have a connection to someone who is a cutter.....you perhaps or even a little sister?? maybe a friend then. anyways back to this man, I feel that this man had cancer or deals with cancer or maybe helping someone with cancer. I gotta be honest I don't see this coming for another 2 to 3 years... that's actually a good thing because I don't think you're ready yet because what you're going to be dealing with is too heavy for where you are at in your life right now.

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posted November 24, 2013 09:09 PM            

if you could tell me anything about John.....you know if he's going to contact me if he thinks about me if hes over me if he's upset with the way that it ended if he's happy right now or if he's not Exedra that would be great

I'll answer your questions as well give me give me a few minutes

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Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
the horse/ the garden/ the heart

are you waiting to hear from someone? i see you receiving a good news from this person and it will bring you much happiness. if you move to st louis you will be welcomed very well and also make new friends there. this news will bring you change and progress.do you want to move there because of a man? because he keeps showing up every time i shuffle lol! you will receive love and kindness from this someone whom you seem to love. this could be a long lasting and rewarding relationship for you.

the whip/ the heart/ the mountain

now finding a job there in st louis could be a challenge for you. i see you are already conflicted about the same and there could be arguments over this topic with the guy of your interest. you are not able to convince them over your concerns for job. it will be challenging for you to find a job there and you should not take it lightly.

king of swords/ 7 of pentacles/ 4 of wands base: 3 of pentacles

i see you having second thoughts again but i feel that you just need to make a choice and stick with it. it might take time for things to shape up as per your desire but it is going to turn out pretty well. you need to leave things that have not been working for you. i have a feeling it has to do with a man again. you will be able to find good company as i wrote before as well as with the help of friends you will be able to find a better place for yourself and could also find someone who may be interested in a committed relationship

please do let me know if it resonates or not!!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24:
[b]I have been applying for positions in St Louis and I'm from Chicago but I figured I need a new change. I just don't think that my life was meant to be in Chicago as nothing really comes to great fulfillment here in the city.

I wanted to see if me moving to St Louis is going to be a good thing or bad thing or just stale thing? will I be able to obtain a job, will I be able to get an apart. Ok, and will I be able to make new friends and possibly a strong love interest..... or my chances for all that better here in Chicago?

feel free to leave your question and I will leave for you thanks!

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posted November 24, 2013 09:28 PM            

8 of pentacles/ temperance/ 10 of wands/ the high priestess/ magician/ knight of pentacles/ 10 of swords

i wouldn't say he is hurting. he seems to be quite in control here and believes that if he wants things might work out again between the two of you. he is just being very calculative and methodical in his approach towards you. now this doesn't have to be in a negative way. but in his mind he thinks that he needs to know more about you and what you want from this relationship/him and only then he could be able to work things out between you.he seems to be a responsible person though, but not super ready/excited to do anything at the moment. i don't think he is going to call you in near future as again as i said he is going to take it slow. again, i don't know but i have a vibe that he wants to make things happen again between you two and want this relationship work but at his own terms and he actually want to steer it in direction of his desire which to me is being quite diplomatic . somewhere they have a feeling that it's over now.

let me know what you think!

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Originally posted by cherful24:
the man that keeps showing up his name is John I am heartbroken because he got married a year ago even know we were kind of still seeing each other I'm not sure why or how he got married but he I guess he just had a baby with her. he tried to keep me in his life for good six months after he got married and then I finally walked away but I'm still hurting from him. I do know that he moved back home which is justaround St Louis and that is what got me looking since its about 4 hours away the next city I thought maybe more jobs are better life will be available if I move down to St Louis.... but that wouldn't be because of him

if you could tell me anything about John.....you know if he's going to contact me if he thinks about me if hes over me if he's upset with the way that it ended if he's happy right now or if he's not Exedra that would be great

I'll answer your questions as well give me give me a few minutes

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posted November 24, 2013 09:35 PM            

I think the bottom line is this I think you need to get involved in an organization that offers support to those who cut themselves there's going to be something that will bring you to the hospital .... maybe it's one of the cutters who got too deep iand had to be hospitalized and doing so you come across a man who has cancer or help those that have cancer..... and offers you guidance into your new career a roll.

do you want to be in the helping feild because your dad is? there something to do with your father...

I just have this feeling that you're going to be come a known to this man through again for helping somebody with an issue that they have but I feel like I have something to do with cutting.... 2 to 3 years away

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Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
wow! this is my innermost desire to help people who have been emotionally ill/devastated in life and i want to give them hope and help them better their lives . i don't know the man you have described in this reading.i was told he is going to be 60+ . i am sorry but what do you mean by this "by the way I have to ask you do have a connection to someone who is a cutter.....you perhaps or even a little sister?? maybe a friend then" ?
how will i come in contact with this person if i can ask? will i meet him in usa? or my homecountry(india) ?i am sorry if i am asking too much! you can leave me more question if you have them. this information is quite important for me at this time. i am quite curious to know how i will get into this kind of work that i have been so desperately wanting to do in life but don't know how to find that direction yet.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24:
[b]very interesting this gift has something to do with helping people stop crying or whether the need to get a good cathartic release out. I don't necessarily think this is a new age type of gift. I think it's a gift of your inner compassion being used to heal those who have been hurt..... mostly by people who hurt themselves.... But not the typical counselor dealing with divorce, etc. your gift is healing people who have been hospitalized or should be due to pain, innerinner pain they struggled through and might have tried to hurt himself. no its not W. The person to come into your life has been in the hospital system. I think its a man and he is going to bring your compassion out and a desiring need to help others and he will also help you by direting you to an avenue on how you're going to get involved. by the way I have to ask you do have a connection to someone who is a cutter.....you perhaps or even a little sister?? maybe a friend then. anyways back to this man, I feel that this man had cancer or deals with cancer or maybe helping someone with cancer. I gotta be honest I don't see this coming for another 2 to 3 years... that's actually a good thing because I don't think you're ready yet because what you're going to be dealing with is too heavy for where you are at in your life right now.

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posted November 24, 2013 09:41 PM            

and do you see the marriage ending if so when

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Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
i had a feeling that you have some kind of conflicting situation with a man already. but if you do move to st louis you are going to meet/see him and as it seems you are going to love it as you still love him.

8 of pentacles/ temperance/ 10 of wands/ the high priestess/ magician/ knight of pentacles/ 10 of swords

i wouldn't say he is hurting. he seems to be quite in control here and believes that if he wants things might work out again between the two of you. he is just being very calculative and methodical in his approach towards you. now this doesn't have to be in a negative way. but in his mind he thinks that he needs to know more about you and what you want from this relationship/him and only then he could be able to work things out between you.he seems to be a responsible person though, but not super ready/excited to do anything at the moment. i don't think he is going to call you in near future as again as i said he is going to take it slow. again, i don't know but i have a vibe that he wants to make things happen again between you two and want this relationship work but at his own terms and he actually want to steer it in direction of his desire which to me is being quite diplomatic . somewhere they have a feeling that it's over now.

let me know what you think!
[QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24:
[b]the man that keeps showing up his name is John I am heartbroken because he got married a year ago even know we were kind of still seeing each other I'm not sure why or how he got married but he I guess he just had a baby with her. he tried to keep me in his life for good six months after he got married and then I finally walked away but I'm still hurting from him. I do know that he moved back home which is justaround St Louis and that is what got me looking since its about 4 hours away the next city I thought maybe more jobs are better life will be available if I move down to St Louis.... but that wouldn't be because of him

if you could tell me anything about John.....you know if he's going to contact me if he thinks about me if hes over me if he's upset with the way that it ended if he's happy right now or if he's not Exedra that would be great

I'll answer your questions as well give me give me a few minutes

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posted November 24, 2013 09:48 PM            

i dont know anyone in my life who is trying to hurt themselves. could it be my father again? or mother? or someone else?

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Originally posted by cherful24:
is there anybody in your life that is harming themselves right now as in cutting themselves? this is probably telling me how you're going to get in contact with this man there is something to do with someone cutting themselves so I don't know if you're going to join some group that's going to be working with people who cut themselves or if you know someone that cuts themsevles but this is probably the link. I do see it being several years away so maybe this hasn't crossed your path yet so I would get started looking into organizations that provide support for people who are going through somet painful issues in their lives. in volunteer or somehow get involved with it. the man that's coming to you trust you . if you have met him in this lifetime it would have been when you were younger maybe as a young kid so wherever you were living at that time in India or USA . he's has to do with the hospital system so he might be a doctor or caretaker .... it might be him who has the cancer... I is your relationship with your father strange at all? is he a doctor or does he work in the hospital ? your compassion skills and relating..... is going to be more honed because of this man.

I think the bottom line is this I think you need to get involved in an organization that offers support to those who cut themselves there's going to be something that will bring you to the hospital .... maybe it's one of the cutters who got too deep iand had to be hospitalized and doing so you come across a man who has cancer or help those that have cancer..... and offers you guidance into your new career a roll.

do you want to be in the helping feild because your dad is? there something to do with your father...

I just have this feeling that you're going to be come a known to this man through again for helping somebody with an issue that they have but I feel like I have something to do with cutting.... 2 to 3 years away

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posted November 24, 2013 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Can i have you do a reading for me here in Chicago I'm in a job but I want to find a better job . do you see what my new job will be in a bottle do, when that will be and if I stay up here if you be able to see any long term commitment coming in.... and anything about the guy ...age, job, how I meet him, etc

feel free to ask me more questions to, thanks

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posted November 24, 2013 09:50 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
do you see what my new job will be in a bottle do,

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posted November 24, 2013 09:55 PM            

do you see what my new job will be in such as what sector or what I will be doing in my position

Thanks!

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Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24:
[b] do you see what my new job will be in a bottle do,

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posted November 24, 2013 10:00 PM            

i see this relationship being quite new , again he is into it with a very stable mind. he tries to look at both sides of the coin, feels puppy love for his wife and likes to spend time with her. he likes her energy overall. but i see that disappointment will be sewn with time and he will come to a point where he will need to make a choice whether to pursue this relationship further or not.it will be a major turning point in this relationship. i see loss and disappointment for him in this relationship. so what you fear might turn out to be right in future!! but i don't see it ending in next few years!

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Originally posted by cherful24:
okay so let me ask you this is he happy or fine or content or not happy, etc in his marriage that he got into

and do you see the marriage ending if so when

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posted November 24, 2013 10:04 PM            

if i have known this person when i was young then it should be my home country . could it be possible that i know this man through my dad? i do have a strange relationship with my father. i have loved him the most in this world because of his intelligence and sharp sense of understanding , but i have also hated him the most at times because he is very short tempered and gets aggressive in his approach towards others at times that i really hate about him.
i am not associated with any such organization at the moment that helps people who are struggling with their inner lives.
also could it be my father who is hospitalized in future and i get to meet this man through him? do you think my father could fall ill in coming years? he and my mother still live in my home country and i go there to meet them every year. since you have mentioned my father playing an important role in this all i can think of is he being friends with this man or he has a connection to the hospital and that;s how i meet this man while attending to my dad? i am just trying to find missing links!!!

i dont know anyone in my life who is trying to hurt themselves. could it be my father again? or mother? or someone else?

quote:

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Originally posted by cherful24:
is there anybody in your life that is harming themselves right now as in cutting themselves? this is probably telling me how you're going to get in contact with this man there is something to do with someone cutting themselves so I don't know if you're going to join some group that's going to be working with people who cut themselves or if you know someone that cuts themsevles but this is probably the link. I do see it being several years away so maybe this hasn't crossed your path yet so I would get started looking into organizations that provide support for people who are going through somet painful issues in their lives. in volunteer or somehow get involved with it. the man that's coming to you trust you . if you have met him in this lifetime it would have been when you were younger maybe as a young kid so wherever you were living at that time in India or USA . he's has to do with the hospital system so he might be a doctor or caretaker .... it might be him who has the cancer... I is your relationship with your father strange at all? is he a doctor or does he work in the hospital ? your compassion skills and relating..... is going to be more honed because of this man.

I think the bottom line is this I think you need to get involved in an organization that offers support to those who cut themselves there's going to be something that will bring you to the hospital .... maybe it's one of the cutters who got too deep iand had to be hospitalized and doing so you come across a man who has cancer or help those that have cancer..... and offers you guidance into your new career a roll.

do you want to be in the helping feild because your dad is? there something to do with your father...

I just have this feeling that you're going to be come a known to this man through again for helping somebody with an issue that they have but I feel like I have something to do with cutting.... 2 to 3 years away

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Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
if i have known this person when i was young then it should be my home country . could it be possible that i know this man through my dad? i do have a strange relationship with my father. i have loved him the most in this world because of his intelligence and sharp sense of understanding , but i have also hated him the most at times because he is very short tempered and gets aggressive in his approach towards others at times that i really hate about him.
i am not associated with any such organization at the moment that helps people who are struggling with their inner lives.
also could it be my father who is hospitalized in future and i get to meet this man through him? do you think my father could fall ill in coming years? he and my mother still live in my home country and i go there to meet them every year. since you have mentioned my father playing an important role in this all i can think of is he being friends with this man or he has a connection to the hospital and that;s how i meet this man while attending to my dad? i am just trying to find missing links!!!

i dont know anyone in my life who is trying to hurt themselves. could it be my father again? or mother? or someone else?

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posted November 24, 2013 10:09 PM            

Thanks!

QUOTE]Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
the fool/ king of cups/ page of cups/ 10 of wands/ the lovers

i see this relationship being quite new , again he is into it with a very stable mind. he tries to look at both sides of the coin, feels puppy love for his wife and likes to spend time with her. he likes her energy overall. but i see that disappointment will be sewn with time and he will come to a point where he will need to make a choice whether to pursue this relationship further or not.it will be a major turning point in this relationship. i see loss and disappointment for him in this relationship. so what you fear might turn out to be right in future!! but i don't see it ending in next few years!

quote:

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Originally posted by cherful24:
[b]okay so let me ask you this is he happy or fine or content or not happy, etc in his marriage that he got into

and do you see the marriage ending if so when

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posted November 24, 2013 10:17 PM            

do you have a dream job or industry you want to get into? does it have to do with negotiating between two parties or transportation industry in some way? it is going to be something that you love doing, something you might have dreamed about already to do in your future. i see you will love the people you'll be with in this job. this job has the potential to bring you emotional fulfillment, and will satisfy your career ambition at the same time. i have a feeling that you need to take first step towards this direction, like looking for job in industry of your liking, as there is potential for great fullfilment but you need to nurture it you know what i mean! and when you have done what you are supposed to do in this regard it will lead onto something that you love a lot more.may be you are looking in this direction already and taking necessary steps towards making it possible as well.

page of cups/ 3 of wands/ the lovers

you will find your man, the soulmate you are looking for but it will take some time for you to find him. but when you do you will click beautifully. he might be living in another city or come to visit the place where you live. it is going to turn up beautifully!

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Lol sorry I'm writing this on my phone auto correct keeps coming in

do you see what my new job will be in such as what sector or what I will be doing in my position

Thanks!

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posted November 24, 2013 10:21 PM            

also how do you see my relationship with R(current partner) in future? are we in this relationship for life or we will separate eventually? in next few years? and if we are in this relationship for life should i go for having another child with him next year? i have one with him already.

feel free to post if you have more questions!

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Originally posted by cherful24:

to be blunt I think it's your dad is going to get the cancer and it through your experience with dealing with that he's going to help you have more compassion I don't know what happened with you and your dad but there's something there to where you're going to have to learn to forgive forget open your heart close your eyes the past and see what's in front of you and threw helping him youyou will gain your compassion that you have never known that that depth before. In my previous post truthfully I started to write that it was your father wwho was going to be cancer but I didn't want to throw that out there.... but now I get it. there's still some connection to someone cutting themselves maybe the person accidentally cut himself and that's what brought you to the hospitap.m. maybe it's your father hat cut himself .... bring him to the hospital and you test and thats how he find out that he has cancer. I don't know but there's something to do with someone cutting themselves .............

if i have known this person when i was young then it should be my home country . could it be possible that i know this man through my dad? i do have a strange relationship with my father. i have loved him the most in this world because of his intelligence and sharp sense of understanding , but i have also hated him the most at times because he is very short tempered and gets aggressive in his approach towards others at times that i really hate about him.
i am not associated with any such organization at the moment that helps people who are struggling with their inner lives.
also could it be my father who is hospitalized in future and i get to meet this man through him? do you think my father could fall ill in coming years? he and my mother still live in my home country and i go there to meet them every year. since you have mentioned my father playing an important role in this all i can think of is he being friends with this man or he has a connection to the hospital and that;s how i meet this man while attending to my dad? i am just trying to find missing links!!!

i dont know anyone in my life who is trying to hurt themselves. could it be my father again? or mother? or someone else?

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posted November 24, 2013 10:22 PM            

give a better idea of the time if its in months, a year, 2 years Exedra

Thanks!

QUOTE]Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
ace of cups/ queen of wands/ the chariot

do you have a dream job or industry you want to get into? does it have to do with negotiating between two parties or transportation industry in some way? it is going to be something that you love doing, something you might have dreamed about already to do in your future. i see you will love the people you'll be with in this job. this job has the potential to bring you emotional fulfillment, and will satisfy your career ambition at the same time. i have a feeling that you need to take first step towards this direction, like looking for job in industry of your liking, as there is potential for great fullfilment but you need to nurture it you know what i mean! and when you have done what you are supposed to do in this regard it will lead onto something that you love a lot more.may be you are looking in this direction already and taking necessary steps towards making it possible as well.

page of cups/ 3 of wands/ the lovers

you will find your man, the soulmate you are looking for but it will take some time for you to find him. but when you do you will click beautifully. he might be living in another city or come to visit the place where you live. it is going to turn up beautifully!
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posted November 24, 2013 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
[
okay so what was the getting a phone call/news from the person I love and it will be good news and I'll be happy.....from your first post......... what's that all about then

Thanks!

QUOTE]Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
[b]the fool/ king of cups/ page of cups/ 10 of wands/ the lovers

i see this relationship being quite new , again he is into it with a very stable mind. he tries to look at both sides of the coin, feels puppy love for his wife and likes to spend time with her. he likes her energy overall. but i see that disappointment will be sewn with time and he will come to a point where he will need to make a choice whether to pursue this relationship further or not.it will be a major turning point in this relationship. i see loss and disappointment for him in this relationship. so what you fear might turn out to be right in future!! but i don't see it ending in next few years!

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posted November 24, 2013 10:28 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
[yay!

give a better idea of the time if its in months, a year, 2 years Exedra

Thanks!

QUOTE]Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
[b]ace of cups/ queen of wands/ the chariot

do you have a dream job or industry you want to get into? does it have to do with negotiating between two parties or transportation industry in some way? it is going to be something that you love doing, something you might have dreamed about already to do in your future. i see you will love the people you'll be with in this job. this job has the potential to bring you emotional fulfillment, and will satisfy your career ambition at the same time. i have a feeling that you need to take first step towards this direction, like looking for job in industry of your liking, as there is potential for great fullfilment but you need to nurture it you know what i mean! and when you have done what you are supposed to do in this regard it will lead onto something that you love a lot more.may be you are looking in this direction already and taking necessary steps towards making it possible as well.

page of cups/ 3 of wands/ the lovers

you will find your man, the soulmate you are looking for but it will take some time for you to find him. but when you do you will click beautifully. he might be living in another city or come to visit the place where you live. it is going to turn up beautifully!

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posted November 24, 2013 10:34 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
[
okay so what was the getting a phone call/news from the person I love and it will be good news and I'll be happy.....from your first post......... what's that all about then

Thanks!

QUOTE]Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
[b]the fool/ king of cups/ page of cups/ 10 of wands/ the lovers

i see this relationship being quite new , again he is into it with a very stable mind. he tries to look at both sides of the coin, feels puppy love for his wife and likes to spend time with her. he likes her energy overall. but i see that disappointment will be sewn with time and he will come to a point where he will need to make a choice whether to pursue this relationship further or not.it will be a major turning point in this relationship. i see loss and disappointment for him in this relationship. so what you fear might turn out to be right in future!! but i don't see it ending in next few years!

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posted November 24, 2013 10:37 PM            

can you tell me anything about what was the reason they got married why he chose to see me when he was committed to her why he still tried to keep me in his life after he got married and I do want to know what he thinks and feels for me now, maybe you just totally over it not even thinking about me at all.

believe me all the time that we had talked after he got married Iwas led to believe he was going to leave her.

so that's why I'm kind of still trying to move over all of this kind of stuff fresh with me

QUOTE]Originally posted by little_pumpkin:
hmm! i had a feeling that there was something , a karma that i had to go through with him.
can i ask if he will survive or lose in the battle? when will it happen ? after 2/3 years?

also how do you see my relationship with R(current partner) in future? are we in this relationship for life or we will separate eventually? in next few years? and if we are in this relationship for life should i go for having another child with him next year? i have one with him already.

feel free to post if you have more questions!

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posted November 24, 2013 10:47 PM            

did you ever give him this impression that you didn't want to be in contact with him for a while? you chose to keep him away and he took it to heart. he found you to be careless about him and felt kind of forced to make a choice. he was thinking of deciding whether to stick with you or go for her. when you ignored him(or he felt that you were ignoring him) he thought that the relationship is not going anywhere and you are not cooperating either. he will obsessed with negativity and lack of communication between you two is the reason that led him to take this decision and marry the other woman. also they might have got involved at some time to conceive that child accidentally and then he was again forced to make a decision.

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Originally posted by cherful24:
okaay give me a few minutes to answer your questions I i do have a question regarding me and John what happened I'm not understanding how we came back into connection with this girl he married who I guess he was friends with growing up. when they got together he chose to see me. I never knew about her. we were still seeing each other and he never let me go. then we were off for 5 months to contact me but I refuse to see him because I thought he needed to get his act together. I found out they got married in September I freaked out of them that I said that we could be friends so for the first 6 months that he was married to her he kept asking to see me and I kept refusing. but he kept telling me how he felt that's why I'm really confused that he's
in love with her I know they really just had a baby . it's just so shocking that he just would not ever let me go. I so hurt and ****** off from him that in April I had contacted his wife and let him know that his behavior about what he was saying to me and how long I've been in the picture you know and I never knew that she was the picture, etc.

can you tell me anything about what was the reason they got married why he chose to see me when he was committed to her why he still tried to keep me in his life after he got married and I do want to know what he thinks and feels for me now, maybe you just totally over it not even thinking about me at all.

believe me all the time that we had talked after he got married Iwas led to believe he was going to leave her.

so that's why I'm kind of still trying to move over all of this kind of stuff fresh with me

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[b]hmm! i had a feeling that there was something , a karma that i had to go through with him.
can i ask if he will survive or lose in the battle? when will it happen ? after 2/3 years?

also how do you see my relationship with R(current partner) in future? are we in this relationship for life or we will separate eventually? in next few years? and if we are in this relationship for life should i go for having another child with him next year? i have one with him already.

feel free to post if you have more questions!

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