posted December 25, 2013 09:52 PM            

Should I just give up now or what? LOL

posted December 26, 2013 03:45 PM            

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posted December 27, 2013 04:52 AM            

Thank you for your response! I think that I am more Saturnian - with my Aquarius rising, Saturn in the 7th conjunct my NN. My issue is that I am in disbelief that someone could feel so romantically towards me. He is a Pisces with a Cancer rising and he is very sweet and romantic, even though he has this tough exterior. I like him a lot though, I just have to let my guard down a little.

posted January 04, 2014 09:30 PM            

I am concerned about the moon being in hard aspect to mars twice in synastry as well as sun squaring mars in synastry and mars squaring pluto in composite. This will lead to hard times. You may feel like u are on the brink of breaking up many times. However mars squares are almost always not apparent right away, they always come up later on. Good thing they are also in synastry because synastry is much easier to overcome than aspects in composite.

Do not worry about sun square moon in composite. It is not especially significant, it will just mean you come from somewhat different backgrounds and one of you will be really hyper while the other will act really shy. But there is a strong appreciation of one another and it makes things fun and interesting.

The heavy emphasis on saturn in both composite and synastry shows that you will want to get together but will not be able to see yourselves in love with that person. If u get together it will be more out of a sense of loyalty and responsibility to one another.
The myth of saturn natals being more okay with saturnian relationships is erroneous. The planets apply to everyone the same way regardless of what their natal chart shows. Thats why synastry exists and thats why composite aspects come with descriptions. If they did not apply to everyone then we should just get rid of all aspect descriptions and include a lot of small print at the end with exemptions: "But! If you have mars square pluto natally then you'll like this relationship so forget it none of this will really apply to you."

I have a saturnian natal. All my natal planets are afflicted by saturn except for the sun. And saturn is in my third house which means it influences a large part of my mind and way of speaking. Yet I feel the negative saturnian aspect descriptions in synastry and composite just like everybody else.

Either way, my biggest fear here is that in saturnian relationships you will have lopsided love. One person is in love but the other one isn't. That combined with the negative mars aspects will mean there will be tims where your relationship is really put to the test with a tendency to get hot under the collar at each other's way of communicating.

Because composite sun is sesquiquadrate pluto, however, this will be a powerful and bonding relationship for both of you. A good experience. Sun in hard aspect to pluto in composite goves love at first sight and strong level of intimacy between you right from your first date. For that reason I recommend this relationship no matter how it turns out in the end. I dont think u should expect that this will be the love of your life, or that u will get married, but it will be someone you LOVE. And a good experience for both of you.