posted December 18, 2013 04:53 PM            

I just began looking into tarot a month ago. I have been studying and pushing and practicing on myself and those I'm close to... But I am in no ways a pro.

posted December 18, 2013 05:04 PM            

Do you see what job I will have next...like what sector or what I'll be doing, etc

posted December 18, 2013 05:05 PM            

Do you want to exchenge with me? No pro here too, just want to learn

Leave your question...

Mine is: what will be going on to me until the end of the year?

posted December 18, 2013 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I'll trade.

Do you see what job I will have next...like what sector or what I'll be doing, etc

Your questions is..........

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I'll pull a few cards right now! Gimme a little bit to interpret.

My question for you is...

What is in store for the near future of my relationship ?

I keep getting mixed answers for that. Maybe I need an objective p.o.v.

posted December 18, 2013 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Hello coolingembers, how are you?

Do you want to exchenge with me? No pro here too, just want to learn

Leave your question...

Mine is: what will be going on to me until the end of the year?

Thanks!

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Hey Dani! I'm okay. Frustrated as hell but okay haha. How are you?

Ah, so you want a general prediction for what's going on this last month?

My question for you would be the same basically.

What is on store for me in the near future?

posted December 18, 2013 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
I'll pull a few cards right now! Gimme a little bit to interpret.

My question for you is...

What is in store for the near future of my relationship ?

I keep getting mixed answers for that. Maybe I need an objective p.o.v.

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posted December 18, 2013 05:22 PM            

10 of swords [Past regarding jobs]

Ow. Have you not had much positive luck in the career portion of your life? Or did you just have a hard time obtaining one in the first place?

Empress [Near future]

I really love the placement of this card! I think it's a very good sign. From what I understand this card can show the growing of something, something manifesting. I think if you nuture your plans something will pop up.

Page of pentacles [End result]

Considering this card is related to material possessions and you're asking of work od also call this a really good placement.

As for what type of job, I'm not sure if I'm comfortable reading that far into it. But I'll try... Seeing the empress with the page of pentacles makes me thing of you working with kids, or being a guide on some way. I could be totally off, but I associate her as a woman of power, a strong mother figure. I can see these cards pointing to you working with people in a guide sort of way, which could be many things.

This was my first reading, ever on someone other than myself... And interpreting the cards. Thanks for being patient, please leave feedback.

posted December 18, 2013 05:24 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
IF you are still in a relationship with someone, I will be very surprised if it last much longer. But it¡¦s ok because he¡¦s dead weight anyways¡Kfind someone who is more energetic¡Kyou need it ƒº

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Ow... I've been with him for a year and a half...were engaged...

Ouch.

I have pulled cards for this situation and it led me to open this thread... http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum18/HTML/001122.html

posted December 18, 2013 05:25 PM            

You guys having issues?
Distance happening?

Somethings up!!

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Originally posted by coolingembers:

Ow... I've been with him for a year and a half...were engaged...

Ouch.

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posted December 18, 2013 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Really..............?

You guys having issues?
Distance happening?

Somethings up!!

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Yes! Argh you nailed it! Go to that thread, and you'll be my lifesaver. I don't really have anyone to go to with an objective view in my life... I think its seriously needed .

posted December 18, 2013 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
Yes! Argh you nailed it! Go to that thread, and you'll be my lifesaver. I don't really have anyone to go to with an objective view in my life... I think its seriously needed .

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posted December 18, 2013 05:29 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
What thread?

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posted December 18, 2013 05:33 PM            

Go with your intuition that something is wrong/up and ask him directly. I think he’s gonna pull out of this.

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
Cherful I pulled three cards for you.

10 of swords [Past regarding jobs]

Ow. Have you not had much positive luck in the career portion of your life? Or did you just have a hard time obtaining one in the first place?

Empress [Near future]

I really love the placement of this card! I think it's a very good sign. From what I understand this card can show the growing of something, something manifesting. I think if you nuture your plans something will pop up.

Page of pentacles [End result]

Considering this card is related to material possessions and you're asking of work od also call this a really good placement.

As for what type of job, I'm not sure if I'm comfortable reading that far into it. But I'll try... Seeing the empress with the page of pentacles makes me thing of you working with kids, or being a guide on some way. I could be totally off, but I associate her as a woman of power, a strong mother figure. I can see these cards pointing to you working with people in a guide sort of way, which could be many things.

This was my first reading, ever on someone other than myself... And interpreting the cards. Thanks for being patient, please leave feedback.

I wish you luck!!

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posted December 18, 2013 05:34 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Really, I “checked” again…….it really feels like he’s not involved in this very much. Has he said anything to you? Is he not willing to make plans for the future?

All does not seem to be right on his side….are you sure all is good on your side…..do you want this WITH HIM, you two together in this for long haul…..again, with him…do you want it with him

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Its such , such, such a long story. We met lest year. He never really had a serious relationship. I never had any relationship. I fell really, really hard. He fits me quite well, and he is the only one who has gotten past my wall. Only. One.

But you are right. Something is wrong. I know it. He is a getting distant, and it hurts like hell. I just want him back, because when he is here its great. He's a damn cancer to a T with his shell, but its been one week since I saw him.

He says he wants to relax at home and be alone. He answers my texts lightening fast, and I know if oi called he'd answer that too... But he's distant. I was looking for guidance. Because I feel stuck.

I want the future with him. But if he's always gone or if he's distant, I can't have it. I can't imagine breaking up, but I can't stop him from yanking back. This happened during the holidays last year. Since his mother left right around thanksigivng and Christmas he retreats. I can't figure out if I should back off and hell come back. Or of I should push the issue.

posted December 18, 2013 05:39 PM            

But really, you need to become healthier mentally (you know what I mean-not like you¡¦re crazy ƒº ) in order to have a great rel. and a successful one.

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Originally posted by coolingembers:

Its such , such, such a long story. We met lest year. He never really had a serious relationship. I never had any relationship. I fell really, really hard. He fits me quite well, and he is the only one who has gotten past my wall. Only. One.

But you are right. Something is wrong. I know it. He is a getting distant, and it hurts like hell. I just want him back, because when he is here its great. He's a damn cancer to a T with his shell, but its been one week since I saw him.

He says he wants to relax at home and be alone. He answers my texts lightening fast, and I know if oi called he'd answer that too... But he's distant. I was looking for guidance. Because I feel stuck.

I want the future with him. But if he's always gone or if he's distant, I can't have it. I can't imagine breaking up, but I can't stop him from yanking back. This happened during the holidays last year. Since his mother left right around thanksigivng and Christmas he retreats. I can't figure out if I should back off and hell come back. Or of I should push the issue.

Usually when I allow him to pull back he snaps into me no longer than a week. I have a strong feeling if I try to confront him it will blow up in my face.

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posted December 18, 2013 05:40 PM            

"What are we why are you distant"

posted December 18, 2013 05:43 PM            

Come clean about what? That I'm hurting because he's distant? That I miss him?

On my end there's nothing I'm hiding... He knows that I think. Honestly I care for him, I miss him, and I want the old us back. That's where I stand.

posted December 18, 2013 05:57 PM            

OK, I am bring blunt and honest!!!

posted December 18, 2013 06:05 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
You need to meet up with him for a serious talk. Tell you notice he’s been different, and ask what’s wrong, if there is anything he’d like to tell you. See what he says. Then let him know that you do not expect the rel. to continue the way that it has, and set some boundaries. YOU have to determine what boundaries you need to put up, but the way this is….it’s high school. This is not an adult relationship or a couple that’s engaged. Why have you even put up with this behavior at all.?! Does he think that this is all you deserve? Don’t you need a partner who will treat you better.

OK, I am bring blunt and honest!!!

Again, I don’t think he’s gonna go through with marriage. But you can try to get him there. He just doesn’t want it. Honestly, I don’t see you are him should be in a marriage…with anyone. You guys need to have a solid relationship first….you haven’t….it’s no wonder he’s backing out. And I think other people are getting him to see how crazy this is….this leap! He doesn’t want to hurt you and he does care for you, I will say that. But I think he’s seeing this a bit more rational and that this is not making for a true love story…I would suggest, if you still want him, you help him see that it can be, but I think you’ll have to re-start the relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend and really get to know each other…date for a while, perhaps move in, then re-vist the engagement.

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I don't care if you're blunt, I need that.

The thing is, I don't want to jump into marriage anymore EITHER. I want huge transformation, I want us to go back. I want to date, and go back to phone calls and sweet texts. To focus on finishing our degrees, and to move slowly.

My intuition is that he loves me, but he is scared he won't be able to provide. He keeps talking of success, future, financial stability. What he doesn't understand is I support that.

Its just unlike him, I can hold a relationship while fighting for my career. I think he feels conflicted. I just wanted advice on how to speak to him and what I could do to salvage this. Because its a mess.

I deserve so much better. I am a reliable partner. He is a priority to me, and I want to help him succeed.

posted December 18, 2013 06:09 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
I don't care if you're blunt, I need that.

The thing is, I don't want to jump into marriage anymore EITHER. I want huge transformation, I want us to go back. I want to date, and go back to phone calls and sweet texts. To focus on finishing our degrees, and to move slowly.

My intuition is that he loves me, but he is scared he won't be able to provide. He keeps talking of success, future, financial stability. What he doesn't understand is I support that.

Its just unlike him, I can hold a relationship while fighting for my career. I think he feels conflicted. I just wanted advice on how to speak to him and what I could do to salvage this. Because its a mess.

I deserve so much better. I am a reliable partner. He is a priority to me, and I want to help him succeed.

I used to be a priority to him, but something has pushed him away. Tomorrow I have a doctors appointment. I was debating calling him tonight and asking him to go with me. Its more of a class, not a personal appointment. If he agreed I was going to ask him to come over since I'm leaving early morning. I was going to attempt speaking to him about boundaries then.

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posted December 18, 2013 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
1st: What you just told me is what you should tell him
2nd no, don’t ask him to go with you.
3rd. Why don’t you wait until he contacts you and suggest you go out to dinner. Then you can have the talk…it will be less intimidating that way.

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Argh I was seriously going to call tonight. I just want to have this talk.

My plan was to wait for him, but he hasn't initiated contact in a long time. Its driving me up the wall.

I am seriously tempted to call him tonight, tell him I'm coming, drive over, bring some food. Drive out in the middle of the desert, look at the stars, eat, talk... And slide this conversation in.

We live in the desert. That may sound weird but driving to a deserted area and looking at stars is common .

I am taking everything you say into consideration. I really really really appreciate you answering me, quickly at that.

posted December 18, 2013 06:19 PM            

I pulled the following:

10 of wands
Temperance
Knight of Pentacles
Queen of Cups
Ace of Cups
Heremit

I see that for the near future, you will suffer from some situation that turned bad. You will think about this a lot and won't see a solution. You will need to bring balance into your heart and mind, to bring peace... Open your heart for the opportunities that will appear. You gonna start to love more. Start to love you more, find you center. Look inside yourself...

posted December 18, 2013 06:31 PM            

I focused on the general theme for the rest of your year, I asked "what is in store for the rest of danipeppers year?"

Five of wands
Six of pentacles
Five of cups

Dear I feel like you and I are really going to feel each other when it comes to heart ache. Let go of whatever you are holding onto. Work on yourself, namely your career.

posted December 18, 2013 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Sorry coolingembers for the delay...

I pulled the following:

10 of wands
Temperance
Knight of Pentacles
Queen of Cups
Ace of Cups
Heremit

I see that for the near future, you will suffer from some situation that turned bad. You will think about this a lot and won't see a solution. You will need to bring balance into your heart and mind, to bring peace... Open your heart for the opportunities that will appear. You gonna start to love more. Start to love you more, find you center. Look inside yourself...

And the cards just said what Cherful24 is telling you... go on, take her advice

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The art of tarot confuses me. This hurts, thank you for taking the time to do this.

My mind is a scrambled mess, I just want to fix things but everything is telling me to run.