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posted November 28, 2013 09:48 PM            

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I need some insight into this person's chart. Its an individual I take care of at work and I find him very difficult. I'm not sure how to paste the chart. Please, I'd really appreciate it.

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posted November 28, 2013 11:49 PM            

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Upload it on tiypic.com, copy the link given for Forums and Message boards and post it here.

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posted November 29, 2013 12:09 AM            

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I'm just getting a lot of links. Is there a specific one I should go to? I'm not familiar with the site

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posted November 29, 2013 12:24 AM            

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This one "IMG Code for Forums & Message Boards" .

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posted November 29, 2013 01:04 AM            

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Okay, I hope this works. Please bear with me with this

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posted November 29, 2013 02:18 AM            

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Post astro.com's chart, that one is better.

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posted November 29, 2013 10:16 AM            

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Don't know his birth time. :/

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posted November 29, 2013 10:18 AM            

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Put 12 PM as his birth time.

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posted November 29, 2013 10:30 AM            

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posted November 29, 2013 11:03 AM            

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Does he criticise you a lot ? He seems like a sensitive person. Does he try to control you?

What do you want to know about him?

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posted November 29, 2013 11:06 AM            

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Just how to deal with him. I'm just curious to know what the chart says about his personality so I'll have a little hint of what to expect next from him.

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posted November 29, 2013 11:28 AM            

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He has control issues. He suppresses his emotions.

He might criticise others but can be quite sensitive to critcisms himself.

Learning to let go will benefit him a lot.

He is full of energy but he needs to find some proper outlet for them. He needs some creative outlets to express them. He may be very creative.

Ask me some questions.

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posted November 29, 2013 11:30 AM            

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How does he behave? tell me if you don't mind.

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posted November 29, 2013 11:47 AM            

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How do I get him talking and interacting with myself and others? I find sometimes he's fine/happy and other times he's so cranky. How do I help him not be so hard on himself when he does open up?

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posted November 29, 2013 11:58 AM            

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Tell him that he deserves love, intimacy just like everyone else. He may feel like he needs to earn them. He may have some trust issues, just try to get close to him at first. He takes a long time to open up so patience is needed. Sometimes he is very moody so leave him alone during those times. I doubt that he will interact with everyone. Just try to interact with him one on one at first. He may be very secretive so be careful about that. Then slowly introduce him to others one by one, if he does not like it then don't force him.

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posted November 29, 2013 12:07 PM            

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Okay, good to know. I'm really happy to hear he's a very creative person though, its my job to get retired people involved and happy. I can understand him being secretive considering what he went through (depression, ww2)

What signs would he be most likely to interact with? I'm a cancer so would he hate me?

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posted November 29, 2013 12:11 PM            

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He is very old, he needs to release them. Teach him how to let go. Maybe through writing about them, talking about them with someone he can trust. That will make him feel good.

What's the degree of your Sun? He is a Capricorn so he may get repelled at first, because Cancer is the opposite sign of Capricorn. Opposite signs can learn a lot from each other. I think you will be able to get along with him .

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posted November 29, 2013 12:19 PM            

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He definitely does need to let go of the tension. It may be difficult to get him to talk, that generation didn't talk about their feelings or what they went through during the war. Would he find me too annoying being an emotional cancer? I'm at 29 degrees cancer with gemini moon and ascendant.

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posted November 29, 2013 12:28 PM            

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He may find you annoying for being emotional but that's what he needs to open up. Try to make him feel that the things he tells you are safe with you and don't betray his trust. He may enjoy group activities.

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posted November 29, 2013 12:34 PM            

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I do understand the trust issue. I'm quite quiet and secretive myself. I guess it will be a very gradual process with him. I find he sometimes opens up and then is totally cold to me. I didn't do anything to betray him. So I need to be extra sensitive to him if he's so sensitive. Would it help to show my chart to see how we would interact?

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posted November 29, 2013 12:46 PM            

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You may have to get used to him blowing hot and cold until he feels safe with you. It’s just how he operates, not your fault.

Yeah, it will help, post it, edit out your birth info .

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posted November 29, 2013 01:50 PM            

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Ok, here we go again.

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posted November 29, 2013 09:27 PM            

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Any more insights

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posted November 30, 2013 12:56 AM            

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You may need to make few adjustements to make him open up. Your Leo stellium inconjuncts his Sun. Your Pluto also squares his Sun and may also conjuncts his Moon. He may feel like you are trying to control so try not be too forceful about it. I think you have a very good chance of transforming him. Your Moon has a good chance of trining his Moon so I think you will get along pretty well on emotional level. Your Jupiter squares his Venus and Mars, it will add some fun factor. He may come off as a detached person to you at times but you will also find him exciting. He may come off as a different person than what he really is inside to you , you may have some idealized image of him.

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posted November 30, 2013 01:03 AM            

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Ok, really glad I have a chance to help him! I was quite worried about that. I did a composite of our two charts and there is a sun conjunct pluto if that helps.

Is that leo stellium good or bad?

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