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Topic: do men find me intimidating?
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clarkkent Knowflake Posts: 31 From: ny Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 11, 2013 07:59 PM
i know this may sound like a shallow question.. please dont shoot me but I do not understand why men never approach me. i hear from others that they are attracted to me but never face to face. im starting to think that maybe they are staring and asking about me because im strange and different. this i know for a fact haha and take great pride in. so i decided to do a horary.
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filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 638 From: Sun, Mars, Venus, Saturn - depends on the occasion and the company Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 12, 2013 10:07 AM
I think they find you very fun and freedom loving. A true free spirit. They might be fond of and attracted to you but they usually put you in the friend category, which displeases you a little as you're in the mindset of being in a romantic relationship right now.Your significators are both peregrine, so there isn't a lot of action taken by you or the men in your life... I don't think you intimidate them... They just seem to be focused on other things, like their careers, ambitions or reputation, and you might be coming across as too flirty to be taken seriously by them. Does this sound like a plausible answer? Please let me know your thoughts on what I said here IP: Logged |
clarkkent Knowflake Posts: 31 From: ny Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 12, 2013 04:30 PM
hi hi thanks for the reply filleaspirant!when i did horary i think i was just wondering whether guys were attracted to me which led me to ask whether they were intimidated since guys dont ever come up even when they show interest. so maybe the correct question would have been whether guys are attracted to me. i don't have any guy friends hehe just 2 to be exact. im quite a loner at school. not really flirty type either. and the guys im drawn to are usually older mature type so u are right that they are prob focus on career. boo that sucks.
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filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 638 From: Sun, Mars, Venus, Saturn - depends on the occasion and the company Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 12, 2013 06:42 PM
Ah, I see... So THAT's your question, huh? So, to answer your question, they ARE attracted to you. Since you said you're a loner, I'm gonna apply the intellectual Sag characteristics to you: they see you as a deep thinker, someone that is very invested in your studies, who is logical and a good listener, but that you're a bit above them or you act like that. Trust me, I have more guy friends than girl friends: they do separate women into two categories. There's the friends category and the potential for something category. And by something I mean sex and romance. Silly, I know, but they're men and most think like that, especially when they're young. Don't worry about this too much. You sound young, and young guys aren't confident enough to approach a "different" girl, someone that stands out from others. You'll probably have your pick once you get into college and the more mature world. IP: Logged |
clarkkent Knowflake Posts: 31 From: ny Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 13, 2013 10:08 PM
hihi again! im usually seen with my head buried in a book or on my laptop in school haha. and funny u mention me acting a bit above them haha. i frequently do that. defense mechanism. hahaha i do have a fourth house sagg with stellium in it so i think thats where my sagg traits might come in as well.
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littlecloud Moderator Posts: 2378 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 13, 2013 10:28 PM
You should post your natal for this question. IP: Logged |