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Topic: Inappropriate Crush
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MillyX Knowflake Posts: 901 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 04, 2014 02:29 PM
[IMG]http://i1168.photobucket.com/albums/r490/MissEmVee/astro_61gw_01_02 _me_u6952421512_zpscde78c81.gif[/IMG]Ok So I have this crush on a guy that I work with. But I shouldn't because he is too old for me & our personalities are opposites. I am frustrated with myself because I always seem to crush on guys that I will never have. Does this synastry explain why I have a crush on him? I'm on the inside. His tob is unknown. If this crush continues, I might have to quit my job to avoid him. Because obviously I'll just end up hurt like the last time. I seem to fall into unrequited situations alot. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 04, 2014 03:29 PM
me too, i am trying to figure it out.IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 261 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 04, 2014 04:18 PM
How much older? Why do you think it's so inappropriate?IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 901 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 05, 2014 09:11 PM
About 6 years older. I'll never have him anyways, because a guy like him would never go for a girl like me. But somehow, I am ALWAYS magnetically attracted to social, outgoing, confident guys. I have Leo on my 7th house. I am the complete opposite of that. Shy, serious & a wallflower. I think it's 'inappropriate' because I am just wasting my time. Plus I find it hard to concentrate at a job, I'll just stumble turn all red & I don't want my other coworkers to realise that I have a crush on him. IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 261 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 05, 2014 09:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by MillyX: About 6 years older. I'll never have him anyways, because a guy like him would never go for a girl like me. But somehow, I am ALWAYS magnetically attracted to social, outgoing, confident guys. I have Leo on my 7th house. I am the complete opposite of that. Shy, serious & a wallflower. I think it's 'inappropriate' because I am just wasting my time. Plus I find it hard to concentrate at a job, I'll just stumble turn all red & I don't want my other coworkers to realise that I have a crush on him.
Well some guys like shy and serious, believe it or not. I think you're putting yourself down too much. And seriously, why does it matter what anyone else thinks? They will only think it's odd or funny if you act like it's odd or funny for you to like him. People read whatever energy you are putting out. Try and turn it around, whether it's positively recognizing that it's not a viable dating opportunity or by making waves to actually get what you want. Standing up for yourself has more to do with how you think about yourself when you are alone than it has to do with what happens in front of others. IP: Logged |