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Topic: Synastry Reading Pls? Obsession
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Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 14, 2014 08:15 PM
Hello Everyone! It's been some years but I've returned; love this community. I'm still quite rusty with charts and aspects in general, so I once again could really use help with this one! An old flame that I admittedly obsess over, has a serious hold on me that's primarily very passionate. He's professed his feelings here in there in the past 10yrs but I never fully believed him. The actions didn't add up. Is he authentically really into me??? What do you see between he and I? Help pls? [ IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 01:05 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 37866 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 15, 2014 01:08 PM
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Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 01:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Welcome back!
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Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 17 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 01:37 PM
WOW. im not very good at reading either but for an amateur I can still say this chart has a bunch of pretty amazing aspects... sun/moon, mars/venus etcIP: Logged |
Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 17 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 01:39 PM
sun/venus aswell! from what I've read these are supposed to be true love aspects IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 02:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Pluto_junkie: WOW. im not very good at reading either but for an amateur I can still say this chart has a bunch of pretty amazing aspects... sun/moon, mars/venus etc
Awwwww thank you for glancing at it! I need to expound a bit. We've been off and on with one another for almost 10yrs. Exploring other relationships in between. But I'm ALWAYS coming back to him. He's always allowed me to reenter and we just pick right back up like the time in between didn't faze us. Now I'm in a committed relationship, but it's lacking that soulful connection; not passionate unfortunately. With this Cappy guy, just the thought of him makes my heart race. And with Venus in Rx naturally I went calling and here we go again! It's HARD for me to shake it. But it's also hard for me to know how he REALLY feels.
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Pluto_junkie Newflake Posts: 17 From: pakistan Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 02:36 PM
Np ^_^Hmm...well that sounds like it might have something to do with the Saturn in the chart..but I guess someone with more knowledge can tell u more. In my honest opinion however, the planets only incline you towards a certain direction but in the end its up to us to decide whether we want to put in an effort and do something or not. IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 05:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Pluto_junkie: Np ^_^Hmm...well that sounds like it might have something to do with the Saturn in the chart..but I guess someone with more knowledge can tell u more. In my honest opinion however, the planets only incline you towards a certain direction but in the end its up to us to decide whether we want to put in an effort and do something or not.
Yes, yes I've been eyeing that wonderful 'Saturn' and it's clear we're not so inclined to be bound in a serious relationship. Crazy as this sounds I just KNOW that I couldn't marry him b/c we have some serious differing views on life outside of how we make one another feel. Thus, we hold on to that connection even though all signs point to detour. Hardest involvement ever! Thank you!
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tgem Knowflake Posts: 951 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 15, 2014 05:33 PM
Actually in my opinion it's the probably all the Saturn that keeps you both coming back to each other. See Saturn is the relationship glue and you have a lot of it minus your moon opposite Saturn, but that's so wide at 10 degrees I don't think it's enough to have that strong of an effect. You also have a lot of Pluto (almost all of the personal planets and they're hard aspects.). That's going to give you the passion and obsession. I see the Uranus all being flowing aspects so even though it's on and off, I see why you keep going back to each other. The sun/venus is lovely I just noticed you have a love stellium (sun, mercury, venus conjunct) conjunct your composite IC (IC is the soul of the relationship)....oh yeah, there's some seriously love there...absolutely!!! IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 06:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: Actually in my opinion it's the probably all the Saturn that keeps you both coming back to each other. See Saturn is the relationship glue and you have a lot of it minus your moon opposite Saturn, but that's so wide at 10 degrees I don't think it's enough to have that strong of an effect. You also have a lot of Pluto (almost all of the personal planets and they're hard aspects.). That's going to give you the passion and obsession. I see the Uranus all being flowing aspects so even though it's on and off, I see why you keep going back to each other. The sun/venus is lovely I just noticed you have a love stellium (sun, mercury, venus conjunct) conjunct your composite IC (IC is the soul of the relationship)....oh yeah, there's some seriously love there...absolutely!!!
Your interpretation is SO appreciated. I can FEEL what we have but he's so cool on the surface; although I am too. We definitely mirror one another and I guess our emotions can go w/o saying. I have NO problem verbalizing the passion we have…which is clear why You've given me a good deal to examine, I really thank you a lot! Would you say the feelings are mutual? Any specific things about him I should consider maybe? I know you'd need to understand his natal but just from this alone…
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Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 15, 2014 11:42 PM
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tgem Knowflake Posts: 951 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 16, 2014 12:54 PM
Well this is a composite chart, which is the chart of the actual relationship (almost like a 3rd being) so it tells about both of your energies in the relationship. You can't tell his feelings toward you here as that is found in a synastry chart. I must say though that the composite is the midpoint of both of your natal planets so if the aspects are good, it would be mutually felt positively...not just one sided. Hope this helps. IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 16, 2014 02:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: Well this is a composite chart, which is the chart of the actual relationship (almost like a 3rd being) so it tells about both of your energies in the relationship. You can't tell his feelings toward you here as that is found in a synastry chart. I must say though that the composite is the midpoint of both of your natal planets so if the aspects are good, it would be mutually felt positively...not just one sided. Hope this helps.
I see, I misunderstood the purpose the composite serves but you've enlightened me; needed that! Thank you luv. Now I need to throw a Synastry chart up. Appreciate your help IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 20, 2014 03:12 AM
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Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 110 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 22, 2014 03:05 AM
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