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jenny415
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posted December 01, 2013 04:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jenny415     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Rosalind
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posted December 01, 2013 04:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You need to post a chart if you want an analysis.

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jenny415
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posted December 01, 2013 05:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jenny415     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't necessarily need a chart analysis but I have posted it before here if you want to peek at it ! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/007940.html

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Rosalind
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posted December 01, 2013 05:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by jenny415:
I didn't necessarily need a chart analysis but I have posted it before here if you want to peek at it ! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/007940.html.

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cherful24
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posted December 01, 2013 06:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my story is 90 percent just like yours I also thought I was damaged goods I also had a lot of things happen to me with being abused by men. Sexually, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically. I also have chrion in my first. I also spoke to someone about my issues. I would hurt myself because of my issues... it was really bad and never at the time did I even thought to ask am I going to be ok am I not damaged goods... it wasn't until I was truly on the road to fully heal myself that I asked those questions. so recognize that at least you're tired of being that damaged girl, you're tired of being treated the way that you have been by men and you're making a change. almost exactly 3 years ago something had changed for me...it must be after astrologically because it was such a profound almost overnight change... ok not overnight but in a few months. I am 35 years old now so that's how long it took me to start having healthy relationship, but of course there were challenges but not like it was. I think it changes were mostly due to Pluto... someone told me i was weathering the pluto storm. I know chiron made slot of appearance in my transits to.

I can tell you that you're probably not going to get out of the situation that you're feeling for the next few years. you're going to have to move beyond your therapist and get a different method of healing in order for you to actually feel happy with yourself but also too feel in a pleasant mood. I am NOT saying to stop talking to a therapist. I'm saying you need to look into other things such as body somatic. you really need to have the touch of your body in a professional way... I see its more about the physical healing and not necessarily the mental healing that you need to do in order to move out of this block that you're in. or Dance therapy.

you need to start receiving warmth and comfort... perhaps getting yourself involved with a good group of friends would help start take this road to recovery.... I just don't see anything pertaining to this the therapist yes but nothing to develop your warmth and comfort with yourself again with your body I don't think dating right now is the right thing because you're projecting out is kind of morbid delivery that's why you're probably getting the a-hole.... and you wouldn't know what to do with nice guy and that would just make you feel more pent up anger so I can't even recommend trying to get out there in terms of intimacy or dating I don't think I'm going to heal you.

I'm sorry this probably is not as pleasant as you wanted but I can't give you a miracle ending story because I see that you have a lot of work that still need to be done in order for you to get past this am I damage feeling. inin the future you will have someone who will stand the test of time with you and believe me when you do get together with this person (much later on and I think it's going to be good 5 to 7 years ) now that's not to say that you on that date or have a relationship I'm just talking about the one. you'll be very happy in 5 to 7 years with the one.

would you ever consider telling us about your past journey...the things that have happened?

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Twirl
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posted December 01, 2013 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's a for you.
I'm sorry all these awful things happened
It's already excellent you are working on it & speaking out your concerns. I don't think there's anything like 'damaged goods' in a negative sense of the word. You are just lovely who you are as a person, but need some extra care, because of things happening to you & that's really okay (needing someone careful/taking that extra care). Recognising that & putting yourself first, is where it all starts with. Just one step at the time

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Ami Anne
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posted December 01, 2013 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aww Jenny

The concept of damaged is an earth. I am not gonna sit here and tell you I don't feel damaged because I do.

I am not going to give platitudes because I hate them myself and want to punch people who give them to me.

People do this because they don't know what to say.

I will say that in God's world, no one is damaged

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starmoon
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posted December 01, 2013 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
do people actually go around thinking of one another as damaged goods? I've never had that thought about someone and would bet most people don't, men included. it's a label you're putting on yourself. a woman who worked as a prostitute for 15 years or so, ok... maybe damaged goods :-) just don't tell people (especially men you may date) about your past because even if they don't think of you as 'damaged', once you tell someone your story or use the term yourself you've opened up the possibility that they could think of you that way (even if they really don't). throw up a picture on match or some internet dating site and you'll very quickly see how fast you'll get a date or men who are interested. it's scary-easy to land a bf if you actually try. how much are you putting yourself in a position to go out and try?

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coolingembers
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posted December 01, 2013 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for coolingembers     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are not damaged. You had trials and you over came them. Some people get those a little earlier in life, which sucks. You will find a way to 'heal' and you will find someone worth the wait. I promise (:

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jenny415
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posted December 02, 2013 03:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jenny415     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks guys

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