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Topic: Horary help, please? I'm so in love with him -sigh
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EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 26, 2013 06:15 PM
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EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 05:36 AM
Wow. No one?IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4678 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 06:05 AM
Based on this horary, I don't see him wanting to be more than friends with you IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1107 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 27, 2013 07:26 AM
He is just about to leave his term and enter yours, but he is the degrees of your face, so he cares for you. You're very invested in him, as he's in your house of possessions AND in the sign of his exaltation.Also, you're in H5, which speaks more for your romantic interest in him. You're peregrine but being received by him in his degre of term. Perhaps he's getting out of a relationship, but he's applying a trine to Saturn, who usually represents significant others, in 3 units of time... Which would mean he'd be back with an ex or get a new girlfriend. The flowing aspects he makes to your main and co-significators are auspicious, but he puts you in his 11th house. He might be interested and you might even get together, however he sees you as a friend. You're almost in his 12th, so if you get together, prepare for some secrecy or having your relationship hid from everyone's eyes. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 11:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: Based on this horary, I don't see him wanting to be more than friends with you
How do you see that?? Explain IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 11:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: He is just about to leave his term and enter yours, but he is the degrees of your face, so he cares for you. You're very invested in him, as he's in your house of possessions AND in the sign of his exaltation.Also, you're in H5, which speaks more for your romantic interest in him. You're peregrine but being received by him in his degre of term. Perhaps he's getting out of a relationship, but he's applying a trine to Saturn, who usually represents significant others, in 3 units of time... Which would mean he'd be back with an ex or get a new girlfriend. The flowing aspects he makes to your main and co-significators are auspicious, but he puts you in his 11th house. He might be interested and you might even get together, however he sees you as a friend. You're almost in his 12th, so if you get together, prepare for some secrecy or having your relationship hid from everyone's eyes.
Well, he's single - for sure, but I'm sure there's an ex he can't seem to get over. I really don't see how saturn represents his ex. To me, that represents my ex instead - who I still live with. To me, his ex is definitely Venus. Yes - I know about the secrecy + friendship, lol. Since he doesn't trust me yet (I still live with my ex - it's complicated). So I definitely understand where that is coming from. Thank you for your input!! =D IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4678 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 12:39 PM
Because you asked if he wanted to be more than friends with you. There is no mutual reception. Aspects are nice, although am not sure the aspect between your significators will come to perfection. He is leaving your term, may be rethinking the relationship he had with you. I am inclined to say he wants to be in a relationship with venus..IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 12:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: Because you asked if he wanted to be more than friends with you. There is no mutual reception. Aspects are nice, although am not sure the aspect between your significators will come to perfection. He is leaving your term, may be rethinking the relationship he had with you. I am inclined to say he wants to be in a relationship with venus..
Mutual reception is the cherry on top - it isn't totally necessary to answer a question . Yes, I checked the ephemeris and the aspect will perfect tomorrow. There's an opposition between himself & Venus & Venus is in his fall - one of them wants to, but it really won't amount to anything especially with the opposition. Thanks for your input =) Will update! IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4678 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 10:52 PM
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/reception.html Strained major aspects in horary doesn't mean it won't amount to anything. It means that the two person will likely have a strained contact that will either sort things out OR break things apart. Venus is about to enter Jupiter's term if am not mistaken.
As far as this horary chart goes, it doesn't show testimony to a positive reply to your question, however, horary charts shouldn't be the basis on which we decide if a person loves another person or not. So please do update. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 28, 2013 12:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: http://www.skyscript.co.uk/reception.html Strained major aspects in horary doesn't mean it won't amount to anything. It means that the two person will likely have a strained contact that will either sort things out OR break things apart. Venus is about to enter Jupiter's term if am not mistaken.
As far as this horary chart goes, it doesn't show testimony to a positive reply to your question, however, horary charts shouldn't be the basis on which we decide if a person loves another person or not. So please do update.
I know that strained aspects doesn't mean it won't amount to anything (you can check my past posts where I have mentioned this), but that is beside the point. Not only is the reception between them horrible, but they are applying by an opposition as well - those are two very negative qualities, which will not result in anything positive like I stated previously. As far as my question and the horary goes (I didn't ask if he was in love/loved me) I'm getting a yes answer - that he wants to be more than friends with me. The aspects are applying and they are gentle, although there isn't reception, which isn't the most important thing in the world (the aspects hold more weight than reception does). Either way, I will update ^_^. Thanks again
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Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4678 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 28, 2013 12:32 AM
I only answered your question Empress''Anyone else see anything different, or significant here?'' But of course, do update us and you are most welcome IP: Logged |
Tofu addict Knowflake Posts: 432 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 28, 2013 02:34 AM
Empress, i have a look if you like, but will you put up the info, coordinates, dates etc, i always do the chart on my own software.IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 28, 2013 06:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: I only answered your question Empress''Anyone else see anything different, or significant here?'' But of course, do update us and you are most welcome
Yes, it's OK Jessica - I understand. Just debating things . Well, I'm not sure if you have read my past posts about this individual, but my feelings for him are very weird. I will write more later, but I'm feeling back to normal again and in control of my emotions. Thank God IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 28, 2013 06:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Tofu addict: Empress, i have a look if you like, but will you put up the info, coordinates, dates etc, i always do the chart on my own software.
Thanks Tofu. Ok, I will re-upload it later. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 28, 2013 08:40 PM
Hey Tofu. Thank you for having a look..here it is
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Tofu addict Knowflake Posts: 432 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 29, 2013 12:57 AM
There we go. Late ascendant, but we can still read the chart, bearing this in mind. You are the Mercury , he is Jupiter, Retrograde, in exaltation, there is going to be a trine. The moon is also going to make a sextile to Jupiter. In relation to receptions, Jupiter,( him), Moon,( you), are in Ruler-Term, and Trip –Term, so there is something going on. I read Venus in the 8th house, due to orbs, so Venus is you co-significator. Making an opposition to Jupiter. Push and Pull. Moon is on a critical degree. His co-signiicator is the Sun, also on a critical degree, that is a handicap,.For now i’d say things will stay as they are, saying that , there is potential in about 2 units of time, which could be 2 months or 2 years from now on, IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 29, 2013 02:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Tofu addict: There we go. Late ascendant, but we can still read the chart, bearing this in mind. You are the Mercury , he is Jupiter, Retrograde, in exaltation, there is going to be a trine. The moon is also going to make a sextile to Jupiter. In relation to receptions, Jupiter,( him), Moon,( you), are in Ruler-Term, and Trip –Term, so there is something going on. I read Venus in the 8th house, due to orbs, so Venus is you co-significator. Making an opposition to Jupiter. Push and Pull. Moon is on a critical degree. His co-signiicator is the Sun, also on a critical degree, that is a handicap,.For now i’d say things will stay as they are, saying that , there is potential in about 2 units of time, which could be 2 months or 2 years from now on,
Thank you very much, Tofu. You have been very accurate in the past when you helped me with a different horary chart (and I have seen you interpreting others here as well). You're very good! Thanks again =) - I will update IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 17, 2013 03:47 AM
Oh, a mini update on this. I forgot to post it around Dec 5th he sent me a message. He got very upset with me with the way I responded and talked to me like he has never spoken to me before, but I didn't get upset. I told him that I "loved" him & his reply was - "I want you"..I asked him why he acted this way with me if he did. I did texted him & told him that I won't bother with him anymore because he doesn't give me what "I want". I blocked him from contacting me again, and that was it...Moon conjunct Mars [6 units - which I believe was 6 days] 6 days after this chart - I reconnected with male friend. It's more like a fling though, but feels very good since we have known each other + were attracted to one another for so many years =). Heh, I just noticed something interesting.. Will update if anything else happens. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6174 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 26, 2013 04:14 AM
Another mini-update, I guess..lol.I found something of his in my apartment the afternoon of the 23rd & casually texted him about it. He wanted to come over to my apartment, but I told him no. He kept insisting..& I kept telling him no. Then I ignored him & went to sleep. The 24th we texted back & forth again until he finally asked if he could come have me for Christmas & I said maybe - that I wasn't entirely sure. Maybe after Christmas Eve dinner with my fam. He kept pressuring me & to tell him yes/no only..I just told him no. At night he texted me and he drove me to his place & we just cuddled + fell asleep. Lol. Well, that's all for now. I honestly don't want a relationship, but it's clear we both want to be "more than friends" although perhaps not be in a standard romantic relationship either. IP: Logged | |