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Topic: my boyfriend is out of town im just wondering...
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blindpainter
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From: Washington USA
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 02:25 AM
  
he went home for Christmas and ive just been wondering if he actually likes living in the state we are living in now and if he still loves me as much as in the beginning. sometimes I doubt my feelings for him but then other times I know I can't live without him. any readings would be helpful and appreciated. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 27, 2013 02:36 AM
you doubt your feelings for him or do you think he doubts his feelings for you? yes at times he does doubt his feelings for you... but hes use to you so its not enough to leave you if that's what you're worrying aboutand no he does not like we're hes living at right now  quote:
Originally posted by blindpainter:
he went home for Christmas and ive just been wondering if he actually likes living in the state we are living in now and if he still loves me as much as in the beginning. sometimes I doubt my feelings for him but then other times I know I can't live without him. any readings would be helpful and appreciated.
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blindpainter
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Washington USA
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 03:58 AM
do you think he wants to move back home? does he still love me? how do I show him that I love him?IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 27, 2013 05:37 AM
I think he does want to move but I don't think he's going to move without youfor your question if he still loves you.....i only get that he's use to you. I think you guys should figure out if you want to work it out and be together long term marriage if not then you don't need to worry about telling him that you love him I feel like you guys are together because you're used to each other that's all you know and it's better to have someone to leave someone because nobody wants to be alone and you don't want to start over again with someone else.... so you asked if things were like the beginning no they're not. I feel like one foot is in the relationship and the other foot is in it only because of being forced to be in it.... there's some hold that is pleasing the relationship I don't know if it's because again you guys are used to each other or did something else. if you do want this relationship then get the excitement back.... Show the love.g...... I feel the relationship is just stagnate and you both can turn around if you want to. but he hasn't had any more in a relationship then you are... so do not be taking him or the rel. For granted only you know him so you can only tell yourself how to show him love.......... the way that he wants to be loved, is the answer quote:
Originally posted by blindpainter:
do you think he wants to move back home? does he still love me? how do I show him that I love him?
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blindpainter
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Washington USA
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 10:32 AM
how sad....I don't know how this happened I do love him and I do want to be with him I do want to marry him hes so closed off though I don't know what he wants I don't know how to get the excitement back a lot of the time I feel ike all we have is a really great sex life and that's it. I don't know how to get him to talk to me. he always dismisses his own feelings before we even talk about something hell just say that ill blow him off and I don't understand where hes coming from....IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 833
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 27, 2013 10:57 AM
That’s because he’s thinking of what his move is going to be. I wouldn’t give it up to him anymore…let him ask what’s wrong and then that’s when you say I don’t want it to be like this anymore, I want to go back to how we were…what can be changed, what do you need, what’s bothering you so…let’s fix this because I love you and my heart is with only you.IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 27, 2013 10:59 AM
blindpainter I would like to see the synastry and composite of you and your guy if you don't mind.
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blindpainter
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Washington USA
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 11:13 AM
cheerful thanks for your help I do like that idea. getting anything out of him is like pulling teeth sometimes. Rosalie do you want me to pose our charts? how do I do that? sorry im sorta newIP: Logged |
blindpainter
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Washington USA
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 12:21 PM
Rosalind do you know a site I can get the charts for free? and how to post them.....I am really interested in your opinion I've read some things you have said to people an di like how you interpret chartsIP: Logged |
Rosalind
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 27, 2013 12:34 PM
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Originally posted by blindpainter:
Rosalind do you know a site I can get the charts for free? and how to post them.....I am really interested in your opinion I've read some things you have said to people an di like how you interpret charts
astro.com. IP: Logged |
blindpainter
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Washington USA
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 01:01 PM
ok it took me a little while haha but here is our synastry ill have composite in a minute  IP: Logged |
blindpainter
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Washington USA
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 01:04 PM
composite
 I hooe you see something good!.....ive been told im an old soul is that true? is he? will this show you anything about my career either? IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 27, 2013 01:22 PM
Mars over 1st house can be good for sexual attraction but also can be annoying. Your Sun over his 11th house. Deep down, he doesn't see you as his THE ONE. You are not his ideal. Venus is also over this house. Sun conjunct Jupiter is good for you two. Mercury, Venus, Sun are over your 5th house. You like him and you like the relationship you have with him but you know deep down that some things are not right. Moon in exact conjunction with his IC means that he loves you and he feel comfortable to you but since there is no energy over 7th house, he cannot see a future with you. That Uranus over 4th house is not ideal. Do you live together? If yes, that was a mistake. You won't have peace at home. NN over 5th house. You are destined to have a romance and nothing more.Composite: Jupiter is in 1st house. Jupiter brings joy in your relationship but that doesn't mean will last or lead to marriage. Sun and Venus are in 2nd house. Not a good position for love and a relationship. Mercury is in 3rd house in Virgo. The communication is good, you share the same tastes. Pluto in 5th house with ruler in same house. This is a very karmic and intense relationship. You have a stellium in 6th house. Are you by chance collegues in Uni? Coworkers?
NN in 7th house. Again, karma. With ruler in 6th house you two would do great as friends or coworkers than lovers. This relationship seems to be a chore for both. Yet, you are destined to have a relationship. Chiron is in 12th house. There are some wounds from a past life that must be healed through this relationship. IP: Logged |
blindpainter
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Washington USA
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 02:23 PM
wow that's amazin. im so sad to hear that im not his the one....is there no chance of us staying together forever? we do live together but we are not coworkers or anything...is there anyway to become the one for him? thanks you for your inputIP: Logged |
Rosalind
Knowflake Posts: 2781
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 27, 2013 02:25 PM
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Originally posted by blindpainter:
wow that's amazin. im so sad to hear that im not his the one....is there no chance of us staying together forever? we do live together but we are not coworkers or anything...is there anyway to become the one for him? thanks you for your input
Unfortunately not. IP: Logged |
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