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Topic: Natal/Synastry/Composite Karmic??? Help!
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PrettyVirgo
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posted January 17, 2014 04:53 PM
  
Hi Guys!This is my first time posting, although I am a bit familiar with the website. I need to know your honest observations about the synastry/composite. I fell in love with this guy during our first conversation (over 6 months ago), although I honestly didn't notice him before when we were partying.
The love I feel for this guy scares me!!! To the point I cut him off completely because I don't like feeling vulnerable (I'm trying to work on that). I am thinking about contacting him again. I don't know…
I cannot stop thinking about him. It messes up my day and productivity (my virgoness talking). I feel an unconditional, sacrificial, submissive, obsessive, worshipping (him), kind of love… like I wouldn't mind giving up anything for him. I don't like this. He said that he likes me, but I couldn't believe anything he says. In fact, he sometimes says mean things to me and . I could criticize him all day long without a problem ( with my virgoness and gemini moon), but I always seem to gloss over what he says. I caught him lie to me a few times (little unnecessary white lies), but I didn't say anything to him. My trust level for him is below the freezing point. What about all of those squares to our north nodes?? Geez Thanks in advance. My natal chart
http://i1366.photobucket.com/albums/r762/YaaAmo/PrettyVirgonatal_zps797d86d3.gif His natal chart
http://i1366.photobucket.com/albums/r762/YaaAmo/HisNatal_zps7591ee1c.gif Synastry
http://i1366.photobucket.com/albums/r762/YaaAmo/HisHersSynastry_zps5c765ec7.gif Composite
http://i1366.photobucket.com/albums/r762/YaaAmo/HisHersComposite_zps40aa430b.gif Have Fun! IP: Logged |
PrettyVirgo
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posted January 17, 2014 06:56 PM
Anyone, please??IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
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posted January 18, 2014 07:16 AM
The synastry has so many lines lol, but when you mentioned karmic connection, I've noticed that your Saturn is conjunct his South Node, so some past life connection is possible.
Your Mars/Mercury/Venus fall on his 7th house, while your Sun is in Virgo which is the sign of his DC, so he can perceive you as an ideal partner.
His AC seems tighly conjunct your anti-Vertex. Vertex aspects are often meaningful, as the Vertex person is transformed by the other. It's not necessarily a romance aspect, but it shows that the relationship has potential to be very meaningful for the Vertex person, transforming the Vertex person.As for the composite, what I've noticed first is that Venus/Pluto conjunction. It's conjunct South Node, with Mars nearby, and sextile Neptune and trine Moon. There is emotional sensitivity, and a strong obsessive attraction, and there is again possibility that it came from previous life connection. Thought Venus/Pluto is a very intense aspect, and such intensity can mean that there can be too much obsession and eventual over focus on physical attraction at the expense of emotional bonding, and this might be driven by unconscious dynamics and inner issues. We might not always be aware of our inner issues and insecurities, which can drive us to feel intensively attracted or unhealthily obsessed with someone. If that's so, what seemed like a strong pull and attraction that strikes deep, can turn into something that brings these issues into surface and force you both to face them, making it uncomfortable and hurtful. Such is Pluto when its too intense.
Also, you have 4 planets in the 8th house. This again shows that if this relationship flourishes, as in growing, whether or not you are lovers, then it has the potential to run deep and transformative for both of you. You might learn what it truly means, to bond at a deeper level with someone. Which also means bringing the unconscious issues to surface and face them as well.
But Uranus is square Jupiter, and Uranus/Saturn mipoint as well, so that there might be hesitation towards commitment.
Also, Saturn/Pluto and Saturn/Venus are squared to Sun/Chiron midpoint, so that coldness, harshness and cruelty might become hurtful. IP: Logged |
PrettyVirgo
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posted January 19, 2014 08:59 AM
Hi Aries. Thanks for your reply!I updated the charts without all the lines. lol My natal http://i1366.photobucket.com/albums/r762/YaaAmo/MyNatal_zps6c99970a.gif His natal
http://i1366.photobucket.com/albums/r762/YaaAmo/HisNatal_zps7462e8aa.gif Synastry
http://i1366.photobucket.com/albums/r762/YaaAmo/synastry_zps84892a20.gif Composite
http://i1366.photobucket.com/albums/r762/YaaAmo/composite_zps78477cdf.gif
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PrettyVirgo
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posted January 19, 2014 09:16 AM
He has transformed me… for the crazy! Lol But seriously, I do understand what you mean by the unconscious insecurities. You’re right on, at least on my part. Funny thing, these insecurities have to do with money and possessions (a certain lifestyle). Does that show in the charts? Is there anything in the synastry that would explain how I feel about him? I thought composite would only apply if we were in a relationship? Should I assume that he may be obsessed as well and we’re not expressing our feeling to each other because of how intense we feel? Or is it that I don’t spark any real emotions in him because his moon is unaspected in the synastry. I also noticed that his moon is unaspected in his own natal. What does this mean? I need a therapist. Haha  quote:
Originally posted by AriesLilith:
The synastry has so many lines lol, but when you mentioned karmic connection, I've noticed that your Saturn is conjunct his South Node, so some past life connection is possible.
Your Mars/Mercury/Venus fall on his 7th house, while your Sun is in Virgo which is the sign of his DC, so he can perceive you as an ideal partner.
His AC seems tighly conjunct your anti-Vertex. Vertex aspects are often meaningful, as the Vertex person is transformed by the other. It's not necessarily a romance aspect, but it shows that the relationship has potential to be very meaningful for the Vertex person, transforming the Vertex person.As for the composite, what I've noticed first is that Venus/Pluto conjunction. It's conjunct South Node, with Mars nearby, and sextile Neptune and trine Moon. There is emotional sensitivity, and a strong obsessive attraction, and there is again possibility that it came from previous life connection. Thought Venus/Pluto is a very intense aspect, and such intensity can mean that there can be too much obsession and eventual over focus on physical attraction at the expense of emotional bonding, and this might be driven by unconscious dynamics and inner issues. We might not always be aware of our inner issues and insecurities, which can drive us to feel intensively attracted or unhealthily obsessed with someone. If that's so, what seemed like a strong pull and attraction that strikes deep, can turn into something that brings these issues into surface and force you both to face them, making it uncomfortable and hurtful. Such is Pluto when its too intense.
Also, you have 4 planets in the 8th house. This again shows that if this relationship flourishes, as in growing, whether or not you are lovers, then it has the potential to run deep and transformative for both of you. You might learn what it truly means, to bond at a deeper level with someone. Which also means bringing the unconscious issues to surface and face them as well.
But Uranus is square Jupiter, and Uranus/Saturn mipoint as well, so that there might be hesitation towards commitment.
Also, Saturn/Pluto and Saturn/Venus are squared to Sun/Chiron midpoint, so that coldness, harshness and cruelty might become hurtful.
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AriesLilith
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posted January 19, 2014 05:58 PM
Hmm it feels like he might also feel attraction towards you, thought you might be the one who is more obsessed, while he might hesitate on commitment and can be cold or distant.IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted January 19, 2014 07:01 PM
personally, i don't see a great match here, certainly not to the degree that you're describing. i'm trying to figure out where such a deep attraction would be stemming from - perhaps the pluto in scorpio, or the gemini moon (you?) opposite the sag moon and uranus. that definitely gives attraction (because they are opposites and interested in examining one another), but in general the stellium in virgo is not gonna work with the stellium in scorpio over the long-term. those signs are very different, especially the venus/mercury signs - venus in virgo will be way too uptight for the scorpio energy and the scorpio will be the stronger partner here (verbally and otherwise). the huge plus of this synastry though is every single 'major' sign of the virgo person falling into the partner's 7th house. the virgo person is going to reflect traits to the scorpio that lead to them to believe this might be 'the one.' with so many planets overlayed into the 7th house the house person will (likely) be very attracted to the planet person/virgo because they seem ideal, and that'll be reciprocated because the virgo will like the attention. i don't think it has much long-term potential, but perhaps others will see it differently :-)IP: Logged |
PrettyVirgo
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posted January 19, 2014 07:21 PM
@ AriesLilithThat's what it seems like. He did tell me that he's not looking for a committed relationship now. I take that as he's not looking for something committed WITH ME obviously. And his cold and distance comes off when he doesn't answer my calls… @ starmoon I've been trying to understand where my obsession stems from as well. He's actually not my type! If I met him randomly, I wouldn't have given him a sec of my time. But, since we were out with mutual friends we were able to have conversations and now I'm here.  I know another who has a scorpio stellium and his sag moon and uranus opposes my moon. He told me that he liked me a lot, and I was attracted to him. But, nothing or no where close to the way how I feel about this guy here. And another who's a virgo with sag moon and uranus - I wasn't attracted to him at all, although he's great company. What a mystery… IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted January 19, 2014 07:28 PM
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Originally posted by PrettyVirgo:
@ AriesLilithThat's what it seems like. He did tell me that he's not looking for a committed relationship now. I take that as he's not looking for something committed WITH ME obviously. And his cold and distance comes off when he doesn't answer my calls… @ starmoon I've been trying to understand where my obsession stems from as well. He's actually not my type! If I met him randomly, I wouldn't have given him a sec of my time. But, since we were out with mutual friends we were able to have conversations and now I'm here. I know another who has a scorpio stellium and his sag moon and uranus opposes my moon. He told me that he liked me a lot, and I was attracted to him. But, nothing or no where close to the way how I feel about this guy here. And another who's a virgo with sag moon and uranus - I wasn't attracted to him at all, although he's great company. What a mystery…
natally you have all your major planets in the 7th, and since they overlay his 7th, it probably feels like the makings of a great relationship. the 7th house is all about that.
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PrettyVirgo
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posted January 19, 2014 07:43 PM
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