posted December 03, 2013 02:25 PM            

Need some help. Will trade a Celtic Cross for a Celtic Cross? For once in my life, I actually have free time. It's unreal. Just one please.

The question is: what's going to happen with W and I now?

posted December 03, 2013 06:32 PM            

1 - Ace of Wands
2 - King of Wands
3 - 2 of Pentzcles
4 - King of Cups
5 - 4 of Swords
6 - 5 of Pentacles
7 - Ace of Cups
8 - 3 of Swords
9 - Queen of Cups
10 - Devil

1 - It tells about your question. You are very happy to start something, you need it and want W to be part of all this new journey.

2 - The obstacle here can be a man or a situation that goes against it. I see this king as a rebellious, adventurous and not wanting to settle down. Look out!

3 - In the past, you were working to make this situation come true. You knew that is was only the beggining. The results appeared in near future for that time.

4 - Does W fit in the King of Cups's character? Loving, emotional controlled and forgiving? The result is that W cam closer to you and is the main theme of the question.

5 - For the short-future, I see that you and W will have a break, not that you or him are angry at each other, but you both need a rest to the day to day activities. How about a walk in the park?

6 - Probable future, I see you losing something. I fear to say that you can lose W, the feelings are there, but W won't be there anymore. Or you can walk away too. A loss is clear seen here!

7 - Personality. You have a great heart, full of love to share and give to other people. You are a sentimental one, and you like to let your heart do the decisions for what's best...

8 - The Environment that's around you is full of pain, anxiety and sorrow. I sense you are alittle upset about this situation, in the terms of how this relationship is going.

9 - You want to become full emotional and hope that others see it in you and respect. Do this with a lot of courage, as people can use you. For the question, you're too emotional and wanto to solve this to make peace inside you.

10 - Final outcome, I sense you will lose your head in sexual matters or will have a very toxic relationship with this W. Be careful for not letting him take advantage of you, as I sense is his will.

Hope this resonates,I'm new in Cross Celtic and I'm having a difficult time to understand... but I'll study a little more..

posted December 03, 2013 10:05 PM            

Relevant past: Judgment
How you feel about situation: 10 of Swords
Immediate present: Strength

How you want to feel: Ace of Wands
Environment: 4 of Swords
Advice: King of Swords
Outcome: 8 of Swords (clarifier: High Priestess)

To answer your question right away: to get over your heartbreak, you're going to have to change your perspective. You have two major arcana cards in the past and present positions, which tells me this is an important time in your life; what you're going through now is important to your overall growth as a human being. The 7 of Cups in the current situation crossed with the 6 of Pentacles tells me you're at war with yourself in some ways. You're afraid of choosing incorrectly when it comes to the matter of the heart, but you're ready to give yourself (and receive.) This is underscored by the 4 of Pentacles which is about security and safety, clutching onto what keeps us feeling grounded. Did you make a mistake before when it came to choosing a mate or something that has to do with yourself on an intimate, personal level? And now you don't want to get caught in the same trap?

The relevant past as Judgment says things went exactly how they needed to go. No more. No less. However, you're not seeing it that way. The 10 of Swords in this position suggests an unwilling defeat; you were forced to walk away from something you didn't want to leave, and it was extremely painful. However, because Judgment is calling the shots... it had to happen. And with Strength in the present, I think it had to happen to get you to believe in yourself and trust that you can weather any storm. The world isn't something to be afraid of (in an emotional sense); it's meant to be tested and embraced, because each wound and scar teaches us and helps mold us into the person we need to be.

You want to feel like the Ace of Wands -- something positive is starting, your passion reignited. However, the environment surrounding you in the 4 of Swords. It's time to take a breather. Realign your priorities, figure out what you want to do with yourself, and rest up. There's plenty of time to join the fight again later. The King of Swords as the advice says you do need to start looking at things much more clinically and rationally; remove the emotional component from how you see things. Be fair in your decisions with yourself and others. It is going to be scary, and you are going to feel like you're binding yourself up in all the same things as before (the 8 of Swords), but this gives you a chance to really start to hone your own intuition and grow spiritually (the High Priestess.) So... while I know it isn't much consolation, the way you get over your pain is to start using it as a lesson. To see it as a chance to begin again and not make the same mistakes.

The High Priestess and the King of Swords are all about your mental prowess and perspective. With so, so many swords and pentacles in this spread, this is all about shifting your thinking and rolling with the punches. Really get to the bottom of why it is you feel this fear and this need to secure everything, and then excise that fear from yourself. You can have the Ace of Wands lifestyle It just takes practice.

posted December 03, 2013 10:09 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Cards I pulled:

1 - Ace of Wands
2 - King of Wands
3 - 2 of Pentzcles
4 - King of Cups
5 - 4 of Swords
6 - 5 of Pentacles
7 - Ace of Cups
8 - 3 of Swords
9 - Queen of Cups
10 - Devil

1 - It tells about your question. You are very happy to start something, you need it and want W to be part of all this new journey.

2 - The obstacle here can be a man or a situation that goes against it. I see this king as a rebellious, adventurous and not wanting to settle down. Look out!

3 - In the past, you were working to make this situation come true. You knew that is was only the beggining. The results appeared in near future for that time.

4 - Does W fit in the King of Cups's character? Loving, emotional controlled and forgiving? The result is that W cam closer to you and is the main theme of the question.

5 - For the short-future, I see that you and W will have a break, not that you or him are angry at each other, but you both need a rest to the day to day activities. How about a walk in the park?

6 - Probable future, I see you losing something. I fear to say that you can lose W, the feelings are there, but W won't be there anymore. Or you can walk away too. A loss is clear seen here!

7 - Personality. You have a great heart, full of love to share and give to other people. You are a sentimental one, and you like to let your heart do the decisions for what's best...

8 - The Environment that's around you is full of pain, anxiety and sorrow. I sense you are alittle upset about this situation, in the terms of how this relationship is going.

9 - You want to become full emotional and hope that others see it in you and respect. Do this with a lot of courage, as people can use you. For the question, you're too emotional and wanto to solve this to make peace inside you.

10 - Final outcome, I sense you will lose your head in sexual matters or will have a very toxic relationship with this W. Be careful for not letting him take advantage of you, as I sense is his will.

Hope this resonates,I'm new in Cross Celtic and I'm having a difficult time to understand... but I'll study a little more..

Thanks for the opportunity.

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Thanks so much. This resonates fairly well. I am a little too close to the question, and we definitely do need a break. I think this is definitely telling me that at the end of the day... there's a choice to be made. And if I make it, I need to be prepared for the consequences X___x

posted December 04, 2013 10:03 AM            

Thanks a lot for your reading. Yes, I have to take this as a lesson... a hard one, but thanks God now I'm with a psycologist \o/

posted December 04, 2013 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Twirl:
Ehm...
- sticking in nose-
I'm seriously dying to know who this W is, Becca... Some details!
If not, totally understand & I'll leave you to it Was he the free spirit I saw for you a while back or an older lover/ex bf?

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Hahahahaa Twirl!! I am not entirely sure. But probably. He definitely was a blast from the past... we were never lovers, but we were so close, that line got blurred A LOT. Horrible timing, too young to know better, etc.

I saw him over the break, and we caught up. Had drinks. A lot of old stuff got stirred up, for me anyway. Problem was I didn't know if it was real or just the emotions of the moment. We hadn't seen each other in 3yrs. He has a gf though, so no way in Hell anything can happen. Idk.

posted December 04, 2013 11:52 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Hahahahaa Twirl!! I am not entirely sure. But probably. He definitely was a blast from the past... we were never lovers, but we were so close, that line got blurred A LOT. Horrible timing, too young to know better, etc.

I saw him over the break, and we caught up. Had drinks. A lot of old stuff got stirred up, for me anyway. Problem was I didn't know if it was real or just the emotions of the moment. We hadn't seen each other in 3yrs. He has a gf though, so no way in Hell anything can happen. Idk.

Dani did great, but could you pull a card or two on maybe what is gonna happen or guidance. It's kinda been weighing on me... I think that's what the Devil is saying. Obsession and hard to let go. Talk about annoying dreams and some "what coulda been" going on, which is unusual for me. It doesn't help that he aopted habits that click perfectly with my lifestyle... Or that he lives 2200 miles away too, btw haha. Drama for your mama. I know I can't do anything to pursue him, and honestly, he kinda cold-shouldered me after drinks. Maybe because he doesn't care or maybe he does? The main theme is... He isn't the same person, and I gotta keep telling myself that. Ya know? Fantasy is fine when it doesn't cost you anything.

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Oooh! Thanks for that update!! Does not sound like the 'free spirit' that was next as a lover... (or so I think. Did you have any 'free spirit' for the last few months?)

Had a peek in the cards for you as well. Hope it may be helpful.

I can see you had a real good click when meeting. Seems like a satisfactory get together. However, I do have two 9's for you, which generally means, it¡¦s a ¡¥no go¡¦ in relationship turns. Actually, it can be read as 3 times '9', cause The Sun was also there. And of course the nine is single and referring to an ending of a future together with this particular man...
Does that have to be a grand drama? Not at all, because I am generally getting the idea it was/is pleasing for both to see each other again. Since the feelings were so pleasing, I would not be surprised if there will be some contact between the two of you. Is he far away now or in the nearby surroundings? For one (him?) it seems to be a great egoboost. I think in general he is a bit self-centered (or can be). Taking that in, I wouldn't be too surprised if a 'naughty' encounter/texting will follow/some teasing, yet overall absolutely no relationship (and/or you will think of all that could have happened & ehm...like that, lol). If anything happens, I honestly would just see a bootycall. But I doubt it will happen. I think more in thought/mind. So maybe just the feelings of meeting again and going over the past was nice enough, because with The Hermit in there too, this gentleman will appear out of sight. A 'Jack, back in the box'.
Was this meeting important? Were you? Yes. So you were important to him & vice versa. The warm feelings & positivity you experienced were there, yes. But overall it feels like a one-off encounter, after which life will go back to the way it was.

Some lesson(s) to learn from this encounter: know you can always free yourself from past experiences & will feel as joyful and trusting to dive into something new again. I feel you can use this to your advantage to remind yourself that you can in fact 'liberate' yourself from the past & that you can experience 'lightness' any day & start afresh with someone (not this one!) any time. I hope I'm not babbling here, lol. I shall send this now...
With the three 9's it feels like a 'wrap', before that past lover chapter is closed & some more time to reflect & then back out there...

Hope this made some sense! Lol. If not, just dismiss :-)

posted December 04, 2013 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Twirl:
Oooh! Thanks for that update!! Does not sound like the 'free spirit' that was next as a lover... (or so I think. Did you have any 'free spirit' for the last few months?)

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No free spirits yet. I mean maybe... there was a guy at Halloween who was hitting on me, but I get really weird when I get hit on in front of a lot of people, so I kind of pushed him off. Nice guy though, I think? He's a writer and did Peace Corp stuff, but I've been living like a big ol' hermit for the last couple months haha. Unless you count my cats as free spirits, I haven't been snuggling anyone

I can see you had a real good click when meeting. Seems like a satisfactory get together. However, I do have two 9's for you, which generally means, it's a "no go" in relationship turns. Actually, it can be read as 3 times '9', cause The Sun was also there. And of course the nine is single and referring to an ending of a future together with this particular man...

Yeah... I was starting to figure this. It just can't work right now. Or ever. You're probably 100% right. And some of the things that stuck out to me as drawbacks when we were younger were still there. That minor hesitation that keeps me from pulling the trigger. So this makes a lot of sense.

Does that have to be a grand drama? Not at all, because I am generally getting the idea it was/is pleasing for both to see each other again. Since the feelings were so pleasing, I would not be surprised if there will be some contact between the two of you. Is he far away now or in the nearby surroundings?

Hahahah, remember when you read my writing process, and you said I needed drama And yes, he's far away. I'm glad it was an ego boost; we did clear the air on some things that needed to be done. And yeah, lol. I'm not going to lie... a lot of this is, "man, we shoulda slept together, just to resolve all THAT." Lol. And Jack-in-the-box is a good way to describe him. He does seem to pop in and out of my life every 2 or 3 years.

Now the hard part is just... learning to let go. Haha. The joyful and trusting part is a bit tough. I have learned that I am utterly terrified of relationships and sharing myself. He would've been easy, because we have 10 years of history there. Someone new? Oh dear God...

Really great stuff. Thank you. I'll keep my eye out for a free spirit. He's gonna have to be some kind of fabulous though, lol. To get me out of my scardy-cat cave Wonderful reading. If I can ever give anything back, just lemme know <3