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posted January 18, 2014 09:45 PM            

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Subject basically sums up my question...

Intensity/passion was the name of the game & then he started pulling away & pulling the off/on card

Did he pull away for good this time?

Thanks for your time/attention

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posted January 19, 2014 08:02 AM            

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Bump - anyone? Please

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posted January 19, 2014 11:31 AM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Bump - anyone? Please

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I'm not under the impression he will stay away. Did he actually say that to you? Like: this is really it this time? If so, do not belief him, because I expect him coming back yet again. I wouldn't recommend taking him back though, because he really wants things his way only. The ace of pentacles is blocked, so that means I don't see much stability being able to enter your connection. Hope this helped.

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posted January 19, 2014 07:00 PM            

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Oh my goodness Twirl!!!! Thank you so much! He did only want things his way & it was very frustrating

He did not say anything like it was over. He never does...he just disappears for days at a time & this time it is going on a week...so frustrating! When I put my foot down and set a boundary about him disappearing on me he accused me of being childish and insecure. That really hurt me. That was the last time we spoke so I will definitely keep your advice in mind.

Thank you so much for your time...!! I sincerely appreciate it

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posted January 19, 2014 08:06 PM            

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Maybe you ask someone to do a horary chart for you?

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posted January 19, 2014 08:19 PM            

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redshoes, thank you for the suggestion.

I actually have no idea what an horary chart is... :-S

Is it like a composite chart?

What will it tell me? I would love any additional info...this roller coaster ride is one I'm quickly going to hop off of if something doesn't change quickly...

Thanks!

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posted January 19, 2014 09:41 PM            

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To be honest, its up to you to decide if its over or not. Do you want it to be off and on or not. If you do not then end it.

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posted January 19, 2014 10:11 PM            

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Canadiangirl - I completely realize that but I came here to ask insight into HIS perspective as he is not speaking to me

But yes, I do understand that completely.

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posted January 19, 2014 10:35 PM            

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I am sorry if that came across too harsh, I definitely do not mean to do that. I just do not want you to solely rely on what a reading says and think of your own well being.

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posted January 19, 2014 11:01 PM            

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It didn't at all I always appreciate feedback! It's nice to hear perspectives from outside the box

& sometimes when I see my "dilemma" written out I figure answers out on my own, lol :P

Thank you for your feed back.

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posted January 19, 2014 11:39 PM            

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I am going through something VERY similar. It's great to have a grasp on what you want; to at least give someone a "try" at an involvement. But we wind up scratching our heads, when these guys only approach their involvement with us on their terms. Sucks

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posted January 20, 2014 12:33 AM            

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Plutonian - do you have a crazy pluto transit going on too? lol

I feel so under this guy's thumb & that is not typical of me to allow this

I have pluto transiting 12H in the applying aspect so this crazy, intense pluto stuff is just beginning for me... :-S

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posted January 20, 2014 02:31 AM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Plutonian - do you have a crazy pluto transit going on too? lol

I feel so under this guy's thumb & that is not typical of me to allow this

I have pluto transiting 12H in the applying aspect so this crazy, intense pluto stuff is just beginning for me... :-S

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Interesting you mention that. With this pluto transiting 3H [where my stellium lies] this is also where his Sun & Mercury lies.

Oh the disdain!! I enjoy being around him to exchange dialogue and learn from him; it's a very "safe" and fulfilling experience as I clearly LOVE all things that deal with 3H. So he provides and stimulates me a great deal here.

When he pulls this "power" card of falling back from communication, I instantly become unnerved. I always think I can sustain some "power" when we become involved but I always come out obsessing over why he's pulled back so suddenly every single time!

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posted January 20, 2014 02:51 PM            

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Crazy!!! My guys neptune, saturn and Uranus fall in my 12 H which is where my pluto is transiting

:-S

Will we experience these relationships until the pluto transit ends? (Obviously we have free will but theoretically speaking I'm interested to know... I know this pluto transit brought him around bc he and I met right when it began...)

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