posted December 20, 2013 09:00 AM            

These connections make the relationship seem very fated. Does he feel like strong relationship, marriage material to you? Sun conjunct moon is one of the strong soulmate aspects! His sun also trines your moon so it's a harmonious double whammy going on...I would rate that awesome compatibility right there. Moon/mercury conjunction is very good for communicating with and understanding eachother on a deep emotional level.

His mercury, venus and Pluto fall in your 8th and his venus is conjunct your Pluto exact!! HOT HOT HOT!!! The sexual connection should be extremely strong!! Yummy

His sun/vertex conjunction conjuncts your Saturn/Juno conjunction...and all that squares your sun/moon conjunction in synastry....well!!...

First, vertex conjunct Juno is a marriage aspect point blank! Sun/ Saturn, vertex Saturn will feel karmic...definitely got some glue to hold that relationship together! Sun/Juno is strong as well...you are what he looks for in a wife. That's really good because it makes up for the lack of any of your planets falling into his 7th or 8th.
Your cancer moon falling falling into his first. Your emotional/caring nature will be very attractive to him. The relationship would be close (especially in the water sign- you two can probably understand/ learn to tolerate eachother's moodiness from time to time. His moon sextile your Pluto will also be very emotionally deep...he may feel like your have more control over the relationship, but the sextile is harmonious so that's positive....actually ALOT of his planets aspect your Pluto so he will definitely feel like you have the upper hand. Then again, your sun, merc and mars aspect his Pluto so you have a lot of Pluto DW's going on. Plutonian relationships are very transforming (I'm speaking from personal experience.). The relationship could be/would be all consuming.. A lot of power struggles here..who has the upper hand per se..

I also see very harmonious aspects to each others neptune's: moon, venus...very romantic. You would put each other on a pedistol..an aspect of unconditional love.

I DO see a lot of hard aspects to Saturn...especially moon/Saturn not the greatest. BUT on the flip side, given the very dreamy, romantic nature of the neptune connections and the all consuming, obsessive nature of the Pluto connections, Saturn can also significantly ground the couple and give, once again, "the glue" that holds the relationship together. It will be the one that says, "ok, time to get your head out of the clouds."

The biggest thing that sticks out though is the T square between his mars, your sun/merc conjunction with the apex (focal point) at the sun/Saturn/Juno/vertex Stellium! T- squares are hard, no doubt about it, but they also can manifest as hard work and motivation.

Both your North Nodes and Chirons are conjunct so you have ALOT to learn from eachother and can teach eachother. This is definitely a fated relationship, and with the focal point of the T square at the stellium, the rewards for working through the relationships up's and down's would be worth it.

posted December 20, 2013 01:06 PM            

Wow, you have outdone yourself. No, I didn't use the equal house system [defaulted it]. Thanks for all of the details =). You just confirmed what I was seeing as well. Well, Saturn is the ruler of my chart (I'm Aquarius rising) - so I have all those Sun/Merc squares in my natal chart as well, lol - so I guess I'm used to it? I'm not sure if he has them as well [I would have to check].

He is Cancer rising, so his Moon rules his - and I see a lot of interaction from both of our rulers in synastry =).

We have known each other for more than 15 years - and yes about the obsessiveness - he has always been obsessed with me. I always liked him as well, but was more cautious - so never gave him a chance until just recent. Heh..he says it feels like a "movie" since he would never in his life imagine we would be together, or that I would ever give him a chance, but we cleared things up.

The connection between us is amazing. Amazing chemistry..and just wow. I love it! But this is just the beginning..however, it feels so right and fitting. Light-hearted fun, etc..romantic, sexual, flirty =). Really the best relationship I have been in so far. There is a huge obstacle though, but I guess kind of irrelevant right now [don't want to get into it]. Oh also - I have noticed his Venus conjuncts every Pluto in our gen. although not as exact as mine, lol - however, not entirely sure since I only tested a couple of people.

posted December 20, 2013 05:43 PM            

Sure I'd like a tarot reading: what lesson can I take away from my past relationship with J that will help me improve any future romantic relationship?

posted December 21, 2013 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Ok tgem - I'll get to it =).

And sure littlecloud, however it's my moon trine his sun . His moon is actually conjunct my sun ^_^.

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posted December 23, 2013 08:39 AM            

Sorry for taking long..here it is =)

Alright, almost all the cards I drew for your reading were reversed, except one which was the 2 of Swords. There are a lot of cards that indicate that you need to urgently improve the way you think and/or communicate with your significant others/future romantic interests. Was the relationship with "J" sort of like an affair? (It doesn't necessarily have to be a physical affair - it could be an emotional one as well). Because I'm getting this & that one and/or both of you had a tough time walking away from it. However, the lesson here is that if you truly do not feel satisfied with what the other individual has to offer you, then you need to gather your strength -- communicate clearly and loudly what you truly do want from a relationship, and have the courage and strength to simply walk away without looking back. I'm sensing that there were times you came back to "J" hoping that things would become more serious between you two, but often times they didn't -- and that left you feeling a bit gloom..a lot of distance and trouble communicating here. The wants between you both were at odds, so all in all..simply put..mostly I'm getting (I'm not good at these lessons/advice readings..can't you tell? lol, sorry.) is that you HAVE to KNOW what you want, let the other individual KNOW EXACTLY what you want, and walk away IF that person doesn't meet your expectations. No ifs, ands, or buts about it! You have to stick to your word, and do not let this other person take advantage of you. If you do not agree to an "affair" sort of relationship, and they don't want to/can't offer you more, then you don't need that person in your life at all! Do not hesitate to simply dismiss them.

Sorry if it was too blunt/down to earth, but that is the only way I can read :/. I hope this helps you! Let me know if you need further clarification on the reading =).

Best of luck xox

posted December 24, 2013 11:27 PM            

I do strongly believe that you learned your lessons from both men & hopefully you will not make the same mistakes again. I wish you the best of luck & many blessings xox.

posted January 15, 2014 06:14 AM            

Okay, important things I have noticed..

We both have Sun-Saturn contacts in our birth charts. He has the Sun-Saturn conjunction & I have the square. So, our synastry basically reflect what we already have in our own birth charts (freaky, but true).

Well, it so happens that Saturn is my asc ruler anyhow (Aquarius rising) & Saturn rules his DSC + the Sun rules mine. So..my dsc ruler (his "sun") is conjunct his dsc ruler (Saturn).

His Sag Sun = Where my asc ruler is
His Virgo Moon = Where my Sun is
His Cancer Asc = Where my Moon is

...and freaky things like that. I also notice transit Saturn will be conjuncting his natal Sun at the end of this year..around Dec. I wonder what that would mean for both of us since we have this Sun-Saturn connection going on...

So weird. We're still together..he told me that he loves me (he has told me in the past..but we weren't together), but it's complicated due to some..obstacles. But really happy otherwise..again best relationship I've been in..very fun, too =)