posted January 22, 2014 05:28 PM            

..... that's what I'm getting anyways

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Originally posted by andstuff:

Really, if anyone has the time, I was curious if I drove a car in my past life? Planning to get a license soonish hence wondering. If I did, will this make things easier?

please and thanks and love,
L

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posted January 22, 2014 11:51 PM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by andstuff:
Hi cherful

which deck did you use? Just wondering[/QUOTE]

posted January 23, 2014 01:14 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
^ what do you use, in this case?

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posted January 23, 2014 01:30 AM            

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ok. would you mind if i asked why until recently you only requested readings, has anything happened? just curious.

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posted January 23, 2014 01:34 AM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
when I do I feel like it adds to my addiction..... I used psychics a lot I've gotten a handle on it for the most part though, so that's when I started offering

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well ok

thanks for trying and good luck. just that the other one you did for me... didn't really add up

posted January 23, 2014 01:36 AM            

what is the one where I said you were bitter?
QUOTE]Originally posted by andstuff:
well ok

thanks for trying and good luck. just that the other one you did for me... didn't really add up

hopefully someone else stops by[/QUOTE]

posted January 23, 2014 02:24 AM            

you had two questions and if you go back and read the second question it's pretty easy to pick up on some negativity more specifically I call bitterness..... and I meant that towards your view on other people and relationships etc cetera..... but not necessarily you the person so I'm not calling you a bitter person

you said something about selling their affections on eBay, and a few other things that was not coming from a loving place.

those people that you talked about I'm sure have very good value maybe not for you but for somebody else. but how you sounded made them seem like they were worthless or not worthy of a partnership with you.

and in my reading I said I totally get your frustration I have guys to that I would never think about dating. I have some guy that's a cook in a kitchen interested in me and I'm sorry that's just not going to cut it.

even though I don't have the dating life I want I'm not having a viewpoint that is negative or bitter or sitting there thinking or saying why are the guys that are not worth it attracted to me? and if you see any of my questions I'm always asking when a long standing relationship going to come..... I never say anything that's negative for bitter.

words have vibrations.... you say them from what you were thinking.... and that's what you're putting out there to the energy. so those types of comments that you made, spoke volumes.... and I don't think anybody who would have read that.... would say those comments are coming from a happy loving place or that your view was positive. unfortunately they were negative words therefor they have low vibrations. you know that saying that what you put out there is what you attract, and what you think and feel make up who you are. even when you said to me in this post...... thank you and good luck I hope somebody else stop by........... that's passive aggressiveness right there. adding I hope somebody else stop by is not coming from a loving place. do you think Katie Couric would have added that in no...... would Kate Gosselin add that in yes

it's a really interesting study about the vibrations in words. I read up on that when I was taking my psychology class so if I can recommend you read up on that I think maybe I'll get where I'm coming from. and maybe you can see how words actually affect your energy, and what you attracted to your life.

and I also talked about how someone will come into your life that's going to offer you the love that you looking for in a time is not right as you are not the person that you need to be at for this man to come in. I know you replied with something saying that you're pluto is conjunct something of yours which means it's supposed to be the person that you are........... remember I told you to look at your chart because I felt your chart had more of an influence...to look at your Mars and that causes one to be a bit more angry.

so now we know that you're Pluto is conjunt....don't forget your not going to be the person that you're supposed to be the exact date it conjucts..... it means the learning lesson and trails and errors of life have hopefully been Learnt.... and after the conjunt it takes awhile for things to fall into place and like I said its going to be a couple of years until where you are the person that you want to be..... so there's always a adjustment time, so to speak.

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Originally posted by andstuff:
yes, i think so. embittered and/or aggressive.

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posted January 23, 2014 02:44 AM            

we all have fleeting moments of whatever. i just hit my head against a low doorframe and screamed like mad due to a low pain threshold. for 20 seconds i was really angry. probably reason enough to conclude i was not in a happy loving place

you know nothing about my life and really it is weird you take it upon yourself to decide and convince me what kind of place i am in or i am not in yes i believe that people surrounding me are no match for someone who pretty much rotted away alive. so what?

posted January 23, 2014 03:31 AM            

of course we all have down moments or moments, and issues where were negative or bitter or resentful or just in a low vibration state of mind.

...... again you asked a question and I answered it honesty and with this reply you seem to be concuring what I had said..... that you had a fleeting moment in your love life. and that for a moment you were angry and not happy place...... so why you coming at me with this reply, asking such questions?

you're getting defensive and in attack mode for no reason.

sure I don't know you, I don't know your life except for what you tell me and from what I can gather from might be going on or what your state of being u might be in by your posts..... ( why would you even ask/say this to any tarot or light work reader... you do understand that you're asking for people to be giving you answers about you and your life, right? no they're not going to know you... if you feel that somebody needs to know you in order to answer your question then I suggest you don't come on a forum ....for you know one is not going to know you)

somebody that was a good place in a life wouldn't have replied in this way. when I originally I replied to you I warned you that I was going to be blunt I also use the words that I understand where you're coming from and I gave an example of my low with dating with you..... that's what a person does when they're trying to create a trusting bond and be more educational and informative. why because I'm in a good place and I want to help someone. if I was in the opposite place I would probably be rude to them and not tell them that I understand not show any compassion.

.....your replies have not at all been like that.

again the only analogy I can make is Katie Couric her happy bubbly personality....she's known as America's sweetheart.... would never replied the way you did and would not say the things you said..... but more so that of Kate Gosselins personality..... denying in attacking.

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Originally posted by andstuff:
what is your point?

we all have fleeting moments of whatever. i just hit my head against a low doorframe and screamed like mad due to a low pain threshold. for 20 seconds i was really angry. probably reason enough to conclude i was not in a happy loving place

you know nothing about my life and really it is weird you take it upon yourself to decide and convince me what kind of place i am in or i am not in yes i believe that people surrounding me are no match for someone who pretty much rotted away alive. so what?

i am sorry about your dating life. be humble and have patience, good things are worth waiting for, aren't they?

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posted January 23, 2014 03:42 AM            

Why are you trying so hard to convince me you are right and label me all sorts of things? I can't identify with your readings nor your analysis of me. So far I cannot specify if the prediction you made is accurate or not. Nothing wrong with this. We all have a different degree of talent and other things, surely this cannot be held agains anyone.

Also, I happen to be a natural-born empath and well I have a funny feeling. Like I don't understand your agenda in reading for me, something ambiguous about it. Sorry.

posted January 23, 2014 03:56 AM            

reread what you said about the the guys that were interested in you, they were negative. do you really see why its so hard on why you can't find someone who would want to be with you when thats how you treat yourself and treat others.... so that's the short of it and that the brunt of it again I was trying to be more helpful more compassionate more educational in my prior reading so I'm sorry if you thought I had an adenga.... yeah I didn't want to hurt your feelings....but let me not worry so much and tell you the short of it.

so not to be rude but to be blunt because that's what it seems you're looking for....

you're not attracting good quality people because your negative, you're bitter, and you have no self confidence, and low self esteem.

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Originally posted by andstuff:
I have no idea who all these Kates and Kathys are, sorry

Why are you trying so hard to convince me you are right and label me all sorts of things? I can't identify with your readings nor your analysis of me. So far I cannot specify if the prediction you made is accurate or not. Nothing wrong with this. We all have a different degree of talent and other things, surely this cannot be held agains anyone.

Also, I happen to be a natural-born empath and well I have a funny feeling. Like I don't understand your agenda in reading for me, something ambiguous about it. Sorry.

I said thank you for trying. And I don't mind saying this again. Thank you for trying and for making time to try. Please let me wish you luck with your future dating and spiritual efforts.

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posted January 23, 2014 04:02 AM            

and, well, may i ask what sort of background empowers you to be educational? just to double check.

and i am really sorry, but compassionate? towards me? why exactly? why are you feeling so motivated to help me? i am clueless, most people i adore reading for and exchanging with have a sweet vibe, i feel the compassion. but on this occasion... i am puzzled

because your "short of it" falls apart before it can even be assembled. not about me. sorry, you missed again.