posted January 20, 2014 10:10 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Can you post a composite chart?

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Ok, sure!

posted January 20, 2014 11:34 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Taking a look at the composite, you have Mercury/Sun conjunction sextile Moon which can show compatibility, but Pluto squares Mercury/Sun from the 12th house and conjunct AC, showing unconscious/inner issues affecting the relationship and can be a major theme here. This can become hurtful and painful, and if one is not mature or is selfish, selfishness and manipulation can take over.
Saturn trine Venus on the IC can show that this relationship has affection rooted deeply, that you can be very affectionate towards each other, along with Sun/Venus midpoint square AC, while Saturn gives stability here. Also, Uranus is sextile Mercury/Sun and trine Moon, showing that together you are excited. Uranus is also square Venus/Moon midpoint, which can make the emotional connection electrical. Thought on the down side, if the electrical and excitement is too strong, it can become too unstable to fit in committed relationships, as in making commitment and sustaining the relationship on a more down to earth, routine daily life way hard.
Also, Moon is square to Neptune. This can make emotions unstable and hard to understand, making at least one of you unsure how the other feels, or even how you yourself feels towards the other. It can make a relationship hard to sustain, when feelings are not stable or sure, and you can't understand or see things clear.

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Wow, I totally agree although it spells out some very fickle feelings on both ends. I want him in my life, but honestly I only want him for all things BUT commitment. I seethe at how he comes forward with gusto and then instantly chills. Power issues on my behalf! I don't know what he wants from me b/c the words don't match with actions.

I can't imagine he's feeling deep emotions, unfortunately he's not one to fully expose such things; very hard to read. I think we both get far into our heads about one another. Fair to say we're both unstable with intentions!