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From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013

posted December 06, 2013 10:28 PM            

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Hi, I reconnected with a friend recently (male pisces) for the last 2 months he would contact me almost everyday, more him than me. About a month ago he asked me what weekend I'll be free, I told him and he travelled on flight (3 hours) to come see me for a weekend. He spent a lot of time with me, and made it a point to tell me that he came to only see me. I'm not the one to really share my food or drink. The first day he was here ....we ordered at the restaurant, his response we will share. I order a chai tea latte at a coffee shop he had to have a couple of sips of my drink. Whenever we would talk, a lot of the times he would catch my eyes....and just stare. If he hugs me ....I feel as if he's trying to say something.
But if I even hint a flirt .....he backs away for the rest of the day.
Am I reading too much into this?
So I went and did the silly thing, I straight up asked him. "Do u like me more than friends?" His response "I don't want to make this complicated, we are friends"
I felt kinda silly ......but every time I turn around, there's his text and/or his phone call. I made it look like I just wanted to know so I'm not looking into something that is not there.
(I know it was dumb of me but it so much felt like it was more than friends) does he feel more than friends for me, and just doesn't want to admit it?

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posted December 07, 2013 12:07 AM            

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Temperance -Knight of Wands- Queen of Wands

Yes there is truly a beautiful friendship between you that has all the right components for a romantic relationship.
However, I think that he is more interested in pursuing you sexually rather than romantically. He wants to be friends with benefits. He finds you sexually attractive and that's about it.

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posted December 07, 2013 12:33 AM            

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Thanks but I don't think so, he had lots of opportunities to do that when he he was here for a few days, but we just talked and talked .........

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posted December 07, 2013 12:38 AM            

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I see passionate feelings from him towards you, I don't see any confusion clouding his mind...

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posted December 07, 2013 12:44 AM            

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Thanks, I'm just confused of what he really is looking for.
Don't get me wrong, I love being his friend.....but sometimes it feels like it's more. Mind u he has kind of backed off ....after I called him up on it. We talk and everything but just he more careful when he chooses his words. I just want to know if he has feelings of being more than a friend, and just doesn't want to tell me

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posted December 07, 2013 12:51 AM            

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He sees you as more than a friend, but he is not looking to commit right now.

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posted December 07, 2013 01:03 AM            

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Thank you, neither am I looking to commit.
I was just really confused of the way he was with me.
I've never really had a good friend do something like that for me.

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