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Twitterbird05
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posted December 22, 2013 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can do 3 card tarot readings tonight for the first three with questions.

Will post picture of cards with interpretation, as usual.

*Please send me feedback too - I'm still learning so it helps.*

1. venuscorpio86
2. Chiemi
3. filleaspirant

If anyone is willing to exchange, I'd love a reading.
My question is: How will this difficult period of growth benefit me?

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venuscorpio86
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posted December 22, 2013 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like one! Your last reading you gave me was super accurate! ! I want to know about A how he feels about me? Is he interested in someone else??

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Chiemi
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posted December 22, 2013 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chiemi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for offering!

May I have a reading concerning my moms financial situation for the upcoming year? Will she find a good stable job?

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filleaspirant
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posted December 22, 2013 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me?

What to expect in 2014?

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filleaspirant
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posted December 22, 2013 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, and I can pull for you tomorrow, as I'm about to turn in... Still practicing and learning, though, so I might not be very accurate

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cherful24
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posted December 22, 2013 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
can I exchange with you?

if so I would like to know when I can expect in terms of a new job in a new love of my life!
TY
I'll be back with yours

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cherful24
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posted December 22, 2013 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
okay so let me be frank... how you worded your question is a great way to do so however its not correct.

how will this difficult. Of growth benefit you..... okay the truth is, currently you're in a difficult phase of your life. But you're not doing much to actually grow from it. as you're trying to be spiritual person this is probably going to frustrate you but your growth is going to come from you displaying action and not sitting and meditating and trying to look inward for spiritual answer...... the key is you're trying to look inward for spiritual answers........ you have to come to understand that you were blocked spiritually emotionally and mentally.... if you continue to seek your answers in a spiritual mannor, you're just going to become fatigued, if not almost in a depressive state because nothing will go forward in your life. the really understand those last two sentences that I just wrote. its like you keep running into the same brick wall and that's because you need to take a different route to actually find your solutions in there for you will have a lot of growth and you'll be able to look back and understand how you got yourself into this current route a your on..... nobody else put you on this path so please understand that...... nobody else put you on this path! I feel you need to first accept that..... its not that like just threw you some curve balls that you never knew how to work through them.... everyone gets thrown a curveball and you'll always get thrown a curve balls in your life... the difference is people don't just sit there and wait for it to pass......... they take action.

get rid of the people in your life that aren't doing you any good. you can stop socializing with them without any explanation.... cold turkey, it! its like that saying you don't want to hang around people who bring you down to your lower vibration..... you get taken advantage of a lot, those aren't friends get rid of them. they're lowering you down so they can feel more empowered. you have to see this and accept it and move on past this.... again this is where your benefit will come from growth because you'll learn who to trust your friendship with and who not to.... better options in terms of dating well then come along as well. you have to be the savior of yourself and not somebody else remember that... you have to learn to take yourself first and put yourself first so you're always going to be happy and healthy don't worry about the others they will take care of themselves....so again that's another part of the growth opportunity that you have.

I can see you have not had the best to people in your life and probably since childhood you had people be_little you.... and you taking this until adulthood unfortunately, your issue the truly about self confidence and self esteem nobody else is better than you to get that job and nobody else is better than you to have a good friend and nobody else is better than you to have that good boyfriend.... you can have the best too of all three

the mishaps and jams that you've gotten yourself into you again you have gotten yourself into.... you have fed into and believed the stupidity of you being of lesser quality and you walked away from chances and opportunities.

so again you need to take action To eliminate all that is wrong in your life right now and build yourself up. this is a lot of cognitive reconditioning that you will have to do and if you do do it you will be in such a better place mentally and spiritually and in better spirits and in health..... that's your main benefit right theree....... plus you won't find yourself in mishaps and jams, you'll be better than that. You'll have good optiINS, im positive changes that you will take and make something of yourself have good people surrounding you.

I'm sure you're looking for reading that is OK you'll get a boyfriend, a great job to make a lot of money by doing this this this and this but 'm telling you you need to recondition your cognitive thought process to ever get a good opportunities for a good man and a good job and making good money because if you don't you're going to still have options going to be a poor quality

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Twitterbird05
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posted December 22, 2013 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Cherful,

Thanks for your help. I understand the point you are trying to make, but I have to disagree with certain parts of it.

I would say that a majority of the people in my life are really incredible, and I can hardly think of a friend that doesn't give to me back as much as I give to them. They are all very uplifting, aside from the guy I was dating, who I have cut out of my life. Also, I have an amazing job at a well-known media company that I have fought to keep for three years and recently requested a raise and a promotion, both of which I am getting as soon as the New Year starts. Last year, when I was feeling lost and confused I channeled my energy into a personal project and went and met my birth mother for the first time. I know how to act on things, how to move my life forward, and I have a lot of self-respect. At this moment, I'm just not feeling great because of the break-up and the overall shake-up in my emotional life. I've had a lot of fears when it came to romantic relationships, and getting out of my first significant relationship and losing my virginity at the age of 26 has kind of thrown me for a loop. I also told a guy that I had feelings for him after two years of holding it in, and then picked myself up again. I started dating my ex soon after because I knew I really had to let go of the old love and move on. Again, action.

I'm also the first to admit I'm where I am because of my own choices. I'm not blaming things on anyone else. Like everyone, I have a complicated background that shaped who I am. I've been able to bounce back from traumas and make the most of them. I am an active person. I know how to take hurts and turn them into action. But at this point, I don't know what that action should be. How can I move if I don't know the direction? I have been working on putting myself first and taking care of myself, yet I still feel empty. As far as cognitive reconditioning goes - I've been working on that for over a year and a half in therapy and also on my own.

The way I phrased my question was to see what purpose this all has - what lessons I am learning to make me more mature.

I don't know why but your readings always make me feel like I have to defend myself. I'm very open to recognizing my own problems but I feel like you are a little cavalier in your assumptions. I know you mean well, but you tend to depict me as very weak and insecure, which isn't true overall. I've done a lot with my life. I feel like I deserve a little room to withdraw for a little while while I recover.

I'm not sure we should read for each other unless this can be more of a conversation.

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Twitterbird05
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posted December 22, 2013 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
I would like one! Your last reading you gave me was super accurate! ! I want to know about A how he feels about me? Is he interested in someone else??

It seems that he has been trying to balance out his feelings for you, which are true. He does like you, but perhaps he has too many other options and that will keep him from pursuing you. Also, guard yourself against becoming stuck on the idea that he is the right one for you. There may be another option out there that is a better fit, even if he does like you.

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posted December 22, 2013 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Chiemi:
Thank you for offering!

May I have a reading concerning my moms financial situation for the upcoming year? Will she find a good stable job?


Your mother seems to be someone who is very wise and keeps to herself about things. She is caught up in inner turmoil, worried about the job and financial situation. She wants to be able to support herself and have security, and she feels bad that she is not able to in the way she wants. I think she will realize that she has what she needs to take care of it and move forward. She will find a way.

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posted December 22, 2013 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Me?

What to expect in 2014?


This year is going to be an interesting one. You have just finished a major life cycle, and are therefore stepping into a new phase. Beware that there may be something unknown or hidden early on. This may be external or internal, perhaps a deep desire you were 'hiding' from yourself. Someone could be hiding something from you, but I think it may just mean something internal. You will be creative and in control in the end, learning to take up for yourself. You will be a force to be reckoned with.

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Chiemi
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posted December 22, 2013 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chiemi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Twitterbird05:

Your mother seems to be someone who is very wise and keeps to herself about things. She is caught up in inner turmoil, worried about the job and financial situation. She wants to be able to support herself and have security, and she feels bad that she is not able to in the way she wants. I think she will realize that she has what she needs to take care of it and move forward. She will find a way.


Thank you

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cherful24
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posted December 22, 2013 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that is all truly wonderful!!! and to be honest I'm not sure how what I said what you said or two different things..... you confirm you are in therapy to reconditioning your cognitive mind

and you've also stated the reasons why and talked about your boyfriends who weren't that good...... and I'm telling you that ending something with one person just to go back to another person he wasn't that great is still not reconditioning you're mind... and I'm talking to you that you need to change your thought patterns in order to take advantage of better quality options.

what I see that you keep getting yourself into the same situation regardless if you're able to take action to move forward.... you go right back into the same revolving cycle.... its not taking action or moving on if you're still with poor quality.... and I don't mean that in a disrespectful way at all!!!

this is a conversation.... I'm blunt in my readings because that's how the messages are conveyed to me and I to have analyze it because that's when I can go to the wrong direction. I'd rather be truthful than sugar coat any type of reading. I certainly don't want you or anyone else feel like they have to defend themselves but I have to 'rephrase this........... you're feeling that you need to be defensive about your truth because what I'm telling you is your truth that you just confirmed

you have had bad people in your life and you have Traumas like you said. If you didn't have these people, boys that didn't treat you so well then you would not have issues relating and would probably be in a serious relationship right now, if not married...... so again I don't see how you telling me this and me esaying basically the same thimg.... is not accurate

I think it's fair to say that you do you recognize what the issues are and you are working on it with your therapist and you're getting stronger.... trying to have better relations and working on improving yourself professionally. I am seeing exactly where you are.... and I am confirming that if you don't change your cover pattern you won't be improving much you still have a theme options instead of great options..... so now that's your question is rephrasEd, my answer still hold true........ gain better self confident so that you can setup boundaries and you won't take the crap that you took from your past relationships...... go for a better position....raise when you know it's your time to you and not wait

and I think you know that you're not where you really ought to be in your job.... that's truly wonderful that you asked for some sort promotion!! yeah that is absolute positive action again I keep getting that you're not where you should be in your job and I don't know if it's because of past situation and maybe you work on that and that's why you were able to ask for a promotion... but I keep getting that you're behind the curve...... is it that your other peers in your age group are ahead?

and of course you can absolutely take time in retreat.... everyone is entitled to do so!

QUOTE]Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Hi Cforful,

Thanks for your help. I understand the point you are trying to make, but I have to disagree with certain parts of it.

I would say that a majority of the people in my life are really incredible, and I can hardly think of a friend that doesn't give to me back as much as I give to them. They are all very uplifting, aside from the guy I was dating, who I have cut out of my life. Also, I have an amazing job at a well-known media company that I have fought to keep for three years and recently requested a raise and a promotion, both of which I am getting as soon as the New Year starts. Last year, when I was feeling lost and confused I channeled my energy into a personal project and went and met my birth mother for the first time. I know how to act on things, how to move my life forward, and I have a lot of self-respect. At this moment, I'm just not feeling great because of the break-up and the overall shake-up in my emotional life. I've had a lot of fears when it came to romantic relationships, and getting out of my first significant relationship and losing my virginiTY at the age of 26 has kind of thrown me for a loop. I also told a guy that I had feelings for him after two years of holding it in, and then picked myself up again. I started dating my ex soon after because I knew I really had to let go of the old love and move on. Again, action.

I'm also the first to admit I'm where I am because of my own choices. I'm not blaming things on anyone else. Like everyone, I have a complicated background that shaped who I am. I've been able to bounce back from traumas and make the most of them. I am an active person. I know how to take hurts and turn them into action. But at this point, I don't know what that action should be. How can I move if I don't know the direction? I have been working on putting myself first and taking care of myself, yet I still feel empty. As far as cognitive reconditioning goes - I've been working on that for over a year and a half in therapy and also on my own.

The way I phrased my question was to see what purpose this all has - what lessons I am learning to make me more mature.

I don't know why but your readings always make me feel like I have to defend myself. I'm very open to recognizing my own problems but I feel like you are a little cavalier in your assumptions. I know you mean well, but you tend to depict me as very weak and insecure, which isn't true overall. I've done a lot with my life. I feel like I deserve a little room to withdraw for a little while while I recover.

I'm not sure we should read for each other unless this can be more of a conversation.[/QUOTE]

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Twitterbird05
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posted December 22, 2013 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cherful, I guess I feel like I am already doing the things you are suggesting and am exasperated. Trying to change major patterns and still feeling stuck. I'm spent. As far as work goes, I've had a lot of success and the true recognition has been very slow in coming. I would say I'm way ahead of my peers, but maybe behind in receiving acknowledgement for myself. I guess I have a hard time asking for the things I want and need, and then I get walked all over, like with my ex. I will keep fighting on these things, but I barely have any energy left for it at this point.

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cherful24
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posted December 22, 2013 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
exactl.... I am seeing right where you are.
and I think it's great that you're working on the change e if you continue to work on it you will get better quality and you will have self confidence to go after things when the time is right.

any answer still hold true what are you going from this is better self esteem putting up boundaries and you will be able to recognize your qualities... and use that as tools to get ahead. but it still comes up that there's something in your career that didn't either happened when I was supposed to happen or you're not a head of where you should be.

if you keep doing what you're doing you will get all the benefits improvement that you are seeking but its going to take time. you're on the right path in learning how to reach the film it in all areas of your life so don't detour from what you doing now

quote:
Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Cherful, I guess I feel like I am already doing the things you are suggesting and am exasperated. Trying to change major patterns and still feeling stuck. I'm spent. As far as work goes, I've had a lot of success and the true recognition has been very slow in coming. I would say I'm way ahead of my peers, but maybe behind in receiving acknowledgement for myself. I guess I have a hard time asking for the things I want and need, and then I get walked all over, like with my ex. I will keep fighting on these things, but I barely have any energy left for it at this point.

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venuscorpio86
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posted December 23, 2013 12:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you twittetbird! Lovely reading! I had a quick question about the 2 of cups
Is that in regards to my question is he interested in someone else? Wouldn't that be a yes?? Or did you ask about his feelings for me? Which two of cups would destined his feelings for Me? Sorry! To question I hope you don't think I'm being rude or anything its just what I was wondering ...againthank you so much!

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posted December 23, 2013 10:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Thank you twittetbird! Lovely reading! I had a quick question about the 2 of cups
Is that in regards to my question is he interested in someone else? Wouldn't that be a yes?? Or did you ask about his feelings for me? Which two of cups would destined his feelings for Me? Sorry! To question I hope you don't think I'm being rude or anything its just what I was wondering ...againthank you so much!

I think the two of cups represents his feelings for you. I think the seven of cups shows that he has other options however. Those other options don't necessarily mean that he doesn't genuinely like you.

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