posted January 05, 2014 06:10 PM
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Kelly Clarkson Says It Best
You know that Kelly Clarkson song that goes, "my life would suck without you?" Replace "you" with "him," and truer words have never been spoken. Anyway, as La Clarkson so aptly puts it, you guys belong together (Forever uniiiited heeeere somehow). So, even as you're slogging through your daily grind, he provides the unadulterated fun and excitement that helps you escape the boredom. He loves what you have to say, and he's always ready to try out the crazy new plans you concoct. You're psyched that he's so positive and open-minded, and you're generally having such a good time with him that you wouldn't trade a minute for anything. Even cooler? You two can expand the entertainment into the cultural realm. Since you're both so innovative and receptive to new ideas, learning together at the museum or the library can be its own fun (shocking revelation, we know). But the truth is, it doesn't really matter where you are or what you're doing; any time you spend together is bound to be awesome. So go ahead, feel free to get your dork on if you need to.\
Grupovenus:
Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Twitterbird's Sun in Sagittarius and S's Sun in Aries:
Enthusiasm, a sense of adventure, and high spirited play infuse your relationship. You both feel you can be yourselves fully with one another: you don't have to tone down any of your exuberance and energy, the way you might with someone else. In fact, you inspire and vitalize one another's strength. S sometimes clashes or competes with other strong individuals, but Twitterbird is tolerant, not threatened, and doesn't take the bait. Also, you both need personal freedom and space, and even if you spend all of your time together, you are unlikely to feel smothered in this relationship. A happy twosome!
Twitterbird's Moon in Aquarius and S's Moon in Capricorn:
Your emotional needs and deeply ingrained attitudes are often at odds. Twitterbird has a very independent nature, and resists being dictated to by Authority, society, convention, or custom. The urge to break from the past, embrace the new and different, and to change things is part of Twitterbird's makeup. S, on the other hand, cherishes tradition and is far more cautious about venturing into unknown territory or changing the standard, tried-and-true ways of doing things. Twitterbird tends toward contemporary, progressive, or "alternative" ways of doing things. S is conservative and respects the time-honored, proven ways. Even if S is philosophically liberal, emotionally there is a very cautious, conservative element that is disinclined to take risks in either emotional or spiritual ways.
Also, Twitterbird craves freedom and will never be completely domesticated or possessed, while S is very responsible, dedicated, and committed, and may not fully appreciate Twitterbird's free spirit.
Both of you can have difficulty letting your feelings and emotions flow. Twitterbird intellectualizes rather than feels, and is often unaware of emotional needs (in self or others). S also represses emotions and is afraid of being vulnerable or dependent.
Moon & Saturn hard or conj for S, soft for Twitterbird:
Both of you have a great need for security and emotional stability in your lives. Twitterbird, however, has a more reliable base of family support and a solid sense of heritage and tradition -things which S needs and is learning to develop. Issues of trust, commitment and loyalty, which come naturally to Twitterbird, are areas that S struggles with. Twitterbird can give and teach much to S by being faithful, reliable, and a constant, supportive force in S's life.
Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
S's Asc. Conjunct Twitterbird's Sun:
There is a very warm and vital connection between you, and Twitterbird, in particular, will be a very influential person in S's life, and at times monopolizes or dominates S's attention. Upon meeting you may have felt that you already knew one another very well. Certainly you have much in common in terms of your attitudes and interests, which makes you both feel very comfortable and close to one another. The more time you spend together, the more your identities merge and you will feel very much a part of one another, a deep mutual dependence upon one another, a very important part of one another's lives.
S's Asc. Conjunct Twitterbird's Saturn:
Twitterbird restricts, disciplines, disapproves of, or criticizes S, often in a subtle way or with the assumption that it's for S's own good. This has the effect of either undermining S's confidence or of forcing S to become even stronger and more definite in order to stand up to Twitterbird.
Especially at the beginning of your relationship, Twitterbird is likely to be the dominant partner, and S may acquiesce to Twitterbird's wishes, even when they inhibit S's own natural self-expression. S will respect Twitterbird, and may actually benefit from the structure, stability, and security that Twitterbird provides. S also feels that Twitterbird is someone to be trusted and depended on, and in turn may feel obligated to Twitterbird in some important way. There is definitely the potential for a deep commitment between you, but the relationship can easily become stifling also, especially for S. Twitterbird must avoid trying to control S.
Twitterbird's Venus Conjunct S's Jupiter:
You enjoy each other's company immensely and you put each other in a happy mood. You make each other laugh and you feel very open, loose, and jovial around each other. You will also include others in your lives, expand your circle of friends, and allow one another a good deal of freedom, rather than being exclusive or possessive about one another. There is a great deal of generosity between you, and you may benefit one another financially and materially as well as emotionally. A wonderful friendship!
S's Asc. Square Twitterbird's Jupiter:
Twitterbird draws S out and makes S feel good, but Twitterbird also encourages S to be extravagant or irresponsible at times. Twitterbird challenges or dares S to be more of a gambler or more adventurous intellectually. The two of you have a lot of fun together and sometimes go overboard.
S's Asc. Sextile Twitterbird's Moon:
You are able to communicate with each other with such ease that you find yourselves openly sharing your personal concerns and interests very easily. Your friendship will continue to be a lasting, harmonious, meaningful one.
S's Venus Square Twitterbird's Saturn:
This relationship may very well lead to marriage, but there are some major negative tendencies that you both need to try to avoid. The proclivity to marriage stems from the strong sense of commitment, reliability, trustworthiness, faithfulness, and stability that this relationship offers. You both feel that you can count on each other and dedicate your lives to each other. However, this stable, reliable relationship can easily become boring, unexciting, and downright cold over time. S, in particular, is likely to feel stifled by the relationship. S may feel neglected, unloved, and unappreciated. Your tastes and interests are often different and you sometimes simply don't connect with each other on an emotional level. To prevent this relationship from drying up, you both must maintain your involvement in activities that inspire and uplift you, and maintain your friendships, hobbies, and entertainment you love -even when your partner does not share your enthusiasm for these activities.
S's Venus Trine Twitterbird's Pluto:
The romantic love and sexual attraction for each other is very compelling and deep. You wield a powerful, charismatic influence on each other and your love affair is a powerful one. This could be one of the most fulfilling, all-consuming relationships of your life!
Twitterbird's Mars Square S's Uranus:
You enjoy dynamic physical activities together, and it is likely that you enjoy playing sports, competing against each other, and pursuing life together in a spirited, zealous manner. You are quite a "dynamic duo" but you are also inclined to become angry with each other and feel irritated by each other. The dynamism and impatience that you arouse in each other can also lead to pushiness, power struggles, anger, and hostility. Sexual attraction is also very intense and builds up suddenly and unexpectedly.
S's Mars Square Twitterbird's Neptune:
It is very difficult for the two of you to jointly accomplish practical, mundane tasks. You draw out the silly, childish, imaginative side of each other, and you often will simply not be able to clearly focus on practical tasks. If either of you has a drinking, drug, or psychological problem, it is likely that your relationship will highlight this problem; be wary of the tendency of both of you to over-indulge in these kinds of bad habits.
The sexual aspect of your relationship can be very confusing, for there is a very strong element of fantasy or dreaminess in it. Twitterbird, especially, needs to avoid arousing or leading S on, or sending mixed messages.
Twitterbird's Mars Trine S's Jupiter:
The two of you form an effective, dynamic team in any venture or endeavor. You work together very well in accomplishing daily tasks, and it is likely that you will also successfully coordinate efforts on joint efforts as well.
Chapter 3
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Sextile Mars:
Together you will be inspired to take action and do things that you may not have had the courage or confidence to do as single individuals. You help one another come out into the world, to participate more fully and more boldly. Whatever you do together as a team is infused with a sense of energy and vital purpose, and you can get a lot done. Physical activities, sports or outdoor adventures, for instance, are a key part of the health of your relationship.
Composite Moon Square Pluto:
When you are together, deep emotions and intense, compelling, irrational energies within both of you come into play. Definitely, if you are together for any length of time, you will both undergo an emotional transformation, a soul cleansing, for being together will dredge up all of your unfinished emotional business and feelings you may not even have believed yourselves capable of. This may feel like a "fatal attraction", one that is irresistible even if one or both of you wants to run the other way.
A significant part of your purpose in coming together is to clear up and heal the past - old griefs, jealousies, wounds, and unresolved emotions, many of which you may have forgotten about until now!
Certainly, no matter how long this relationship lasts, it will be a profound, intense one. Emotionally it may feel overwhelming at times. If any emotional manipulation, domination, or abuse occurs, you both need to step back and get a clear, objective third party to help you. At times you're both apt to feel that you're in over your heads. On the other hand, though you may go through extreme emotions, you can develop an incredibly close bond.
Composite Mercury Sextile Uranus:
As a couple, you are likely to attract people who are intellectually inspired and awake, interesting, and interested in innovative, unconventional, or "far out" ideas and methods. Associations with eccentric thinkers are destined to play a significant part in your relationship.
Intellectually you are not apt to be bored with one another, and you will always find the mental component of your relationship to be lively and stimulating.
Composite Venus Conjunct Jupiter:
Yours is destined to be a very rewarding, happy, and fruitful union. You will grow and prosper together, on many levels - materially as well as emotionally. Joy, laughter, and optimism are keynotes in your relationship, buffering any of the challenges you may face together. You will be generous, tolerant, and spacious with one another, allowing and encouraging one another to expand and grow. You are both willing to share your partner with the world, rather than clinging or stifling the other's friendships and social urges.
Idealism, high-mindedness, and liberal good will toward one another permeate your bond. As a couple, you will be considered lucky by many, and indeed an abundance of good fortune will come into your lives via your relationship.
Composite Mercury Square Saturn:
Communication problems are a key focus with the two of you. It may seem like pulling teeth to keep a conversation going, or grueling work simply to get your point across to the other person. Resorting to monosyllabic replies, or talking only when it's necessary to convey some crucial information, may be the result of the frustration you both feel in talking to the other. This is very challenging! However, assuming other aspects of your relationship are really valuable and fulfilling to you, it would be worth the effort to learn to talk - and listen - to each other better.
Avoid discussing only problems and what's not working, complaining, being picayune about grammar, editing the other person's speech, or in other ways creating barriers between you and your partner. Dwelling on the "worst possible scenario" can be a real problem for the two of you, also.
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