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Topic: Composite chart help appreciated x
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Aurorablue
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posted December 23, 2013 04:00 PM
  
Hi everyone
I'm in such a difficult place at the moment and I'm still learning a lot about my natal chart and more recently had a go at a composite chart of myself and my partner.
Do these aspects look good or not? I have a few inconjunct and know this not always to be good. I can see how it's picked up us getting along well in regards to interests, which we do both share a lot of similar interests. I'm just not attracted sexually to him anymore (been together for 9 years and have 4 children) we aren't married and currently don't see that ever happening. We have split up before ( 2 years ago for a few months) it was an incredibly painful time, but it seems to be rearing it's head again. A lot if it I know is me, I just don't know if it's just another blip and things are going to get better (can you see this is a chart?) or I'm just prolonging the inevitable.
I'd appreciate any help offered (I apologise I can't link my chart from my phone)
Sun 18°36' Aries
Moon 1°56' Virgo
Mercury 15°50' Aries
Venus 24°19' Taurus
Mars 11°05' Я Scorpio
Jupiter 10°58' Gemini
Saturn 0°55' Я Scorpio
Uranus 8°31' Я Sagittarius
Neptune 29°00' Я Sagittarius
Pluto 28°24' Я Libra
Chiron 26°43' Taurus
Ceres 1°24' Cancer
Pallas 22°40' Taurus
Juno 29°30' Я Virgo
Vesta 21°00' Aries
Node 29°30' Я Gemini
Lilith 10°30' Leo
Fortune 0°53' Pisces
AS 11°27' Scorpio
MC 28°46' Leo
Sun House 5
Moon House 10
Mercury House 5
Venus House 7
Mars House 1
Jupiter House 7
Saturn House 12
Uranus House 1
Neptune House 2
Pluto House 12
Chiron House 7
Ceres House 8
Pallas House 7
Juno House 11
Vesta House 5
Node House 8
Lilith House 9
Fortune House 4
House 1 11°27' Scorpio
House 2 12°44' Sagittarius
House 3 21°47' Capricorn
House 4 28°46' Aquarius
House 5 28°55' Pisces
House 6 22°30' Aries
House 7 11°27' Taurus
House 8 12°44' Gemini
House 9 21°47' Cancer
House 10 28°46' Leo
House 11 28°55' Virgo
House 12 22°30' Libra
List of Aspects
Saturn Conjunction Pluto Orb 2°30'
Sun Conjunction Mercury Orb 2°46'
Moon Conjunction MC Orb 3°10'
Mars Conjunction Saturn Orb 10°10
Jupiter Opposite Uranus Orb 2°26'
Sun Opposite Pluto Orb 9°48'
Venus Square MC Orb 4°27'
Moon Square Uranus Orb 6°34'
Moon Square Venus Orb 7°37'
Neptune Trine MC Orb 0°14'
Moon Trine Neptune Orb 2°55'
Mercury Trine Uranus Orb 7°19'
Pluto Sextile MC Orb 0°21'
Neptune Sextile Pluto Orb 0°35'
Moon Sextile Saturn Orb 1°01'
Saturn Sextile Neptune Orb 1°54'
Saturn Sextile MC Orb 2°08'
Moon Sextile Pluto Orb 3°31'
Mercury Sextile Jupiter Orb 4°52'
Mars Inconjunction Jupiter Orb 0°07'
Jupiter Inconjunction AS Orb 0°29'
Moon SesquiQuadrate Mercury Orb 1°06'
Sun SesquiQuadrate Moon Orb 1°40'
Mercury SesquiQuadrate MC Orb 2°04'
Jupiter SesquiQuadrate Pluto Orb 2°26'
Mars Quintile MC Orb 0°19' IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 23, 2013 04:14 PM
I would need the chart. You can post it as soon you have access to your computer.
Welcome!
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Aurorablue
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posted December 23, 2013 05:18 PM
Sorry here it is   IP: Logged |
Aurorablue
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posted December 23, 2013 05:19 PM
oh and thank you for the welcome xIP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 24, 2013 02:18 AM
Nope. Post a chart from astro.com in PLACIDUS system. Thank you.IP: Logged |
Aurorablue
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posted December 24, 2013 04:33 AM
Oh im sorry, I think I've done this right.
Question: Why is it best to use this chart?
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Rosalind
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posted December 24, 2013 07:02 AM
First thing first. For the fact that you arent attracted sexually to him anymore, the Progressed Composite Chart must be checked. Some aspects from that chart is making your partner less desirable to you.Now... I don't understand why after 4 children and a 9 year relationship he doesn't want to marry you. What's his excuse?
I'm gonna be honest with you. The composite doesn't look excellent. The chart is full of KARMIC indicators and the fact that he doesn't want to marry you is because the karma isnt a positive one. Here's why: Uranus alone in 1st house makes the relationship unstable. The on/off relationship is shown by Uranus. Ruler is Jupiter and is in 7th house making an opposition. But that's not the important point. The important point here is that you two share a karmic debt. There are three hard and malefic planets in 12th house. A good composite of a solid and stable couple is WITHOUT planets in 12th house. It is acceptable to have planets in 12th house SYNASTRY but not in composite. Here we have Mars, Saturn and Pluto. Mars is bad in 12th house. 12th house is the house of our subconscious and here Mars's energy is weak. Makes the couple passive agressive and the sex drive is low or not that important. Saturn is again bad in 12th house but not as bad as Mars. What I don't like is the conjunction between these two and especially in this house. The energies go together but in the wrong way. Saturn is restrictive towards Mars and is forcing this planet to not work properly. In 12th house Saturn doesn't allow to express well your fears, your doubts, everything. The fact that you have been together for almost a decade is because Saturn is glue you together. You and your partner share a negative karma from a past life. That's is one of the reasons why he doesn't marry you.
Neptune in 2nd house isnt great for money matters and self worth. You don't see your self worth in each other and regarding money there is a tendency to spend more that you can actually afford.
3rd house is empty. Ruler is Uranus in 1st house. You two have independent and different ways of thinking. But while the communication may work its very unconventional with full of unsual ideas.
4th house is empty. You two may come from different backgrounds. Like he might he from another social class or another religion. Something like that.
Mercury and Sun are in 5th house. Children are shown. Ruler goes in 12th house. You may have sacrified for them but not enough. At least he didnt.
Venus, Jupiter and Chiron are in 7th house. Ruler of 7th house is in the same house. Venus shows LTR but since there are no aspects with Saturn or Uranus... marriage is out of discussion. Even with a square two people can marry if they have 7th house with planets in it. Jupiter brings properity and joy in the relationship at least in the first years but more because of the children not exactly because of your relationship.
I am gonna do this: Your Partner is Jupiter and you are Venus. He wants a free romance even if there are children involved. You want everything. Marriage and stuff. NN in 8th house. Again, karma. You were brought together to learn something. To transform yourselves as individuals through this relationship The thing is... Moon may be in 10th house but ruler Mercury is in 5th. One of you doesn't like the idea of marriage. In this case. him. Now. I have some other things to tell you regarding this karma.
neptune, Pluto and NN are all in anaretic degrees. Anaretic degrees are planets or points found in the last degrees. What this thing is telling me is that this relationship of yours is some sort of unfinished business. Edpecially NN here. NN is positive usualy but not at this degree and in 8th house is a sign for me and you of course that your relationship cannot last forever and cannot become more than a relationship because you continue in this life what was left in the previous one. One of you DIED in a previous life but that death was caused by the other. That's why the karma is negative. Sure, your children is a true sign that the negative karma is turning positive but the problem here is your partner's attitude and somehow yours. His because he has probably doubts and fears regarding your relationship and yours because you are tired of waiting something that will never come which is marriage. On top of that you are losing interest which is part of karma being burned.
The last thing I have noticed is the lack of EARTH element in the chart. There is no sense of groundness. The stability is lacking. The composite has a lot of FIRE. Attraction exists (existed), action and driven emotions existed but nothing solid in the true sense of speak. There is/was love, have no doubt of that but love cannot conquer all if the couple isnt on the same page. The Sun and the Moon are making a square aspect and in different elements. The Moon is in Earth ( your emotions were true and stable) but with Sun in Aries ( your EGO and SPIRIT) in FIRE has made you impulsive and impatient.
I would like to see the Progressed Composite chart as well. I want to see what makes you feel less attracted by him.
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AriesLilith
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posted December 24, 2013 07:10 AM
*edited* I think that Rosalind's reading is great, I have nothing to add (had to erase my inexperienced reading).IP: Logged |
Aurorablue
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posted December 24, 2013 01:01 PM
Thank you very much for your time and effort in my reading, I will spend more time replying later with the progressed chart when I have got the children to bed.
Thank you!! Your reading is amazing x
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Rosalind
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posted December 24, 2013 01:09 PM
No worries. Happy Holidays!IP: Logged |
Aurorablue
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posted December 24, 2013 03:05 PM
Here is the progressed chart
I will add my reply on the next post as you picked up some very interesting things in that reading and my kepboard on my comp is a nightmare! (1 doesn't work properly and a few other keys) x
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Aurorablue
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posted December 24, 2013 03:25 PM
Ok now to clarify a few of the things you picked up on. We were engaged after 2 and a bit years, went into business together (had our first child) and everything went downhill from that moment. We had a lot of upset and disagreements which then lead is moving away from his home town due to some bad decisions he made with done very unsavoury people. We both met on the internet and after 5 months he can't down to me and I went straight back with him, felt right and at the time was absolutely the right choice. We had a brilliant time. His mum and dad were (and still are) totally amazing and supportive. His family background was middle class, family love. Mine domestic violence, bi polar mother and 'lower working class'. How-ever that didn't matter, we gelled and as I said had a great time until we went into business and he went off playing business man with some idiots which got us into all sorts of problems, these problems still exist and contribute to much of his anger and drive to get out if what has happened, inevitably it's had a knock on effect to us as a family. He and I wanted to get married, when we split that obviously was no longer an option but even when we got back together it still wasn't prevalent or something we really talked much about. I don't see myself marrying him while I feel the way I do. One thing that gets to me is how well we do get on, we are both intuitively connected, spiritually and musically. These things have become more so over the past 4 years. I started my 'spiritual awakening' when I was pregnant with my first (when we met) he has been over the past 4 years and has actually gone very Indepth in regards to some things. Anyway when we were getting back together he had met another woman, although he seemed to be rebounding at the time and hadn't we got back together he is sure she would have got pregnant etc and realised that it was a close call and that he shouldn't have been so hasty but he felt he needed 'to get over me'. It was a painful time, I was in absolute agony in my heart that we may not get back together, he's my best friend, I'd never felt pain like that for anyone and this is what confuses me, surely I should be still feeling my ultimate love for him if I've felt that way when I thought I was losing him? I now don't want sex with him (this happened prior to the breakup too) I don't fancy him and most days I talk to him like crap (shamefully) but I do care deeply and I don't want to feel I've made a mistake again by ending it, we have our children in this too, I can't leave and then change my mind again 
This is very difficult
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Aurorablue
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posted December 24, 2013 03:33 PM
Oh and to add he absolutely has no problems wanting sex with me, he constantly wants to and I know he still fancies me and wants me even though I'm horrible IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 25, 2013 02:26 AM
Moon is squaring Mars and Venus. Usually this means clash and makes one of both partners be uninterested in sex anymore.
Sun is in 6th house now and this position is hard. You feel inequality in your relationship and you feel burdened. Now, the 11th house is full of planets. Mars is there. Mars in 11th house cannot make you feel desire for your partner. You see him now as a brother or friend. That urge of being intimate is long gone.
Now, while progressions are temporary transits and I could tell you that if this pass there's still hope for you, I look at the length of your relationship and I cannot give you false hopes. Something is broken in your relationship and cannot be fixed. You are changing, you are seeing things in a different way and he is the same as you even if he's older than you. The only advice I have for you is to think very well on what you want to do, if not for you, for your children. If you think you don't see joy or motivation in the future, think of your children. Happy Christmas!PS: You are NOT horrible. IP: Logged |
Aurorablue
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posted December 25, 2013 06:35 AM
Thank you very much for your interpretation. I guess I'm going to have to spend sometime thinking about what to do (well it's constantly on my mind anyhow).Merry Christmas and thank you again x IP: Logged |
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