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Topic: Problems with friends and in relationships
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meissieri
Knowflake Posts: 796
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 12:06 PM
  
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Rosalind
Knowflake Posts: 3063
From:
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 08, 2013 01:15 PM
Regarding friends: You have Sun in Leo and Mars in VIRGO in the same house, the house of friends. These too don't work well. While you appear as a caring friend your friends are not the same as you. The ruler of your 7th house is Mars and goes in 11th. Watch this out. Because of your so called friends, your love relationships may suffer. Most important of all, don't turn one of your friends into your life partner. It won't work! Don't settle for less. Choose the one you like outside your social group. Another thing: stay away from abusive men and don't stay in abusive relationships. Choose wisely. The same advice goes about your friends. Have high standards. Be selective. Choose to interact with people who are alike you.IP: Logged |
meissieri
Knowflake Posts: 796
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 04:58 PM
Wow. Thank you so much for such a quick reply. quote:
Most important of all, don't turn one of your friends into your life partner.
You know, this one's really interesting. After my experiences, I think you have a good point here. Two of those men did start off as friends. But you're right, I forgave too much and I easily let people talk me into thinking it's my fault. And yes, I'm trying to stay away when I see someone's not good for me. Sometimes it just doesn't get you anywhere being polite and giving second chances. Thanks for your concern. Now I just have to figure out where I'm going to find a good partner outside of friend circles. It's important they're on the same level as me and that's usually people in my social circle. I've noticed that especially Leo, Virgo, Scorpio and Gemini Moons like me a lot and I can talk to them easily. Does that show in my chart? IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Moderator Posts: 4930
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 05:24 PM
Hey, we have the Karmic Link with our Nodes crossed!IP: Logged |
meissieri
Knowflake Posts: 796
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 05:48 PM
^ Hey, that's cool. Same degree as well? I love all of this synastry with other members. It's fun to talk about. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Moderator Posts: 4930
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 06:19 PM
Yes.The Nodes are Partile. Twenty five oh two, twenty five forty nine. The Sun is about three and a half. Darn close to being Sun/Venus crossed. Three Degrees from a Vertex cross.
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meissieri
Knowflake Posts: 796
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 15, 2014 02:30 PM
Bump! Wow, that's a lot of contacts! I never would've expected that. Reason I bumped this is also that I know which aspect is the bad guy here ruining all of my friendships and relationships. -- I'm so sad about it. It's a pattern I just can't seem to break no matter what I do. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Moderator Posts: 4930
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 15, 2014 04:23 PM
It's that South Node/Sun connection, the timing just stinks on those.IP: Logged |
meissieri
Knowflake Posts: 796
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 15, 2014 06:04 PM
Wow, thank you, Ellyn!! You know, it's hard enough to find many Sun-SN interpretations and none of them ever mentioned this, but it's so true. Most of these interpretations talk about validation and a strong ego. Yeah, that's true as well. I could say, "No way", but that's just trying to convince myself. I should be more confident first. It's just that I know the goal, but not the road to get there. It'd be great not to give a d*mn, but I don't think that's me. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Moderator Posts: 4930
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 15, 2014 06:36 PM
This book is just great for that kind of thing:  IP: Logged |
meissieri
Knowflake Posts: 796
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 18, 2014 05:54 PM
Thanks again! Checking this out. Actually, I found some of it online (I know, bad! But I was so curious) and reading it has blown my mind. It's all just so me, as if they were written for me. Fantastic stuff so far, thanks for pointing it out for me. <3 The Sun-SN interpretation there really hit home with me, especially the part about being hit from all sides with obstacles, constantly being limited in expressing myself (especially in my social circle - H11). I definitely see the Saturn-like influence here. Good rec! IP: Logged |
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