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Topic: Synastry chart reading?
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Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 15 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 14, 2014 10:00 AM
Can someone please give me a reading of this chart I have with someone im really attracted to but im not sure whether its good for a long term relationship.. plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz http://s1260.photobucket.com/user/NessaPa/media/ccaa3545-0c6c-4014-a9cd-b620f01b9b37.gif.html IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 388 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 14, 2014 11:02 AM
Hi, can you post a composite? Synastry can show compatibility, but composite can show how the relationship can develop.In your synastry, you have opposed ACs, which can show attraction since in a general sense you are what each other can find as ideal partners (opposed ACs means each of your AC is conjunct the other's DC). Then your Sun/Venus is conjunct his Mars, so that he can find your femininity very attractive. Also, his Venus is conjunct your Mercury, so he can feel affectionate towards how you think and communicate. Also, his Venus and Mars falls on your 7th house, again you find him attractive and he fits the image of the ideal partner for you. Your Sun/Venus on his 1st house, he can find himself having some common ground with you and that you are similar to each other in some way. Also, your Chiron is conjunct his Moon, and your Moon and Saturn is oppose his Moon. These are trine/sextile by both your Neptunes and Uranuses. Your emotional natures are opposite but complementary, he can be more rational and you can be more emotive, thought Saturn conjunct Moon can show emotional seriousness that you do not display it easily. You might feel vulnerable towards him, at the same time he can help you heal some inner wounds. You can also be emotional support for him through your Chiron. Chiron is not only about vulnerability and wound, he was also a teacher, a mentor that is able to guide others. Uranus and Neptune trine and sextile the elements of this opposition can add some idealism between you, allowing more sensitivity towards each other's emotions. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7679 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 14, 2014 01:02 PM
I would post the composite since it shows long term compatibility better than does the synastryYour synastry is actually quite good. The only bad aspect there is moon opposite saturn, but it is just one aspect out of many good ones. However you should read up on it and prepare for it bc you should try to make sure things dont get routine between you Venus conj mars is spectacular and so is moon trine neptune pluto and uranus so congrats. Tell us your chinese signs Make sure to post the composite And paste the results from http://reallovecalc.com If possible also copy n paste the compatibility report from grupovenus.com
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Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 15 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 14, 2014 01:14 PM
OOO! Thank you so much for the reply! Your description sounds very thorough and accurate according to what im experiencing. Although im (too) aware of the attraction between us...I really want to know if there are any aspects that indicate stability or long-term(ness). And also about his venus/mars in my 7th, does that make the 'ideal partner' image more one sided...like am I the only one who feels the need for a relationship with him? Here's the composite btw. Thanks so much, again [IMG]http://i1260.photobucket.com/albums/ii568/NessaPa/b381d6b1-def3-4276-bb93-ef f8be07bfc9.gif[/IMG] IP: Logged |
Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 15 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 14, 2014 01:33 PM
RunAroundScreamingThankyou umm..how do I get our Chinese signs? and heres the sdescription from the link, it says we are 86% compatible (lol wow): Is it hot and bothered in here, or is that just you guys? We know you're in the middle of living out a live-action romance novel, but take a break from fantasizing about flying buttons and ripped bodices and focus for a second. Are you with us? Cool. So it seems you two have passion to spare, and the attraction levels are off the charts. But it's usually more about the anticipation and thrill of the chase than actually getting together for good. When you combine your white-hot attraction with some emotional volatility and penchant for possessiveness, you've got all the makings of a spicy and far-fetched telenovela. So if you've got a flair for the dramatic and you love living out subplots about evil twins and international intrigue, by all means - go for it. There'll never be a dull moment with him in the mix, but there's a price to pay for this constant state of heightened drama - that would be your sanity. If you're actually into a healthy, mutually beneficial thing, you may want to chalk this up to a fun hookup and promptly change the channel. IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 388 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 14, 2014 01:41 PM
*edited* it seems that I can't access both synastry and composite links. IP: Logged |
Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 15 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 14, 2014 02:00 PM
aw,Why is that ? :/ I just checked, I think it's the right link....IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 388 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 14, 2014 03:27 PM
Hi again, it seems that I can see the charts now on my mobile. I'll check it later when I have a computer.IP: Logged |
Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 15 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 14, 2014 03:32 PM
Okay I got our chinese signs too. im a pig and hes a rat Is that good? IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7679 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 15, 2014 01:40 PM
Okay so you have moon trine venus and venus sq pluto in composite which gives people a strong attraction to each other. However I should warn you that it is not true love. Only sun-venus in composite is. Imo you should read the real love calculator result. You have now mars squares to outer planets in comp or syn so ur good it wont be a violent relationship. But i would follow the love calculator result bc imo it is always rightEdit: sorry i meant to say You have no mars squares to outer planets in composite or synastry so you're good, bc it means it wont be a violent/threatening/scary relationship. IP: Logged |
Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 15 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 01:55 PM
hmm.. Honestly my gut tells me you're right about it not being true love...because as I was researching I found that we had numerous attraction indicators but not any of those classic true love aspects like sun/venus, sun/moon or maybe some squares to the nodes/asc (syn/comp). And i'm not into 'short flings' so..
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7679 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 15, 2014 06:21 PM
^well i wouldnt say those aspects in synastry indicate true love but look up composite sun-venusPro Astrologers all agree that it signifies true love and is also the most common aspect in marriages. Anywho just go with your gut. IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 388 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 15, 2014 08:35 PM
Sun/Venus is not the only aspect pointing to true love, that the lack of it doesn't mean that true love would not develop. Also, sometimes it might not be obvious, as in the aspects between/to midpoint involving these elements can also show feelings of love and affection too. Venus cj Sun can show that there can be strong affection that is central in the relationship, thought Moon/Venus or Venus/Mars or Venus/Jupiter can point to affection that can grow strong as well, if there are no aspects in the chart that says otherwise.As for the composite, here it goes: You have Moon conjunct Jupiter trine Venus, which shows affection and good times, enjoying each other's company and it can be heart warming. But Saturn is square to Moon/Jupiter and Pluto is squared to Venus. Saturn is also quincunx to Venus. This can show that criticism and coldness can affect this warmth and happiness. Also, Pluto square Venus might give a strong pull and attraction at first, which can be very physical and somehow emotional, but it can be too intense, and at the expense of emotional connection. When Pluto is too physical, it can ignore Venus' need to bond emotionally, so that by time this strong intensity can point to selfishness and over focus on the physical at the expense of emotional. IP: Logged |
Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 15 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 16, 2014 05:35 AM
The attraction is something we both feel a lot right now and it's becoming sort of a nuisance actually, for me. The problem is i don't want to put in a lot of effort into this if it's just pure 'sexual tension'. .and most of the aspects seem to point to that. I just hope this becomes easier to deal with Thankyou so much for the info, this helped clear my mind a lot! IP: Logged |