Posts: 572
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012

posted December 06, 2013 04:21 PM            

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I would like a reading on what I need to change about me…in order to achieve my goals and desires, i.e. great job where I am happy at, great finances, making and keeping a few good friends, and getting a good quality guy interested in me as well as developing a long standing relationship that will lead to marriage.

I don’t know if my growth of a being has been stunted to do environmental factors or if this/it was all meant to happen per my astro chart, or what.

I’ve had little relationship experience (and I am 35. I’ve only had a few good ones, but not of lately). My friends in the past were deceiving and always wanted to “keep me down” thus, I finally broke off the friendships…I don’t have any up in Chicago where I live…only acquaintances. In my career, I have a good job (low pay), but I have a problem with getting burnt out real fast. If I have a stressful environment-I leave.

Perhaps my ability to relate to others is poor, perhaps I attract bad people, etc. I don’t know, but I am being honest in admitting that I need to improve thus, I seek a direct-blunt reading….I will only look at as positive help. Thanks!

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Registered: Jul 2012

posted December 06, 2013 11:46 PM            

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Hi Cherful24! I asked specifically about attracting romance/relationships and got the following cards:
Theme: accept heavens help
Challenge: Caressa: you are at the end of a cycle, happiness awaits you
Guidance: seriphina: A happy change or addition to your family
Outcome: teressa: time out

So from these cards, it doesn't seem that there's any healing or a specific aspect that needs to be dealt with, perhaps just some patience. The challenge/influence card says that what you're going through right now regarding romance is coming to an end and that the next phase will be better...seriphina came up which suggests a new love entering your life. I think what you have experienced until now was intended to help you grow as a person & perhaps help you decide what kind of man you want to be with. The outcome card had to do with time, so i don't think this person will enter your life tomorrow, but will require some time. Perhaps as you work through the completion of your current phase. Maybe step back and examine your relationships from a neutral, unattached perspective. What did you like about them? Not like about them? How did you act in them...when things were good and when there was conflict. Do you always seek the same kind of relationship or find yourself in the same kind of situation and handle it the same way but expect the outcome to be different?
Hope this resonates

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posted December 07, 2013 09:19 AM            

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