posted December 03, 2013 03:31 PM            

Ouch. I'm really distraught right now.

Just wondering if somebody could do an exchange- Is E currently in a relationship?

posted December 03, 2013 03:59 PM            

Why do I have problems in relationships...with men....like what are the decieding factors on why they don't ask me on dates....or choose just to date me but not want to be in a serious committed relationship with me

posted December 03, 2013 04:12 PM            

so if you want him you have a very small window to make sure that she doesn't have the strength to keep him by her side. it would be you fighting for him but if you can get him to be emotionally attached, he will pull towards you.... which means you would really have to talk about your feelings and open up to him. but he will keep it at a slow pace with that other gURL, unless you specifically say something to him about you and him being more committed and serious and demand that its exclusive. I hate to say this but you'd almost have to make himhim feel bad or guilty... such as you being hurt that he still want to see that girl...so use your emotions so he can see that it should just be you and him and he needs to let the dating girls go

but to be honest it's going to be a lot of you doing the work.... he's been a bit ready to move on...but again if you can get those feelings back he will gravitate towardss you.

posted December 03, 2013 04:18 PM            

Thanks for being honest, it's what I needed to hear. It just really really hurts.

posted December 03, 2013 04:20 PM            

Moments in life suck sometimes

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I'm in love with him and my feelings haven't changed, however I know I have to move on. He is back home overseas and I can't keep on doing this to myself.

Thanks for being honest, it's what I needed to hear. It just really really hurts.

I'll be back with you reading soon.

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posted December 03, 2013 04:53 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I will exchange with you

Why do I have problems in relationships...with men....like what are the decieding factors on why they don't ask me on dates....or choose just to date me but not want to be in a serious committed relationship with me

Thanks!

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First of all I'd like to say everyone has been through times where they question themselves and ask what's wrong with them. You got to realise these circumstances that come up were out of your control, they were NOT your fault. Those guys that either were not interested, or interested but not committed often had issues with themselves. However, the cards are saying that you still might have some traces of past experiences still subconsciously playing up behind the scenes. These unresolved issues (fears, hurts, beliefs) don't appear often but become little thoughts that start building up in your mind. Having these issues, it's all about accepting what's been and passed and letting go of it, as holding on to them has somehow surrounded you with this aura- I think guys pick up on this. They can feel that you have your guard up and you're holding yourself back and believing certain things that should be broken down and buried. When you interact with men, I feel there might be times you second guess yourself, and the confidence you may have once had is no longer as bright and strong. Guys are pretty intuitive so they pick up on it.

Now what you need to do is be clear about your desires and clear headed. Know that good things will come, but it's all about putting down the little thought patterns that has been going round in your head. Time to get out there and have fun, and RELAX! Get drunk! Run around the beach at midnight and go skinny dipping! Laugh and let your inner fears go slowly.

I can tell you're still hung up on your ex as he appears in the cards too, but the whole 3 person triangle situation isn't healthy for you, you deserve to be someone's one and only.

Hope this all makes sense *hugs*

posted December 03, 2013 05:40 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I know as Iam still hurt over an ex who is with someone

Moments in life suck sometimes

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What's a good way of letting go of someone you love? I've been trying, nothing is working. Should I do a ritual or burn something?