posted January 05, 2014 06:39 PM
Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each OtherBoy's Sun in Libra and Girl's Sun in Pisces
Both of you are good listeners and you are receptive to others' points of view, and you dislike having to engage in competitive behavior or aggressive tactics in order to get your point across or receive fair treatment. You appreciate that your partner shares your gentle attitude. Boy, however, may sometimes feel that Girl is too gentle and receptive, being evasive or vague when asked questions or unable to be definite and articulate. Boy thrives on dialogue while Girl often prefers to simply take in lots of ideas and ponder them for a long time before offering a point of view. Boy also has a strong sense of justice and equality and can be vengeful towards those who are seen as unjust, while Girl is more likely to feel compassion and sympathy even for those who are guilty.
Boy's Moon in Taurus and Girl's Moon in Scorpio
Both of you are rather obstinate and inflexible, and cannot be easily moved once you've made up your mind. Nor does logic or reason work wonders with either of you, when you decide you want something. When the two of you lock horns, it's a matter of which of you wears down first!
Of the two of you, Boy is the more practical and down to earth. A loving, stable home, creature comforts, and peaceful relationships are Boy's ideal. Boy has a much simpler emotional nature than Girl, and is much more easily contented.
Girl's feelings run very deep. Girl loves intensely, but is also capable of tremendous animosity and hostility if hurt or betrayed. Girl has a very private, secretive side and often hides feelings or withdraws from people as a means of self-protection. Anger, guilt, and jealousy are emotions Girl frequently keeps hidden inside.
All of this is rather incomprehensible to Boy, though Boy does share with Girl the tendency to be possessive with a love partner.
Girl also demands much more from a partner in terms of emotional involvement, intimacy, and depth. Girl doesn't accept anything at face value, and it may seem to Boy that Girl is always probing, analyzing feelings, and thereby making unnecessary trouble.
There is a strong magnetic attraction between you, and you can be very, very close, especially if you learn to appreciate one another's ways.
Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You TogetherVenus Mutually Aspects Pluto
You will experience the heights and depths, love and hate, attraction and repulsion, agony and ecstasy in this relationship. A powerful, compelling fascination and irresistible sexual attraction draws the two of you together like magnets. You love each other with a depth of feeling that is surprising even to yourselves. The powerful charismatic power that you have over each other can be used to manipulate one another, and dominance, control, or jealousy easily become hot issues between you. Whether this is a brief passionate encounter or a lifelong attachment, you will change one another profoundly.
Boy's Sun opposition Girl's Venus orb 2° 35'
Sparks fly when you come into contact with one another! Strong feelings of love, attraction, warmth, mutual admiration, and appreciation bring you together, and you are able to express your love feelings openly and fully to one another. You can be great friends and companions as well as lovers.
Boy's Sun opposition Girl's Jupiter orb 0° 29'
There is a great deal of enthusiasm and optimism in your relationship. You inspire each other to expand your horizons, explore new possibilities, and improve your financial and social situation. You have a lot of good will towards each other, and also allow each other a lot of freedom. You do not smother each other. You may, however, engage in risky speculations together that are driven more by optimism and hopefulness than by well thought out plans, and consequently fall far short of your expectations. Overall, however, this astrological influence is a positive one of good will and optimism.
Boy's Saturn conjunct Girl's Moon orb 2° 36'
Together you can build a solid, secure relationship, a place of refuge and strength, but you must take care not to make it a prison with too much emphasis on commitment, responsibility, and duty. Boy, in particular, has a strong parental attitude towards Girl, providing stability and support, yet also restricting, disciplining, or criticizing Girl's emotional, childish needs. Boy can be cool and indifferent towards Girl's neediness. A pessimistic, heavy, serious atmosphere may develop between the two of you.
Boy's Pluto opposition Girl's Venus orb 2° 33'
Sexual attraction to each other, at times, is extremely intense. These sexual feelings tend to be irresistible or obsessive, and difficult to control or even comprehend. Girl, especially, feels magnetically attracted or mesmerized by Boy. Powerful subconscious emotional drives come into play, and you may become exceedingly attached to one another, as well as very jealous and manipulative at times.
Boy's Moon opposition Girl's Ascendant orb 1° 57'
Although your tastes and preferences are often completely opposite from each other, you love and admire each other very deeply. There is almost a maternal tenderness that you feel for each other, and the warm sympathy and caring that you feel for each other fosters a close and lasting relationship. There is a 'soul kinship' between you.
Boy's Sun sextile Girl's Uranus orb 1° 17'
There is a light-hearted, buoyant quality to your relationship that makes you really enjoy each other's company. You spark each other's sense of humor and you enjoy joking and 'horsing around' with each other. You also appreciate each other's creative interests and encourage each other to pursue original, creative activities. Boy especially feels freer and less inhibited by being with Girl.
Boy's Moon sextile Girl's Sun orb 0° 29'
You are drawn to one another because you instinctively understand each other. There are strong feelings of belonging, closeness, and acceptance between you. You blend and merge with one another very easily and a strong mutual interdependence is likely to develop very quickly. Girl, especially, feels affirmed and strengthened by Boy's support and 'backing'. Because of the deep affinity between you, you are more motivated and more able to overcome any problems or differences that arise in your relationship.
Boy's Venus sextile Girl's Pluto orb 1° 3'
Romantic love and sexual attraction is very strong. You pour your hearts out to each other and feel like you are able to express your feelings to each other very fully. This is a powerful love affair that may lead to marriage.
Boy's Mars sextile Girl's Pluto orb 1° 58'
Bonding is strong and the two of you are able to work together effectively in achieving goals and objectives. If you share a similar hobby or profession, you can jointly develop creative works of high quality - a result of your combined dedication. As your relationship deepens, you will find that the two of you are able to assist each other immensely in achieving the goals and objectives that are most meaningful and important to you.