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Topic: Understang him!
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davysong Newflake Posts: 18 From: Shanghai,Shanghai,China Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 03, 2013 01:06 AM
Hello everybody!! I need some help,before I completely decide to let it go…for GOOD!I've been dating a guy,let's call him P,for 2-3 months,but we've been up and down in our relationship.We fight a lot,he can go from very nice,caring,nurturing to a real jackass,and usually,we fight via text messages or emails and he always the one starting it,then accusing ME! He is Sun in Gemini-10th house,Rising Sign in Virgo,Venus in Aries-8th house,Moon in Cancer-11th house,Mars in Pisces-7th house,Mercury in Taurus-9th house,Jupiter in Cancer-11th house,Saturn/Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn-the 3 in 5th house and Pluto in Scorpio-3rd house. As for me,I am Sun and rising sign in Libra-1st house,Venus in Scorpio-2nd house,Moon in Virgo-12th house,Mars in Libra-1st house,Mercury in Scorpio-2nd house,Jupiter in Aries-7th house,Saturn and Uranus in Sagitarrius-both in 3rd house,and Pluto in Scorpio-2nd house. What can you tell about us? If there's no hope for both of us,I will definitely give up on him for good,I can't stand his behavior anymore,even if deep down,I feel (and he does too) that there's something between us.I have the feeling that he's pulling away from the good thing that might happen to us,he admitted to me that he was really shy (I figured that out before already!) so I know shy people are very sensitive,easily hurt and hard to open up.But even me,with all my scorpio in my chart,I am much more the type to be straightforward (maybe the 1st house stellium). Thank you very much! Him: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?lang=e&cid=yt2fileqOTN2z-u1385808726&nhor=1&btyp=2&stx2=s=outs=24;mth=gw;ls=1;rs=3 Me: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?clang=e&stx2=s%3Douts%3D24&rs=3&lang=e&ls=1&btyp=2&mth=gw&cid=yt2fileqOTN2z-u1385808726&nhor=2 IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 948 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 03, 2013 08:30 AM
it's hard to say much without a chart, but I (used to) have the same as you (mars in libra with a mars in pisces boyfriend) and I had the same experience. the fights were awful, because we just couldn't understand one another. this lasted 3 years, and by the end we were both very glad to be done with one another. I don't know about the other aspects without seeing the chart, but from experience I know a libra/pisces mars relationship is fraught with fighting. libra people don't mind a good debate, but even the smallest of fights pisces mars HATES. based on just that you'll have an uphill battle if you remain together. or, eventually, if you continue he will drift off.IP: Logged |
davysong Newflake Posts: 18 From: Shanghai,Shanghai,China Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 04:31 AM
Thank you star moon,but how can I add a chart to this forum?IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 1817 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 09:18 PM
Is P's time unknown? First entry is unknown, second is if time given is correct. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/009306.html
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 35038 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 04, 2013 11:51 PM
Welcome!IP: Logged |
davysong Newflake Posts: 18 From: Shanghai,Shanghai,China Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 12:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx: Is P's time unknown?
Yes dear,his b'day time is unknown. IP: Logged |
Venusincap89 Knowflake Posts: 145 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 12:46 AM
Ellynlvx may i please get your help with the synastry as well please?
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Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 1817 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 12:48 AM
Just wrote you...IP: Logged |
davysong Newflake Posts: 18 From: Shanghai,Shanghai,China Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 01:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx: Is P's time unknown? First entry is unknown, second is if time given is correct. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/009306.html
Thank you very much dear for the hard work,but I only see one entry (if P's time is unknown),where is the second one? And also,what does "S.O.Davysong's+planets in Davysong's+houses" or "S.O.Davysong's+planets ASPECTS to Davysong's+planets"mean exactly?? Is it supposed to be my bf planets influence or aspect to mine?? I am really new at birth charts,so far,I can only do and interpret one at the time,and only on a superficial level,so sorry for asking many questions.
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Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 1817 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 01:12 AM
I did it from one perspective, because that is the only correct Interpretation. If I had the correct birth time for both people, the one I erased would have been the one. IP: Logged |
davysong Newflake Posts: 18 From: Shanghai,Shanghai,China Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 05:48 AM
Thank you for you insight everyone,it's over between us!IP: Logged | |