posted December 16, 2013 02:54 PM            

My question is:

How will my first meeting/the next few days go with N?

I don't want to use my birthday as an excuse not to exchange, but I only do astrology-related stuff...I'm best with natal charts and relationship type things; composite charts, but not synastry.

posted December 16, 2013 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Just passing to say.... HAPPPPPYYY BIRRRRTHDAAAAYYY calliope23!!!!

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posted December 16, 2013 05:23 PM            

Be back with yours in a bit…..however, it doesn’t seem like this is the first time you both will be meeting..hmmm…………..do you know him through a friend of a friend or have you already been introduced? Hmmmm……be back!

posted December 16, 2013 06:10 PM            

Marriage is kind of a tricky thing to see in a natal chart, and something I'm not sure that I *totally* buy into, but let's see if we can find something in yours.

Here would be potential ages for marriage:

Distance from Sun to Venus: 45
Sun to Moon: 40
Sun to Mars: 37

Did you get married really young once? Like 24? Or did you fall in love for the first time around 16? Those are other ages that stand out to me (Mars/Venus x 2/3 because the distance is so short)

The higher marriage ages might seem a bit strange given what our common conventions are for when we "should get married", but in my chart myself I've got something like 48, 54, and 57 as my potential ages, haha. So...you see it's not always 100% accurate or exactly rosy sounding. But from your birth year in the chart you've posted, a couple of those ages aren't too far off!!

Another thing you can sometimes predict in the natal is the number of marriages, and you've got two major applying aspects between Uranus/Sun and Neptune/Sun...so potentially two marriages in your lifetime. Like I said, I don't 100% believe in the natal being able to predict marriages...just potential But if you do place weight on a natal promise for marriage, here would be my shakedown:

- Having that Sun/Uranus aspect might make one marriage a sort of unconventional one or partner that it is you marry. I think having Uranus in your 7H is also significant, and of the two "natal promises" I'd see this marriage as the second one most likely especially since you have Aqua on 11H and that generally points to our second marriage.

-The Neptune/Sun "promise" I would guess as the first marriage or maybe even just an engagement, something that falls apart because it is based on passion and emotion and idealistic infatuation rather than on a truly good "pairing" of people.

As far as what your marital partner might be like, I can tell you what YOU are drawn to since this is, after all, YOUR natal chart and not your eventual partner's. If you've ever seen me read for other people for this relationship type thing, you'll have seen that something I picked up from Lotis White and like to repeat is that we all feel our relationship houses differently...so you might be more attracted to one of them over the others. I'll just go with a traditional 7H reading though since that often speaks to the qualities that we experience in "legal partnerships" (among other things) with people...marriage being, itself, a legal partnership.

A marital partner will be someone who brings balance to your life, being that you've got Libra on that cusp. Since our DSC is naturally rife with the qualities that we to incorporate into our selves in order to "balance" our inherent inclinations, I think that whomever this person is that you find is truly going to be someone that you learn from and who is always there for you...he is going to teach you a lot about "coping" or planning or weighing your options and making the right moves. He's definitely going to be someone who teaches you though, because their approach or maybe even their background is going to be so different from your own. That Uranus/Sun contact could also speak to this, he might be someone you never really thought about in a romantic sense, it might be someone you share a platonic or professional relationship with at first, but then one day you realize you're simply in love. I really like Mars, Moon and Venus in your 7H because it also means this relationship will be passionate even if at a superficial level it is not a super PDA, lovey-dovey one.

You probably tend to like a partner who looks physically Libra-ish (very aesthetically pleasing, universally attractive, and I think of Libras as blondes who are lithe with great poise and a commanding presence, but in a subtle and chic way, not domineering). He might even be a lawyer, actually. Or some sort of expert in something esoteric/strange--for example, like maybe a forensics lawyer or someone who knows a lot about...idk maybe paleontology or something archaic and "different."

posted December 16, 2013 06:26 PM            

Nope never got married. I might have been in love at 24...well, I know what happened at 24 any ways!

Can we trade again...this time I'll ask about career

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Originally posted by calliope23:
Cherful:
(for the record I am going to assume you are female and like men for the sake of the Mars reading at the end of these, but please forgive me if I am just making that wild generalization!)

Marriage is kind of a tricky thing to see in a natal chart, and something I'm not sure that I *totally* buy into, but let's see if we can find something in yours.

Here would be potential ages for marriage:

Distance from Sun to Venus: 45
Sun to Moon: 40
Sun to Mars: 37

Did you get married really young once? Like 24? Or did you fall in love for the first time around 16? Those are other ages that stand out to me (Mars/Venus x 2/3 because the distance is so short)

The higher marriage ages might seem a bit strange given what our common conventions are for when we "should get married", but in my chart myself I've got something like 48, 54, and 57 as my potential ages, haha. So...you see it's not always 100% accurate or exactly rosy sounding. But from your birth year in the chart you've posted, a couple of those ages aren't too far off!!

Another thing you can sometimes predict in the natal is the number of marriages, and you've got two major applying aspects between Uranus/Sun and Neptune/Sun...so potentially two marriages in your lifetime. Like I said, I don't 100% believe in the natal being able to predict marriages...just potential But if you do place weight on a natal promise for marriage, here would be my shakedown:

- Having that Sun/Uranus aspect might make one marriage a sort of unconventional one or partner that it is you marry. I think having Uranus in your 7H is also significant, and of the two "natal promises" I'd see this marriage as the second one most likely especially since you have Aqua on 11H and that generally points to our second marriage.

-The Neptune/Sun "promise" I would guess as the first marriage or maybe even just an engagement, something that falls apart because it is based on passion and emotion and idealistic infatuation rather than on a truly good "pairing" of people.

As far as what your marital partner might be like, I can tell you what YOU are drawn to since this is, after all, YOUR natal chart and not your eventual partner's. If you've ever seen me read for other people for this relationship type thing, you'll have seen that something I picked up from Lotis White and like to repeat is that we all feel our relationship houses differently...so you might be more attracted to one of them over the others. I'll just go with a traditional 7H reading though since that often speaks to the qualities that we experience in "legal partnerships" (among other things) with people...marriage being, itself, a legal partnership.

A marital partner will be someone who brings balance to your life, being that you've got Libra on that cusp. Since our DSC is naturally rife with the qualities that we to incorporate into our selves in order to "balance" our inherent inclinations, I think that whomever this person is that you find is truly going to be someone that you learn from and who is always there for you...he is going to teach you a lot about "coping" or planning or weighing your options and making the right moves. He's definitely going to be someone who teaches you though, because their approach or maybe even their background is going to be so different from your own. That Uranus/Sun contact could also speak to this, he might be someone you never really thought about in a romantic sense, it might be someone you share a platonic or professional relationship with at first, but then one day you realize you're simply in love. I really like Mars, Moon and Venus in your 7H because it also means this relationship will be passionate even if at a superficial level it is not a super PDA, lovey-dovey one.

You probably tend to like a partner who looks physically Libra-ish (very aesthetically pleasing, universally attractive, and I think of Libras as blondes who are lithe with great poise and a commanding presence, but in a subtle and chic way, not domineering). He might even be a lawyer, actually. Or some sort of expert in something esoteric/strange--for example, like maybe a forensics lawyer or someone who knows a lot about...idk maybe paleontology or something archaic and "different."

Hmm. So this was just a broad reading, but let me know if you'd like to know about anything specific I've said or not answered for you!

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posted December 16, 2013 06:39 PM            

I'll get to work on your career reading right now (might take me a bit to post it, I'm running out the door soon), and leave my question

Hmm..actually I'm not sure if you can do this, but it would be cool if you can! I'm always so unsure of how others perceive me or how I come across to people, so if you could do a general reading of my personality or how other people view me that would be awesome!

posted December 16, 2013 10:28 PM            

first of all within the next 6 months I don't see you going to any type of troubles or hurt s*** I really think you're going to have a wonderful Christmas. do you meet up with this guy. It's going to be nice incounter...drinks dinner perhaps, something social, you guys will have a good conversation. are you in school by any chance I just see like going to classes around you.... how much is willing to change in the forefront within the next 6 months, but it'll be good.

okay so remember that I'm a little bit blunt because i don't really analyze what comes into my head I just blurt it all out at the time. forgot to give a really nice sweet demeanor, that shows. people also like your smile and your laugh. I do think people see you at the 7, 7.5 and they don't quite understand why you're not making yourself at 10. I have to wonder too because you can easily be considered a 10. I don't know if you are purposely putting yourself down a few notches and using that as your safety so you don't get rejected???

people do like you I like your personality they see that you have something to offer but its like you stop yourself from offering you're all so in that sense that's kind of when they mistrust you a bit.... like a manager saying yeah I think should be really good as an assistant manager or a store manager or whatever but she doesn't seem too really show if she wants to give her all make this a career, etc.

also when you're being honest.....it seems you save others from hurt feelings. maybe somebody doesn't look good in something or maybe you really don't want to do something but you say oh sure why not...... that's kind of what I mean about the mistrust. the truth is written on your face. I think because you're such a pleasant nice person you cover it and have this nice approach, this yes ma'am approach, but just remember that you're someone who speaks through body language so the truth will always be shown.

so again you've got a lot of good personality character traits that people really genuinely like. if you feel that some people are uneasy around you or you're not sure how they feel about you just remember that I think it goes to the whole thing about this bit of mistrust because they think you're not really genuine in the fact you don't the ways seen to tell the truth because you're trying to save peoples feelings... and that you're trying to do the right thing.... just know these are the people that don't know you that well. your friends do know you and know that you're good person and you're just trying to spare your feelings.

I think in time as you grow and you've gone thru life a little bit more you'll be able to intelligently give positive feedback... and in a way that will make you feel guilty or mean spirited or bad in anyway.

I wrote this on my phone today might be a lot of misspelling sorry

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Originally posted by calliope23:
Yes I'd love to trade again! I email with fille and I don't want to color her reading if she ends up sending me one about the potential meeting I first asked about... so I'm going to reply to your reading (which seemed pretty spot on, if I may say) in more depth later...but for the record, I have never met this person, but I talk to him a lot. He lives in a different town than me, so it's going to be kind of...unconventional.

I'll get to work on your career reading right now (might take me a bit to post it, I'm running out the door soon), and leave my question

Hmm..actually I'm not sure if you can do this, but it would be cool if you can! I'm always so unsure of how others perceive me or how I come across to people, so if you could do a general reading of my personality or how other people view me that would be awesome!

If you can't do that, I'd love just a general reading on where my life will be going in the next six months either career or relationship-wise

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posted December 17, 2013 11:53 PM            

sorry this has taken me a bit. okay so for career:

you have MC in cap and your 6H is virgo and your sun is in there. work is probably something really important to you, something that you deeply understand is vital to your well-being. not only do you want to help others in whatever it is that you do, but you also NEED to help others or be productive in some sort of capacity in order to feel useful and fulfilled. With NN in your 6H, though, work/career might be something that you feel doesn't come easily to you, it's something you must strive hard in order to achieve, whether that be landing a job, or finding the job that you feel is absolutely what you need to be doing. Saturn in 6H might make the process of finding your career something a little delayed, like perhaps you haven't yet found your calling or perhaps you found it later in life. You've always been working though, and always had a job. I get the feeling from your chart that you stay in jobs for long periods of time, even though they may not necessarily be what you want to be doing...you just know you must. With sun squaring venus and jupiter you might also feel like you are really unlucky in this arena, and with the square to neptune you might also have a hard time getting creative about other possibilities you could be chasing...do you find it hard to "think outside the box" when it comes to what your calling might be? Like you only think there is one specific thing you are trained to do and so you stick with it because you don't think you can do anything else? Because you can. And you should in order to feel fulfilled. You might not have the self-confidence to chase whatever dream you have of doing, but i think your mercury in Leo makes you someone who others actually can connect with on a personal level and you actually come across as sounding quite confident...you just need to believe in yourself more.

As far as what possible vocations might be, I see something in which you help others to organize their personal lives...perhaps an accountant, or a travel agent...a job in which you seamlessly integrate the small details of other peoples' lives they can't or won't do on their own. Do you dream of traveling for your career, but don't feel it's an available option?

posted December 18, 2013 12:04 AM            

I'm trying to find another job currently does it so when I might find another job? also I feel unlucky when it comes to money. Im in a temp job and my peers make almost three times as much as I make. its like to come easy go. so I am very worried about that because I'm the only one that takes care of myself I don't have a husband and I don't have any parents. can you tell me anything but I need to know about my finances?

Ty

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Originally posted by calliope23:

hey girl!

sorry this has taken me a bit. okay so for career:

you have MC in cap and your 6H is virgo and your sun is in there. work is probably something really important to you, something that you deeply understand is vital to your well-being. not only do you want to help others in whatever it is that you do, but you also NEED to help others or be productive in some sort of capacity in order to feel useful and fulfilled. With NN in your 6H, though, work/career might be something that you feel doesn't come easily to you, it's something you must strive hard in order to achieve, whether that be landing a job, or finding the job that you feel is absolutely what you need to be doing. Saturn in 6H might make the process of finding your career something a little delayed, like perhaps you haven't yet found your calling or perhaps you found it later in life. You've always been working though, and always had a job. I get the feeling from your chart that you stay in jobs for long periods of time, even though they may not necessarily be what you want to be doing...you just know you must. With sun squaring venus and jupiter you might also feel like you are really unlucky in this arena, and with the square to neptune you might also have a hard time getting creative about other possibilities you could be chasing...do you find it hard to "think outside the box" when it comes to what your calling might be? Like you only think there is one specific thing you are trained to do and so you stick with it because you don't think you can do anything else? Because you can. And you should in order to feel fulfilled. You might not have the self-confidence to chase whatever dream you have of doing, but i think your mercury in Leo makes you someone who others actually can connect with on a personal level and you actually come across as sounding quite confident...you just need to believe in yourself more.

As far as what possible vocations might be, I see something in which you help others to organize their personal lives...perhaps an accountant, or a travel agent...a job in which you seamlessly integrate the small details of other peoples' lives they can't or won't do on their own. Do you dream of traveling for your career, but don't feel it's an available option?

okay, feel free to ask anything about what i've said or ask for a more in-depth analysis of specific areas! again, this was just abroad reading

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